phallic

Question 1

what is the phallic stage

Answer 1

-kids develop a hatred towards the same-sex parents
-the libido focuses on the gentials

Question 2

what does the phallic look for males

Answer 2

-they develope an oedipus cpmplex towards their mother
-strong desire to posses their mom
-start hating their father and desire to get rid of them.
-However, they fear their fatherwill find out about their desire towards their mom and they will castrate them. [CASTRATION ANXIETY]

Question 3

what if the phallic stage is succesful for male

Answer 3

-the boy will resolove their conflict with their dad and takes on a manly role after him.
-respects BOTH genders

Question 4

what if the phallic stage is unsuccesful in males

Answer 4

-has obession with their mother
-becomes violent towards other women
-sees other men as competition

Question 5

What does the phallic stage look like in females

Answer 5

• females develop and electra complex, obessing over their father and hating their mothers
• girls will have penis envy thinking that it has power and creates dominance, desiring to have one
• girls have hatred towards their moms because they believe they castred them

Question 6

what if the phallic stage is succesful is girls

Answer 6

-identity with their mother in fear losing her love

Question 7

what if the phallic stage is unsuccesful in women

Answer 7

-women have penis envy for the rest of their lives
-inferority complex towards men