Openers Flashcards
Makeup opener
Can a girl say when another girl is wearing a makeup?
Incident: Most girls these days wear makeup
Intersting all guys said no and girls said yes
Hook: Are you wearing makeup? I’m sure you are still pretty..
Set up date
How do you tell someone you’re not interested without hurting their feelings?
Incident: any girl you don’t like but she likes you
My friend is trying to set me up with her friend. . and she’s cute but just not my type what should I say?
Read emails
Incident: My phone got hacked and i think it was my ex lover, Russian hackers
Hook: You would totally forgot that
Text message breakup
Incident: Ashmita and you?
Engaged friend
Incident: Vicky and gayatria
Fight like tom and jerry
Hook: like you and me
Drunk “I love you”
Do you think drunk I love you’s count?
Incident: saurav and his drunk days
Got drunk and msg her I love you and in the morning took it back
My take… When you say things you are afraid to say… but you actually mean it… So he probably meant it.. but need some time to be sober
Break up with a friend
Can you break up with someone who is just a friend?
Incident: Asmita and her last msgs (without spoiling friendship)
A friend who calls and texts 25 times a day… Like a bad girlfriend or a stalker…
How do you break up with a friend?
You can’t say be like let’s just be friendsm because that’s exactly you don’t want anymore.. any ideas?
Long distance relationship
Incident: Bumble date from Pune and I’m here in Bangalore
Looks or personality
What’s important looks or personality?
Which would you want to keep? Looks or personality?
Incident: how would you get a guy’s attention if you didn’t have looks?
In a survey, 79% of women said that they would keep personalities .. but looks are important as well… Who is going the most drinks…
She was gorgeous so she had all the guys spend their weeks wages on her…
But if she didn’t have looks then nothing would have worked
Although we fall for personality, attraction attracts us in the first place
How would you get a guy’s attention if you didn’t have looks?
You are such a seductress… I’m staying away from you…
Scale of 1 to 10
Incident: The location/work
Hook: high five/spin
My friend likes you
Incident: notice eye contact and body language of boys in her presence
Hook: Good practice to talk to you
Female Friendly Topics
Expert opener
Debate with the expert
Debate topics:
Relationship
Social dynamics
Popular culture
Music
Movies
Open ended debate question
Agree and Compliment push/pull
Add: story/survey for extra grounding
