Quizzing Flashcards
What does NLP stand for?
Neuro-is having to do with the mind or the brain
linguistics-is suggesting at the mine has a structure in the way communicates NLP tools help you understand the language of the mind.
programming -once you understand the language of the mind you can change your mind
The present state>desired state model
The purpose of an NLP is to move from your present state or mindset if it’s useful to do so
Identify 3 stuck states
Present stuck state; I feel frustrated with my partner interrupts me.
Desired state; I want to feel curious with my partner interrupts me. This would lead me to remain calm and get more options like wondering what he was going to say.
Present state stuck I go blank when it’s my turn to talk in a group.
Desired state; I want to be in a state of clarity but what I want to say in a group
Sensory acuity =?
Sensory acuity refers to our ability to be aware of internal and external surroundings. Sensory refers to the five senses that we use in discovering in exploring new information. Acuity reverse the level of awareness we achieve..
Behavioral flexibility =?
Your ability to change what you do is based on the feedback you get is your level of behavioral flexibility. The more flexible you are, the more choice you will have. Flexibility is gained by applying new knowledge and finding new applications of previous knowledge.
States of excellence/physiology
Are behaviors largely determined by the psychological state were in at any given time. Problem behaviors flow from our mental or emotional state. And I’ll P include strategic way to transform problem states I need to problem behaviors.
-curiosity - defining versus exploring
Exploring is driven by curiosity and attempt to expand an idea. Defining is driven by pragmatism and is intended to reduce an idea into something useful. NLP was created through exploration. It was proliferated through defining.
What are the presuppositions of NLP
1- communication is redundant.
2- the meaning of your communication is the response that you get.
3 -people respond to their map of reality not reality itself.
4- requisite variety; the element in a system with the most flexibility will usually be the controlling element.
5- people work perfectly.
6- people always make the best choice available to them at the time; but usually there are lots of other better ones.
7- every behavior is useful in some context.
8- choice is better than no choice.
9- anyone can do anything.
10- people already have all the resources they need.
11 -there’s no such thing as failure, only feedback.
12- chunking anything can be accomplished by anyone if you break the task down into small enough chunks.
13- positive intent.
The V.AK. Model
Visual auditory kinesthetic
Visual predicates
Look observe perspective picture right illustrate see show point seeing red clarity looks appears clear disappear farsighted features focus for see hindsight delusion inspect keen
Auditory predicates
Audible Babel buzz drowning drumming earshot echo grumble harmony he’s here loud loud listen mumble murmuring screech silence in tune with ring a bell whispering clear as a bell
Kinesthetic predicates
Feel bounce caress catch clutch vibes wrong way run through stumble upon toss around iron out hit me like a brick get in touch rack your brain ants in your pants tickle tension tinder soft nudge play poke hold hustle grasp
Eye accessing cues
Visually constructed up to the right there constructing images they have not actually seen before.
Visually remembered up into the left they are generally accessing pictures that they have actually seen before.
Auditory constructed looking sideways to the right generally hearing something they have heard before.
Auditory remember look sideways to their left they are generally hearing something they have heard before.
Kinesthetic when people look down to the right they are generally generally accessing emotions or bodily sensations.
Auditory digital when people look down to the left they are generally talking to themselves in their own voice.
The six elements of rapport
One. Match the modality Two. Matching mirror physiology. Three match the voice and language. Four match the breathing. Five match the size of pieces of information to use chunk size. Six match their common experience
Determining your rapport level
To standard ways to determine your level.
Calibration. To test whether you were in rapport with someone you can become aware of the reactions to your communication.
Pacing and leading. Another way to determine if you have reports by noticing how the others communication changes as yours changes. If you notice someone following you Ie, constantly lifting their class just after you do , then you’re leading them .this is a sign of report