Parenting Styles Flashcards
It’s an ongoing process of helping children learn to control their basic impulses expresses their feeling channel their frustration and solve their problems
Guidance
When children understand the reason of rationale for limits, they are more likely to comply and abide by them furthermore, teaching children the “why” of a limit helps them internalize and learn the rules of social living
Offer straightforward explanation for limits
When adults observe children in their activities they are in a better position to anticipate potential difficulties and step into prevent problems
Scan
Adults who work with young children need to develop tolerance for a certain amount of noise flutter and attention seeking behaviors
Ignore minor incidents
It’s based on the belief that any means of child guidance should focus on building up a child’s self-control rather than solely focusing on a behavioral outcome
Positive guidance
We must also realize that a child’s behavior is not really a reflection on us and our abilities as a parent or teacher but
A reflection of the child’s choice
Not a matter of achieving good display of behavior through fear or threats instead of gaining self-control the child gives more and more control to the adult in an attempt to avoid punishment or display of anger
Positive guidance
Relationship is indulgent low in control attempts
Permissive parenting
Is the extent to which parents attentionally poster individual self-regulation and self-assertation by being attuned supportive and ecquiescent to children’s special needs and demands
Responsiveness
Punishment instead of discipline
Authoritarian
Freezing limiting up positive way focuses on what to do rather than what not to do for example it’s time to put the blocks away rather than don’t leave the block on the floor
State limits in a positive rather than a negative
Example of focus on the behavior rather than on the child
It’s not safe to climb on tables rather than you naughty boy
Expect children to raise themselves they don’t devote much time or energy into meeting children’s basic needs
Uninvolved
Example of state what is expected rather than pose question
It’s time to tidy up now rather than do you want to tidy up
In this time and energy into preventing behavior problems before they start
Authoritative