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define ‘relationship’

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  • an encounter w another person // other ppl that endures through time
  • has 3 phases: beginning, maintaining, end
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define ‘sexual selection’

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  • Darwin suggested ‘species evolve thru sexual selection’
  • involved the selection of characteristics that increase reproductive success
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how do physical characteristics change

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  • thru ‘adaptive’ genes
  • they promote survival long enough for successful reproduction happen → these genes = passed to next gen
  • the less adaptive the genes, less likely to survive to then reproduce → meaning their genes = lost from genes pool {natural selection}
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what is reproductive success

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  • the ‘heart of the’ evolutionary process
  • for ancestors → successful mating = complex
    ↳ involves selection of the right mate & out-competing w rivals
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define ‘fittness’

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the ability to survive + produce (healthy) offspring

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define ‘anisogamy’

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2 sex cells // gametes that come together to reproduce –> leads to diff selection styles due to how both genders reproduce
=> parental certainty

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define ‘intra-sexual selection’

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  • found in male behaviour
  • when men compete w other males for best access for mating w females
  • their gamete is plentiful, so they don’t need to be worried about being careful –> cannot be sure of paternity
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what characteristics do men look for in women?

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  • seek physical attributes linked to fertility –> higher chances of reproductive success
    – healthy
    – youthful
    – child-bearing hips
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define ‘intersexual selection’

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  • found in female behaviour
  • how women = choose available men more careful when choosing a partner due to their limited amount of eggs & actually carrying the baby
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what characteristics do women look for in men?

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  • seek monogamy
  • men of good:
    – status
    – attractiveness
    – genetic fitness
    – status
    – resource (rich)
    – protection
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evaluate human reproductive behaviour w Buss’ study

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  • aim –> investigate if evolutionary explanations for sex differences in human mate preferences = found across all culture
  • method:
    – developed a questionnaire
    – 10,000 ppts + 37 cultures + 6 cultures
    – ppts had to rate 13 characteristics they preferred in a partner of the opposite sex & what their priorities were in choosing a sexual partner
  • results:
    – most cultures: ‘good financial prospects’ = higher in females compared to men
    – ‘good looks’ = higher in men [compared to females] in all 37 samples
    – ‘ambition + industriousness’ = 34/37 - females value more than men
  • conclusions –> sex differences w mate preferences = strongly confirmed across all cultures –> findings support evolutionary explanations of human mating

(D) susceptible to validity issues
– the partners they may describe and want to ideally be with may not be an accurate reflection of their actual partners
(D) only applies to heterosexual couples
– lacks temporal validity (outdated)

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(A) evaluate the human reproductive behaviour theory

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(A) Clark + Hatfield (1989)
- attractive stranger approaches approaches ppts of the opposite sex on an American college & asks:
– to go out w them
– to go back to their home
– to have sex with them
- results:
– 50% m+f agreed to date
– 69% m & 9% f agreed to visit home
– 75% m & 0% f agreed to have sex
- this study was repeated and similar results were given –> suggesting that high reliability of this study
- this study portrays how men supposedly feel less vulnerable compared to women
(CP) can be seen as susceptible to cultural standards
- women = seen as less promiscuous

(A) the ‘lonely hearts’ advert (1995)
- where ppl describes themselves and what kind of partner they’re looking for
- women tend to describe themselves as physical indicators of youth (curvy, exciting)
- men tend to describe themselves as more resourceful (good job, money / financially stable)
–> hence supporting evolutionary views of partner preferences (exp)
(CP) it was only in american newspapers - meaning there would be an appearance of culture bias and the results couldn’t be generalised to other cultures / countries

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(D) evaluate the human reproductive behaviour theory

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(D) can be argued that the theory of evolution is no longer applicable to modern times
- it’s more common that women are financially stable - they don’t need to depend on men
-some women don’t want children (birth-control / contraception) so men = redundant

(D) considered to be biologically deterministic
- partner references = evolutionary drives + cultural influences
- in cultures where women = still denied economic + political power states –> seek for men who have that
- assuming PP = biologically driven // evolutionary instinct = reductionist view –> don’t underestimate the important of culture

  • the theory mainly focuses on biologically factors
  • partner preferences reflect one’s evolution and culture - but the theory ignores this
  • evolution also ignores free will + choice –> ignores ‘individual differences’ (reductionist)
    – considered to be reductionist

(D) evolutionary explanations = deterministic
- assumes that: all men = motivated to have lots of sexual partners + less inclined to have long-term relationships

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the power of physical attraction

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the science of it:
- the degree to which a person’s physical features = considered aesthetically pleasing
- implies sexual attractiveness / desirability
- viewed by society as one of the most important factors
- preconceived ideas about personality attractive individual (nice + positive traits) = the halo effect

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what is the halo effect?

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  • research suggests people deem those w positive traits (intelligent // friendly // trustworthy) as the most attractive
  • mostly, attractiveness outshines other characteristics & impacts our perception of them
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what is the matching hypothesis

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  • Walster et al (1996):
    – the more socially desirable (physically // social status // intelligent) the higher the expectation they’re in a R
    – couples who are matched = more likely to have happy + long Rs
  • mainly judges by physical attractiveness
  • intial attraction = determined by comparison levels on the individual
  • Walster et al –> relationships = similar level of attractiveness
    – if they try to have someone ‘out their league’ they may never find a partner {evolutionary foolishness}
    – similar attractiveness = balance between level of competition [intra-sexual] + positive traits
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eval the matching hypothesis

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(A) research support from Walster et al (1966) ‘the computer dance study’
- 367 males + 367 females + questionnaire for partner preferences
- ptts were told they would be matched to an ideal partner -> but choices were random from a computer
– an observer also rated ppts for attractiveness
- asked if they liked their partners (@ interval)
- asked again if they would go out w them (@ end of dance)
- as predicted -> the more pretty ppl the more the partner liked em
- the more they were liked- the more rewarding the other was & the more desirable they were as a future partner
- this highlights the importance of physical attraction
(CP) but attractiveness = subjectiveness

(A) research support from Walster (1969)
- paired students for a dance & told them their partners = their ideal ppl -> but they were assigned randomly
(CP) - subjective -> of how attractiveness = rated
– likely to be based on western ideals (CULTURE BIAS)

(A) - silverman (1971) -> observed on couples innaturalistic dating settings & a panel rated their attractiveness
- more similar couples -> happier (shows more physical intimacy)

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complex matching

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  • Hatfield et al (2009)
    – individuals can sometimes compensate low attractiveness by offering other desirable traits
  • offering ‘socially desired characteristics’
  • due to this –> they can attain more attractive partners
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eval complex matching

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(A) research support from the halo effect
- palmer + peterson (2012) -> physically attractive ppl = rated more politically knowledgeable + competent > ugly ppl

(D) takeuchi (2006) suggests there’s gender diffs
- physical attractiveness of women = values heavily by men but not the other way
- lesser impact on the perception of men’s social desirability

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compare matching + complex matching hypothesis

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  • MH = over simplified + incomplete –> only focuses on physical attractiveness
    – CM = more holistic
  • CM = better explains cultural differences
    – MH = focuses on western ideals
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define self-disclosure

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  • part of sharing info so one can communicate w others in hopes you’re both attracted to each other’s qualities
  • (un)+conscious act of revealing significant info about an individual (e.g. –> thoughts // feelings // aspirations // fears)
  • leads to stronger feelings of intimacy + relationship satisfaction
  • a way of improving quality of inter-personal relationships
    – by showing trust (sharing) + respect (listening)
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characteristics of SD?

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  • occurs in dyad {it’s reciprocal}
  • info = revealed in increments
    – too much too quick = may cause discomfort {risks}
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what are the degrees of SD

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  • can be causal or intimate
  • ‘breadth’ –> range of ‘shallow’ topics (surface-level talk)
  • ‘depth’ –> goes into intimate details w info about 1 topic
    – eg –> past sexual partners
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what is the Social Penetration Theory

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  • suggested by Altman + Taylor (1973)
  • ppl reveal their inner, deepest thoughts + feelings
    – is done gradually
  • exchange = reciprocal
    – as this continues, the partners penetrate deeper into each other’s lives
    – more about the type of SD (rather than SD itself)
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eval SPT / SD

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(A) research support from Spreecher (2004)
- found strong (+) correlations between several measures of satisfaction + commitment + relationship stability + self-disclosure within heterosexual relationships
(CP) only correlations were found - no guarantee of causality –> low validity
(CP) doesn’t apply to homosexual relationships
(CP) however this research support depends on self-reporting –> may not be accurate due to social desirability bias

(A) research support from Laurenceau et al (2005)
- they analysed couples daily diary entries & found SD=linked to intimacy in married couples
- 96 couples
– both partners did these daily entries
– self-assess + partner disclosure + perceived partner responsiveness
- the diary allows them to study marital + family processes
(CP) can be seen as a breach of privacy as diary = v personal
(CP) the study only shows correlations (no causality)
(CP) can be seen as culturally bias (only used western ppts)

(D) cultural differences w SD {Tang et al}
- aimed to research sexual SD
- found ppl in USA = disclosed more info about sexual thoughts + feelings + experiences compared to China (collectivist cultures)
- the depth of SD varies culturally

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what is filter theory?

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  • assumed to be an unconscious choice to enter a relationship
    – removes romantic aspect –> more about convenience

Kerchoff + Davis (1962)
- in order for relationships to progress, they must pass thru the 3 filters:
– social demographic
– similarity of attitudes + values
– complementary of emotional needs {like love languages}
- we narrow down our choices of potential partners
- each of these filters assumes importance @ various stages of relationships

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describe the stages of filter theory

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-> social demographic (1st level)
- refers to age + religion + social class + level of education + ethnicity + geographical location
- anyone = ‘too different’ out
- most meaningful relationships = those in closest proximity
- outcome of filter = homogamy –> socially + culturally similar

-> similarity in attitude (2nd level)
- K+D –> similarity = of central @ start of relationships& the biggest predictor of stable Rs
(A) - Bryne (1997)
– has consistent findings of ‘similarity causes attraction’ {the law of attraction}
– frequent interactions exposes one another to their values + beliefs + attitudes {similar values = more attractive}

-> complementarity (3rd level)
- involves the assessment of ‘complimentary of needs’
- 2 partners complement each other when the other partner has a trait the other lacks
- complementarity = attractive because it gives 2 romantic partners the feeling that together they form a whole
- once R = established –> comp needs = most important factor

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evaluate the filter theory

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(A) - supporting evidence for social demography as a filter from Festinger et al (1950)
- observed friendships in a block of apartments for student
- students = x10 more likely to be friends with ppl in their own building
- close proximity –> frequent contact + closer friendships
- supports social demography

(A) - many people experience FT in their everyday life -> meaning that filter theory has face validity
- as people can intuitively relate to it without needing much exp as they can understand it easily

(D) - issue of causality
- FT –> ppl = initially attracted due to similarity, but evidence says this direction of causality = wrong
- Anderson (2003) –> longitudinal study that cohabiting partners -> more similar emotional responses over more time
- Rusbult (2009) -> ‘attitude alignment effect’ in LT relationships
– over time, partners bring their attitudes into line w each other’s -> suggesting that similarity is the effect of initial attraction NOT THE CAUSE
– hence, undermining FT and limiting its reliability

(D) can be argued that certain aspects of FT = outdated
- social demography = not that important due to the significant presence of online dating
– it’s easier to meet potential partners that may be outside our social demographic -> an example being long-distance couples
- the filter needs modernising as it lacks temporal val

issues + debates:
(D) - the theory can be seen as not inclusive
- it ignores biological drives [BIOLOGICAL REDUCTIONIST]-> assumes we select partners on the basis of social factors + filters only
– and not how men desire and look for the best (external) genes / attributes and women look for the best environment

  • Kerckhoff and Davis set the cut-off point for short-term relationships at 18 months, assuming that if people have been in relationships longer, it signifies greater commitment
    – [HETEROSEXUAL BIAS] However, this doesn’t apply to all heterosexual couples, nor does it describe the experience of homosexual couples or couples from collectivist cultures
    – Some couples take much longer than 18 month to establish a similarity of attitudes and complimentarity, while others skip sociodemographic filters altogether and feel they are ready to commit to long-term relationships earlier than the 18 month cut-off point. These experiences can’t be explained by the Filter Theory -> suggesting that other factors (e.g. the type of relationship) play a significant role in the initiation and development of relationships.
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what is Social Exchange Theory (SET)

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This is an economic theory of romantic relationships. Many psychologists believe that the key to maintaining a relationship is that it is mutually beneficial.

Tibult + Kelly proposed SET -> motivation to stay in a romantic relationship = the result of a cost-benefit analysis that people perform (consciously // unconsciously)

  • it’s seen as economics as it heavily uses the idea of profit + loss:
    – social behaviour = series of exchanges {when ppl receive rewards from another, they feel obligated to reciprocate}
    – each person tries to max rewards+ min costs
    – P: company, security, sexual favours, emotional care
    – L: abuse, stress, loss of independence / identity
  • this can be tracked by one’s PAY-OFF MATRICES (a mental numerical log of all P+Ls
  • ppl = motivated by rewards
  • successful: P-L = (+) output
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what are comparison levels in SET

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  • ppl assess their Rs by 2 comps:
    – CL (comparison level) & CL alt (comparison level alternate)
  • CL -> past + present relationships
    – comparisons between P+L now compared to before -> this could also include their IWM
  • CL alt -> concerned w possible alt Rs
    – comparisons of P+L of now and their possible future {what they think they could or deserve the should get)
  • if someone = satisfied in their current R -> they would be oblivious to alt Rs as they have no motivation to find someone else
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fully evaluate SET

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(A) - supporting evidence for the influence of comp levels on Rs
- simpson et al (1990) found satisfied partners in a R + told them to rate pics of ppl of the opp sex
- SET assumes we = driven by P+L & ignores we’re capable of being altruistic (opposite of selfish) -> evident w ppl who are emotionally close to someone

(D) mills + clark (1980) identified 2 kinds of Rs:
– COMMUNAL -> gives out of concern for the other
– EXCHANGE -> keeps mental record of who’s ‘behind’ [pay-off matrices]
- suggests the communal couple = not included in SET -> questions hoe generalisable the theory is

(D) nakonenzy + denton (2008) -> argue that P+L needs to be quantifiable
– many profits = emotional and therefore subjective
- also what’s seen as a profit to one may not be one to the other (eg -> like constant attention or many gifts …)
- this makes the theory subjective
- for most -> profit is less important than fairness in Rs

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(briefly) what is equity theory?

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  • mainly concerned with the maintenance of a R due to how a R = PERCIEVED
  • developed from the criticism of SET
    – SET failed to consider fairness > profit
  • ET -> if equity = not achieved -> dissatisfaction
    – aim = restore balance of perceived unfairness (can be subjective)
  • the under-benefitted = most distressed (resentment + anger + hostility) & the over-benefitted = feels guilt + shame
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how did walster contribute to the equity theory?

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walster et al (1978):
- believed that ppl see fairness > profit

  • PROFIT -> ppl try to max their Ps + min their Ls (negative experiences)
  • DISTRIBUTION -> rewards = negotiated to ensure fairness [can be done thru trade-offs // compensations
  • DISSATISFACTION -> unfair Rs produce diss –> mainly felt by ‘loser’, the greater the perceived unfairness the greater the diss
  • REALIGNMENT -> if the ‘loser’ thinks there’s a chance of restoring fairness, they’ll be motivated to restore equity (mend + maintain R by using communication strategies)
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how to manage a conflict

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  • avoid mentioning the past -> focus on finding solutions for the present
  • seek out competitions
  • don’t interrupt -> listen + reflect
  • admit when ur wrong
  • consider the other’s perspective
  • empathy -> don’t disrespect
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fully evaluate equity theory

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(A) research support -> research has correlated w R satisfaction
- stafford + canary (2006) -> surveyed married couples
results:
– low satisfaction in ppl who considered themselves to be under-benefitted
– high satisfaction for those who felt they were in an equitable R
- hence supporting ET -> equity leads to satisfaction

(A) hatfield et al (1972) provided research support
- over 500 students = interviewed about their R
- 3m later the inequitable RS = more likely to ended
– suggesting -> equity = crucial for maintenance

(D) ETHNOCENTRICM (issues + debates)
- moghaddam et al (1983)
- US students prefer equity but europeans prefer equality -> suggesting that the theory = reflection of US society
- western culture -> individualistic + voluntary + temporary
- non-western -> collectivist + involuntary (?) + permanent

(D) gender bias
- DeMaris et al (2010) argues that females = more likely to feel disturbed by perceiving themselves as under-benefitted > men
- suggesting ET more concerning for Fs - but this gender diff = ignored in ET, implying that this theory cannot be applied to both genders -> limiting its validity + reliability

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(briefly) what is the investment model?

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  • Rusbult (1980) -> deigned to describe why ppl persist / maintain on some romantic Rs but not others
  • it builds from the principles of SET {extension from SET}
  • it suggests -> Rs = not just maintained due to satisfaction, investments (ties + resources) + the qual of alts = important
    – commitment + investment > satisfaction -> when determining the likelihood of a successful R
    – satisfaction = influenced by how the partner fulfils needs

model:
S + A + I -> commitment levels -> stay or leave

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what r the 3 main factors in the investment model?

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  • SATISFACTION:
  • this depends on (+) vs (-) emotions experienced in the R & how well the other = is at fulfilling needs
    – domestic + emotional + sexual + companionship needs
    (+) should > (-)
  • QUALITY OF ALTERNATIVES:
  • refers to if one’s needs may be better fulfilled outside their current R [refers back to SET -> comp level alt]
    – if the alt partner = superior -> one leaves current R
    – alt = not present (not thought of as they = satisfied // there’s a lack of (+) alt) -> stay in current R
  • INVESTMENT SIZE:
  • these = all the resources attached to a R -> hard to divide if they break up + will be lost if the R ends
  • INTRINSIC investment -> intangible sources put directly into R (like time + effort + energy + memories + SDs)
  • EXTRINSIC investments -> strong tangible sources (house + car + kids + shared friends)
  • these investments = made if they think their R has longevity
  • more investment -> more dependence -> more commitment (stays in R)
  • commitment levels = low when unsatisfied + little investment + perceive better alts
  • commitments levels = high when high investment + satisfaction + little qual of alts
  • equity + social support (approval) = associated w commitment
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eval the investment model

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(A) real life application -> can offer explanations why ppl stay in abusive relationships
- rusbult + martz (1995) studied ‘ battered’ women @ a shelter
- found abused women = likely to stay in Rs if investment = high (like if they had kids)
- shows model can be generalised + shows how only satisfaction = not accurate predictor of commitment

(A) research support
- le + agnew (2003)
- meta-analysis of 52 studies from late 70s - late 90s
– sample = 11,000 ppts from 5 countries
- accross all studies -> sat levels + lack of alts + invest levels = (+)ively correlated w commitment -> clear support
(CP) - correlation doesn’t mean causality
– maybe [S + A + I] doesn’t cause commitment & there may be other unmeasured factors = real reason
(CP) - maybe the more committed u feel = more likely u r to invest in R

(A) appears to be universal due to (+) correlation between commitment + satisfaction, no alts + invest levels = cross culturally across individualistic + collectivist cultures -> finding = applicable to ranges of Rs (homosexual ones too)
- percieved levels of sat + invest = important to determine commitment (not acc level)
- belief of better alts can explain infidelity -> low sats in current R = higher sats in alt Rs = decs commitment + investments

(D) issues w measuring investment
- investments can be emotional -> cant rlly be quantifiable
- early R = few investments
- manys Rs plan for their future regardless of anything acc invested
– suggests that investment = oversimplified (REDUCTIONIST)

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describe the main features of Duck’s phase model of breakdown

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  • Steve Duck (1982) developed model of termination of intimate Rs -> focuses on the process (as he claims it’s not a one-off event)
    → how this process starts:
  • 1 partner = increasingly dis-sat w R
  • if dis-sat = sufficiently great → indicates the need for change → progression to the next step
  • ‘pre-existing doom’ → incompatible from the start
  • ‘sudden death’ → traumatic event (cheating // big argument)

(1) - INTRAPSYCHIC: → {dissatisfaction = internalised}
- focuses on cognitive elements → characterised as ‘social withdrawal’ + ‘resentment’ + dis-sat when focusing on partner’s faults + receiving little pleasure from R (subjective)
- [evaluating their P+Ls → mostly private + unlikely to be shared]

(2) - DYADIC:
- when partners talk abt their probs [perceived inequalities or inequity // resentment // guilt (possibly from over-benefitted) // costs of the R]
↳ results in reconciliation or termination
- communication = v important to mend R
↳ if this = poor → can trigger breakdown

(3) - SOCIAL PROCESSES: {going public}
- break-up = now public (to friends + family)
- partners seek advice + support + reassurance & alliances = made (friends pick sides)
- external ppl may partake in ‘scapegoating’ → “it’s all his fault”
- also, negotiating social implications would take place in this stage
↳ like the care of kids

(4) - GRAVE DRESSING: {addressing the story of the break-up}
- after leaving a R, ppl justify their actions when moving on
- (ex)partners must present themselves as good + trustworthy + admirable [vital for self-worth + attracting new potential partners]
- this may involve fabricating stories abt how it happened (to make it more socially acceptable) -> meaning there may be many diff stories of the break-up offered to diff ppl (friends + family)
- this process it the least emotional as they have detached themselves as they’re moving on

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fully evaluate Duck’s phase model

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(A) strong face validity + real life application
- can be applied in Rs + marriage counselling
- helps couples understand R-breakdown & gives them solutions to reverse stages
- Duck emphasises communication → this improves longevity
↳ means it has real life applications
- the process = most ppl relate to (FV)

(D) - model = incomplete + oversimplified
- failed to acknowledge the potential for future growth that’s often seen after Rs end
↳ opportunity for ppl to grow stronger (rather than weaker)

  • Duck + Rollie (2006) added a 6th stage RESURRECTION PROCESS
    ↳ addresses how partners prepare themselves for future Rs + how they move on
  • Tashiro + Frazier (2003) = research support for the updates model by D+R
    ↳ surveyed undergrads who had recently gone thru a breakup
    ↳ reported:
    → emotional distress during process
    → experienced personal growth
    ↳ it taught the students abt themselves + what they wanted from future Rs –> therefore supporting the new model

(D) model isn’t generalisable to all ages
- social phase differs depending on ages of the couple
- teens + younger ppl → believed to be less secure + stable
↳ likely to receive more sympathy from ext ppl & rarely encouraged to reconcile
- older ppl → there’s lower expectations for finding new partners
- ext ppl = more likely to rescue the R
- overall, model needs further amendments to diminish the age differences - which limit the applicability of the model

(D) culture bias
- majority of underlying research = Rs in western culture (USA)
- Moghaddam et al (1993):
↳ western Rs = more voluntarry + shorter duration [end w divorce // separation]
↳ collectivist Rs = more obligatory (often arranged by families) → divorce = more restricted, so it’s unlikely that the process of breakdowns = same cross-culturally

(D) Akert (1998) found:
- partner who didn’t make decision = most miserable {levels of depression + anger + loneliness + anger
- person that made the decision to end the R = most powerful predictor of the dissolution + found break-up least upsetting + painful + stressful
↳ but they reported guilt + unhappiness & but overall less (-) symptoms than the partner that was less responsible
- hence → model = fails to account for individual diffs

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virtual relationships: what is SD like in virtual relationships?

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  • typically higher levels of SD in VR
    ↳ barriers / gates = removed → more personal info = revealed online (in comparison to F2F Rs
  • Jourard (1971) → BROADCASTING SD
    ↳ explains the diff between disclosure to a romantic partner & sharing personal info in a public sitch (like social media)
  • public: presenting an edited version of the self → best image so people think better of them
  • Walther (2001) [HYPER PERSONAL MODEL] → online Rs develop quicker & when developed = more intensity + excitement [hence why the greater degree of SD]
  • online Rs = likely to end quick → due to excitement doesn’t match trust -> {BOOM + BUST phenomenon}
    ↳ rapid intimate SD leads R to be v intense
  • due to boom + bust; SD = quick (partners = ‘hyper honest’)
    ↳ more intense+ intimate
    ↳ also end quicker (little trust + high excitement)
    → easier to SD + be authentic due to anonymity + absences of gating
  • Sproull + Kiesler (1986) [REDUCED CUES THEORY]
  • cues = physical appearance (body language) // emotional state → lacking in online Rs
  • can lead to a person losing their identity + acting diff
  • CMC (computer mediated communication) = involves aggressive + blunt communication → possible reluctance in SD
    → VRs = less effective due to the lack of non-verbal cues -> cues help to understand behaviuor + emotions → W/out this it can lead to de-individualisation (anti-social behaviour when they believe they cannot be personally identified) + disinhibition (unrestrained behaviour - can come across as rude / offesnsive due to a disregard of cultural constraints) - may then lead to less SD
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gating in VR

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  • gating = feature / obstacle that may interfere w the development of a R (F2F)
    ↳ examples of gating = shy // social anxiety // self-esteem issues // insecurities // being unnatractive
  • Mckenna + Bargh (1999) argue that online Rs have advantage of absence of gates
  • absence of gating causes one to pursue a R ( that’s quicker + deeper) {boom + bust}
    ↳ may explain why the rate of progression is > F2F
  • anonymity that the internet provides → person’s true self = seen more in online Rs [more anonymity = more SD]
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fully eval virtual relationships

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(A) Rosenfeld + thomas (2012)
- studies 4000 US adults
- found: adults w internet @ home = likely to in R
↳ even when factors (religion // age // sexual preferences) = controlled → adults w internet = 2x as likely to be in R
(CP) lack population validity
↳ all american ptts → sole use of Western culture → data = not generalisable
↳ lack temporal validity → now everyone has access

(A) Baker + Oswald (2010) argue VR = helpful for shy ppl
- surveyed M+F abt their shyness + facebook usage + qual of their friendshisp
- shy ppl = greater usage of FB + (+) correlation for quality friendships {not seen for confident ppl}
- ppl who lacked social skills = attracted to VRs
↳ suggests practical real-life application as a form of therapy (overcoming social obstacles) → they learn social skills that can be useful in formations of real-life Rs
(CP) there’s only (+) correlation → no definitive causality
(CP) temporal validity (no-one young rlly uses FB)

(A) Strong research support from bio reasoning perspective
- Tamir + Mitchell (2012) found: when ppl talk abt themselves, 2 areas of the brain = activated - that are associated w rewards
- suggest that SD + share personal info over social media may stem from a biological basis + rewarding nature of SD

(D) VR may not be separate from F2F
- ppl who SD on FB have real life relations w some online friends
- online dating = only when 2 stranger SD
↳ close online Rs mau progress to F2F interactions
- therefore → there’s many levels of VRs
↳ separating them from F2F Rs = problematic
→ as they become interlinked

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what are parasocial relationships (PSRs)

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  • one-sided Rs where one expends large amount of emotional energy + interest + time but the other = unaware of their existence
  • the large media presence gives the illusion that the fan has F2F R w celeb
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what’s the main model for PS Rs?

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aborption-addiction model:
- McCutcheon (2002) proposed the AAM to explain PS Rs
- suggested that ppl engage in celeb worship as compensation
↳ difficulty forming intimate relationships intimate Rs // poor psychological adjustment // lack of identity // escaping mundane realism
- forming PS Rs allows them to achieve the fulfilment they lack in everyday life & adds a sense of purpose excitement
→ looking for satisfaction → person focuses on the PS Rs & achieving a sense of fulfillment motivates them further - hence, becoming more attatched [ABORPTION]
→ the sense fufilment = addictive → one engages in more risky (stalking) to get mentally + physically closer to their celeb [ADDICTION]
- unlike real Rs, PS Rs don’t have the risk of rejection

  • they conducted research on 262 ptts from Florida & developed 3 levels of celeb worship
    -> entertainment (social)
  • most ppl engage in parasocial Rs -> most say @ 1st level
  • celebs = source of entertainment (gossip)
  • least intense stage
  • -> intense (personal):
  • intense level of R w celeb
    – eg -> may see themselves as a soulmate & have intense interest in celeb’s personal life
  • typical behavior for teens
  • -> borderline pathological
  • takes celeb worship to an extreme
  • measures levels of uncontrollable feelings + behaviours
    – has obsessive fantasies abt the celeb + spends lots of £ for memorabilia + may engage in illegal activities (stalking)
  • belief that the feelings = reciprocated if given the chance to meet the celeb
  • most intense level of PSRs
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evluate the AAM

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(A) Kaminer (2005) reported that ‘love’ for a celeb may compensate for the absence of genuine romantic attachments
- hence supporting the AAM as it suggests PSRs = way of dealing w loneliness + escapism

(A) Maltby et al (2003)
- AAM links w mental health
- found: ppl who scored in the entertainment scale = likely to be extraverted
- ppl that scored in intense = likely to be rated as neurotic
- ppl that scored in borderline pathological = sign of psychotic personality types

(D) methodological issues w supporting issues
- most research = questionnaires
– allows info to be collected quickly -> but can be susceptible to social desirability -> hence lacks validity
- common finding:
– the more educated one is = less likely to worship celeb
– the more aware one is that that celeb worship = frowned upon –> ppl = less willing to admit such behaviour
- hence, any diff may be due to self-report instead of acc behavioural diffs

(A) supporting research that PSRs = similar feelings to norm Rs when they end / break-up (compensation)
- Eyal + Cohen (2006) -> studied 279 students that were fans of a popular show
- the intensity of their PSR w their fav character = strongest predictor of how they felt when the show ended
- suggests PSRs can compensate for feelings of loneliness

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attachment theory a an explanation of PSRs

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  • the tendency to form PSRs in adolescence + adulthood depending on attachment difficulties from childhood [using bowlby’s attachment theory]

→ insecure resistant types {clingy → due to emotional void created by PCG}
- most likely to develop PSRs as they need close emotional Rs
- these ppl fear rejection + no return of needs + desires for intimacy
- they turn to celebs
↳ this = safer → reduced fear / risk of rejection as PSR = 1-sided (as celeb = unaware)

→ insecure avoidant types
- trust + intimacy issues → diff to form Rs
- least likely to engage in PSRs that create closeness / affection {+ IRL}
- they avoid all risks of disapproval & unlikely to seek them from real or fictional ppl
- deep fear of rejection + disapproval

→ secure types
- no need / desire for PSRs → less likely to develop one
↳ as their emotional needs were met
- they were raised w F2F + loving Rs
- no needs for additional Rs → often satisfied w IRL Rs

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eval attachment theory as an explanation

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(A) PSRs can be somewhat biological in nature
- Shmid + klimmnt (2013) investigated cultural diff in PSRs toward harry potter
↳ 2 cultures: germany (individualistic) + mexico (collectivist)
- despite diffs between cultures → both grps display similar patterns of PSRs
- online survey → common w their lives + films & admired potter
- demonstrates that some celebs have a universal influence (cross-culturally)
↳ suggests PSRs = not culturally learnt
- suports attachment theory
↳ bowlby argues the need to attach = innate + adaptive

(D) attachment theory as exp = not conclusive
- McCutcheon et al (2006)
↳ found PSRs = as common in secure adults + insecure adults
- fails to support prediction that PSRs = due to insecure attachment types + childhood experiences