RAPID Flashcards
Will people answer the confrontational question?
Many people won’t.
What does R in RAPID stand for?
Reconcile (the reality that they aren’t there to get information)
What does A stand for?
Agenda (Setting the agenda)
What does P stand for?
Pain. (Probe for the pain)
What will happen right after you ask the confrontational question?
(Mostly) You’ll get the avoidance conversation.
They won’t want to confront the question.
What is the avoidance conversation?
The avoidance they’ll do to avoid the confrontational question - to avoid confronting the pain - and avoid interacting with you.
When people avoid the confrontation, what three options do you have?
- Be nice to them. Acquiesce and settle in and be nice.
- Confront / argue with them.
- Let them clearly see where they are - let them stand in the confrontation - and let them see the gap between where they are and moving forward - and asking them whether this is really where they want to be.
Kevin doesn’t recommend the first two.
What does D stand for?
Decision. (Get a decision).
Right out of the gate, you need to establish that you’re going to have a conversation that they’ve not had before by…
Having them acknowledge the truth of what is.
Someone’s work with you begins with what…?
The Strategy Session.
In the Strategy Session, they need to confront the reality of where they are before they can what?
Make choices and thoughts and decisions about moving forward or not.
Don’t be tempted to tell them about what?
Yourself, your cool program, your cool process.
Prospects are not there to get what?
Information.
If they say they don’t have the money, you have to have them confront what?
Whether they are serious about their business and their life.
If you are in the business of helping people overcome their problems, you probably know what?
What the stereotypical problems are.
People don’t want your cool training. They want what?
To have their problem solved.
Don’t avoid their what history of what?
Failure.
If people present an alternate remedy (e.g., a training course), you can ask them what?
How many times have you invested in something like that before? What have you done in the past? Has it been something that you’ve been successful with? (If they have, then chances are they’ll continue to be successful based on your feedback and advice, but if not then they should take that to heed and realise that if they don’t make some significant strategic change, then things are unlikely to show up vastly differently than they have in the past).