Never Split the Difference Flashcards

1
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Acting out subtle clues back to a person to build rapport

A

Mirror

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2
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X

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Labeling

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3
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Unknown unknowns that provide leverage multipliers. Require tactical digging to find.

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Black swans

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4
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How many black swans does Voss suggest you seek?

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Three

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5
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What kinds of numbers should you use for your offers?

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Odd numbers - they seem precise and calculated

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6
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How prepared should you be for a nego?

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Very!

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7
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What are the open ended questions that are intended to illicit (a certain reponse)?

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Calibrated questions

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8
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Start a calibrated question with (___) or ___

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What

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9
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Start a calibrated question with ___ or (___)

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How

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10
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Don’t hold assumptions. Test ___

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Hypotheses

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11
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___. It. Down.

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Slow

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12
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To battle the voice in your own head, make the other person your

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Sole focus

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13
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___ clears obstacles, builds rapport, and allows reasonable discussion to ensue

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Tactical empathy

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14
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A negotiation isn’t a battle. It’s

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A discovery process

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15
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Voice type 01

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Positive and playful, with a smile. A good humor. Used most of the time.

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16
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Voice type 02

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Late night fm dj radio voice. Used to soothe, come off as reasonable, take control in an inoffensive manner.

17
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Voice type 03

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Aggressive voice. RARELY used

18
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X

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X