Psychology - Relationships - Theories of romantic relationships - Social exchange theory Flashcards
Who proposed the social exchange theory?
Thibault and Kelley (1959)
What does social exchange theory assume?
That romantic partners act out of self interest in exchanging rewards and costs.
According to SET, when is a satisfying and committed relationship maintained?
When rewards exceed costs and potential alternatives are less attractive than the current relationship
What is SET based on?
economic assumptions of exchange where we minimise losses and maximise gains
What do rewards in a relationship include?
Beneficial things like companionship, sex and emotional support
What did Blau (1964) say about relationships?
Can be expensive, costing time, stress, energy and compromise. As well as this it costs opportunities
Which two ways do we measure profit in a romantic relationship?
Comparison level and Comparison level for alternative
Comparison level
amount of reward you believe you deserve, based on self esteem.
What develops our comparison levels?
Experiences in previous relationships which feed into the expectations of our current ones.
what is CL influenced by?
social norms within a culture what is widely considered to be a reasonable level of reward
CLalt
comparison level for alternatives
comparison level for alternatives
The second measure of profit providing a wider context for our current relationship. “could we gain more profit from another relationship with less costs and more rewards?”
What does Social Exchange Theory predict about alternatives in relationships?
We will stay in our current relationship so long as we believe that it is more rewarding than alternatives
How many stages does Thibault and Kelley’s Social Exchange Theory describe?
Four
What are the four stages of Thibault and Kelley’s Social Exchange Theory?
Sampling stage, Bargaining stage, Commitment stage and Institutionalisation stage
What is the first stage of Thibault and Kelley’s Social exchange theory?
Sampling stage
Sampling stage
We explore the rewards and costs of social exchange by experimenting with them in our own relationships, or by observing others doing so.
What is the second stage of Thibault and Kelley’s Social exchange theory?
Bargaining stage
Bargaining stage
This marks the beginning of a relationship, when romantic partners start exchanging various rewards and costs, negotiating and identifying what is most profitable.
What is the third stage of Thibault and Kelley’s Social exchange theory?
Commitment stage
Commitment stage
As time goes on, the sources of costs and rewards become more predictable and the relationship becomes more stable as rewards increase and costs lessen.
What is the fourth stage of Thibault and Kelley’s Social exchange theory?
Institutionalisation
Institutionalisation stage
Partners now settled down because the rewards and costs in a relationship are firmly established.
What are the strengths of Social Exchange Theory?
- Evidence to support it from Gottman (1992) - Applications to couples with problems from intergrated couples therapy (2000)