Relationships Flashcards
Matching Hypothesis
more likely to match well with people similar to them - more attracted to those of the same demographic / values
Dunbar and Waynforth
lonely hearts
42% men want youthfulness / 44% attractiveness
women 25% youth / 22% attractive
Dissimilarity
filter theory - uncomfortable around those that are diff
Buss
survey
10,000+ / 32 countries
- women (36/37) want finance
- men (37) want attractiveness
Intrapsychic doubt
beginning of dissolution - leave normal relationship in favour of a newer one - also prevents people leaving abusive ones
duck
7 longitudinal (meta anal)
- 7 factors of dissolution
- Difference in personality
- Deception
- Child of divorce
- Different demographic
- Jealousy
- Attitudes change
- Young ages
- Lower socioeconomic status
- Relocation
sexual selection
in EEA
- physiological cues pref - as they indicate youth (fertility) / symmetry (health)
Clark and Hatfield
uni campus
- men / women asked 3 Q
- go on a date = 50:50
- go home = 6:69
- sleep = 0:75
Equity
need someone who is complimentary of their needs - gives something they need
Cole and Leets
people more likely to develop Para social Relationship with fav tv character if they are insecure resistant
Social Exchange Theory
humans = selfish and self serving
- relationships = positive / negative
- weigh up relationships (commit) based upon if they provide profit - more pos than neg
Trivers
Parental Investment
- women seek men who share (adaptive all the risk)
- Men seek many women (adaptive - no certainty)
Demographic
marriages with diff demo = more unstable over time
= yet similarities like attitudes = strongest factors (ish) in attraction
investment model
investment model attitudes towards investment = different perceptions of relationships = differentiating likelihood of committing to a relationship.
INVESTMENT = SATISFACTION
Simpson
Ps rate people’s attractiveness
- lower if in a relationship