psychology of human relationships Flashcards
interpersonal
outwards, other people
intrapersonal
self
Buss (1989)
women value money
men value looks
Shackelford et al (2005)
cross cultural
women value status
men value looks
Boxer, Noonan, and Whelan (2015)
both genders value finance
and desire for children
Buss et al (2001)
over time men and women are becoming more similar
- chastity (refraining from NSFW shit)
- domestic skill
USA
Fisher Aaron Brown (2016)
- love is like an addiction like gambling etc.
- fMRI shows that it activates the anterior cingulate cortex
oxytocin
plays a part in first stage of human, animal, parent-infant bonding
neuroendocrinology
study of hormones
Gottmans Four Horsemen
- stonewalling- galloping away
- criticism- attacking the character of the person
- contempt- disrespect, mocking, sarcasm
- defensiveness- claimed to be an innocent victim
collectivism vs. individualism
collectivism- identity as a group
individualism- self identity not in relation to a group
MHC genes
the scent,
women prefer MHC genes that are different from theirs
dirty shirt study (Wedekind et al, 1995)
men were just as likely to prefer men’s scent to a woman’s (Wedekind and Furi, 1997)
McDonald, Navarrette, and Van Vugt (2012)
Male warrior hypothesis
- in order to protect and have reproductive partners, men are evolutionarily predisposed to engage in intergroup conflict
Cikara, Botvinick, and Fiske (2011)
cognitive explanation to intergroup conflict
AMPRCE
De Dreu et al (2010)
oxytocin
- can lead humans to sacrifice themselves for the ingroup
- may lead to defensive aggression