Pastoral Counseling Final Flashcards

1
Q

People in need of a counselor may choose a Pastor because it is

A. Respectable
B. Affordable
C. Available
D. All the above

A

All the above

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2
Q

Which of the following is not listed as a reason for Pastoral Counseling in the notebook

A. Reduce time invested
B. Reduce Pastoral cost
C. Reduce suffering
D. Effective problem solving

A

Reduce Pastoral cost

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3
Q

Praying before a session;

A. Prepares you spiritually
B. May provide guidance and wisdom
C. May be assigned as homework
D. All the above

A

All the above

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4
Q

We should use scripture only after ______________ the problem

A

Understanding

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5
Q

Scripture should be used not to condemn but to outline a new ________________

A

Direction

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6
Q

Using small groups may provide useful ________________ and encourage _____________ between individuals that are facing common issues

A

Information, interaction

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7
Q

The pastor should oversee ___________ attendance

A

Church

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8
Q

Boundaries should be established including;

A. The Appearance of propriety
B. Limit counseling load
C. Time limits
D. All the above

A

All the above

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9
Q

Child abuse must be reported to authorities. True of false

A

True

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10
Q

Contemplation of _______________ and contemplation of _____________ should also be reported to authorities

A

Suicide, homicide

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11
Q

Counseling shapes our preaching by;

A. Helps us select topics
B. Helps identify the emotions of a text
C. Is a source of illustration
D. All the above

A

All the above

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12
Q

Preaching influences our counseling by;

A. May provoke listeners to come for counseling
B. People are inspired to expect answers in counseling
C. Pastor should counsel for decision
D. All the above

A

All the above

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13
Q

Three types of abuse include _________, ___________, and ___________

A

Physical, sexual, and emotional

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14
Q

Schizophrenia is a ______________ disease

A

Physical

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15
Q

Questions a counselor should ask himself

A. Does the client need the New Birth?
B. Does the client need a spiritual intervention?
C. Is this a case for psychotherapy?
D. All the above

A

All the above

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16
Q

Two types of potential counselees that a pastor should avoid counseling are those with ___________ compulsions and those with serve personality _____________

A

Sexual, disorder

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17
Q

Among the cases particularly appropriate for pastor include; people with _____________ about God and suffers from ________

A

Distortion, guilt

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18
Q

Women usually offer more ____________ than you need and _________ offer less than you would like to have

A

Information, men

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19
Q

Men tend to wrestle more with problems in their ____________ and women tend to struggle more with ______________

A

Career, relationships

20
Q

_______________ are more important to women and __________ are more important to men

A

Emotions, opinions

21
Q

In personality men are usually more _______________ and women are more ____________

A

Narcissistic, neurotic

22
Q

In counseling women often put ___________ before thoughts and men may put _____________ before their feelings

A

Feelings, thoughts

23
Q

In family counseling know that every problem has a ______________

A

Context

24
Q

What does the word “triangled” refer to

A

When people try to get help for somebody else that might not have asked for help

25
Q

Which of the following is not a goal of premarital counseling

A. Establish relationship
B. Go to Florida
C. Express counseling expectations
D. Uncover misconceptions about marriage

A

Go to Florida

26
Q

Give an example of a non-negotiable value

A

Faith, truth

27
Q

A budget is an example of a modifiable ___________

A

Value

28
Q

Name three vital areas of compatibility concerning Apostolic faith

A

Church attendance
Standards
Giving

29
Q

Which is not included in the list of reasons to marry

A. Companionship
B. Partnership
C. Battleship
D. Reproduction

A

Battleship

30
Q

A primary goal of premarital counseling is to strength them in their ____________

A

Decision

31
Q

A husbands primary needs include: _____________ fulfillment, recreational ____________, domestic ___________, and ________________

A

Sexual, companionship, support, administration

32
Q

Which is not a top five emotional need for wives

A. Affection 
B. New bass boat 
C. Conversation 
D. Financial support 
E. Family commitment
A

New bass boat

33
Q

Which are basic objectives of marriage counseling

A. A controlled release of tension
B. Increase understanding of each other
C. Refocusing on individual responsibilities
D. All the above

A

All the above

34
Q

Four important principles for marriage from Genesis 2:23-25 include: leave, _________, unity and __________

A

Cleave, transparency

35
Q

List four surprises that a couple might encounter in a marriage

A
  1. Unfulfilled expectations
  2. Disappointing sex
  3. Faulty communication
  4. Unhealthy relationships
36
Q

List six things that can undermine a marriage

A
  1. Busyness
  2. Religion
  3. Value differences
  4. Money and debt
  5. Boredom
  6. Conflicting needs
37
Q

The effects of martial problems may include:

A. Confusion, despair and hopelessness 
B. More conflict 
C. Desertion 
D. Divorce 
E. All the above
A

All the above

38
Q

Counseling children is a twofold effort involving both the _______________ and the _______________

A

Children, parents

39
Q

To make a difference with adolescent one must: practice proven _____________, rely on sounds ______________ theology, seek the guidance of the Spirit of _________

A

Principles, biblical, God

40
Q

Counseling teens one must: _______ like one, be an expert ______________, challenge gross ______________________ in conversation and be comfortable with _______________ subject

A

Acting, listener, generalization, delicate

41
Q

Needs of the elderly include:

A. Need their personal losses named
B. Address mental and physical loss leaving as much control as possible
C. Value their life experiences for the wisdom they hold for those who follow
D. All the above

A

All the above

42
Q

Name four important factors in counseling infertility and pregnant

A
  1. Affirm their self esteem
  2. Look for martial stress
  3. Link them with a supporting group
  4. Recognize the impact of pregnancy loss
43
Q

List four important attitudes when counseling the terminally ill

A
  1. Demonstrate appreciation
  2. Give permission to express anger
  3. Extend relief from guilt
  4. Offer theological assurance at the right time
44
Q

Statistics state that on average a story of child abuse will be reported _______ times before an action is taken

A

9

45
Q

What percentage of sexual abuse occurs within the family? _________

A

80%