Relationships Flashcards
Evolutionary theory
Everyone tries to find a suitable partner for offspring. Men and women look for specific characteristics. Sexual selection
Intra sexual selection
Males compete for access to the other sex
Inter- sexual selection (female choose men)
One sex chooses from a group of prospective mates according to attractiveness
Male strategies
Courtship rituals, size, sperm competition, mate guarding, sneak copulation
Female strategies
Handicap hypothesis, sexy sons hypothesis, courtship
Courtship rituals
Males showing off their genetics and physiques
CADS (variation in male strategies)
Low investment males seeking to maximise mating opportunities
DADS (variation in male strategies)
High investment males comitted to one partner
What physical attractiveness do men look for
younger women signal fertility and health
what physical attractiveness do women look for
older men and bigger resources who can provide for the family
Buss
Found that men preferred younger physically attractive females in 37 different cultures, while females prefer ambitious and older men with more resources
What does Symmetry mean for men and women
More symmetry signals higher fertility for women and more attractiveness for men
evaluations of sexual selection
It doesn’t explain homosexual, bisexual or asexual relation ships or long- distance.
Hasn’t updated with society as women are less dependent on men now
Self - disclosure as factor for attraction
Revealing of personal info about oneself. creates sense of trust
4 stages of self disclosure
- Disclosure of info
- Partner thinks we like them if reavealing personal info
- Partner reveals their own personal info
- We disclose further info
Altman and Taylor
Belived relationships are strengthened by appropriate level of self disclosure
Physical attractiveness
More important to men as women like emotional security. Men look for fertility and youth in women.
Halo effect
People who are more attractive benefit from favourable perceptions from society
The matching hypothesis Walster et al as a factor affecting attraction
Theory that people seek partners of similar physical attractivness to themselves because they believe their is less chance of rejection than if they go for someone who is deemed more attractive than them.
Filter theory as a factor affecting attraction
We dont have full access to all partners as society filters them down
Similarity of social demographic variables
Individuals with similar social demographics to us, such as where we live or work.
Similarity in attitudes
More likely to meet people with similar attitudes and beliefs. e.g. protest march
Complementarity
How much the individual meets their partner needs especially emotionally ones
Taylor et al (Filter theory)
Taylor et al found 85% of Americans who got married in 2008 where married to someone of their own ethnicities, evidencing social demographics importance
Social exchange theory
Long term rships involve partners giving and receiving items of value if this stops happening rship will fail. Based on benefits and costs we receive from our partner
Costs vs benefits
If costs start to outweigh the benefits rship is likely to fall and break down.
Social exchange theory fo cus on profit
The bigger the gap between costs and benefits the more profitable a relationship
Assessment of benefits
- The comparison level
- The comparison level for alternative relationships
Thibaut and kelleys Social exchange theory
4 stages
- Sampling - rewards and costs assessed
- Bargaining - Rships benefits and costs identified
- Commitment - Rewards/costs become predictable
- Institutionalisation - Interactions r predictable couple settles down
Equity theory
Modified SET. Based around idea of fairness in relationships. If suffering from inequity rships become dissatisfied
Walsters 4 equity principles
- Profits - rewards maximised costs minimised
- Distribution - Trade- offs and comensations negotiated
- Dissatisfaction - Greater degree of unfairness greater dissatisfaction
- Realignment - If restoring equity possible attempts will be made