Positivity Flashcards
Importance of happiness
- Longer life (35% less likely to die in next 5 yrs)
- Increased self worth
- Sexually selected trait
- Contagious - people who are happy boost chances that people around them are.
Norman Cousins
Laughed himself better from ankylosing spondylitis
What makes us happy
- Marriage for women
- Education above high school
- IQ between 120 and 129
- Money only when you don’t have a lot of it.
Money and happiness
People with above-average income are barely happier in moment-to-moment experience; people with under 20k a year, however, are a lot less happy than people who earn 90k+. People who earn a lot do not spend more time in particularly enjoyable activities and are stressed. People exaggerate effects of $$$ because that’s how they evaluate lives.
Money makes people happiest when they have more of it than others in their bracket
Who we spend our money on
Spending money on others makes us happier than on ourselves
Speaking about ourselves
Makes us happy, so much so that we pay for it
Optimism bias
Causes people to believe that they are less at risk of experiencing a negative event than others. Think positively about future events. Can be bad as it prevents people from taking measures to protect health.
Traumatic events
After a year, lottery winner and paraplegic are about the same. That is because of the psychological immune system, which protects people from experiencing extreme negative emotions for long periods of time. Impact bias makes people overestimate the length and intensity they will feel a certain way. They also feel “focalism” - ignore influences of other factors that will minimize the event’s impact. Mechanisms of psychological immune system act without conscious awareness
Impact bias for memories
We overestimate the impact of past events on our happiness - overstate how happy we were over certain events
Lust and happiness
Viewing pictures of lovers increases activity in reward areas.
In male ejaculation, activity in the ventral segmental area increases.
Babies and happiness
The cuter the baby, the more area in reward areas. May to be to promote human caregiving regardless of kinship
Benefits of laughter
- A signal of trust/cooperation
- Health - cardiovascular and immune systems
- Sexually selected - attractive
- Socially beneficial
Suls’ Incongruity Theory
Humor arises when logic and familiarity are replaced by things that don’t normally come together (expectancy violation)
Zygomatic major
Laughter is associated with this muscle - activating this muscle can affect the feedback loop going back to your brain, making you feel happier
Neurology of Laughter
Can stimulate reward centers to make people laugh. Laughter activates the same brain regions as cocaine.