Never Split the Difference Flashcards
Acting out subtle clues back to a person to build rapport
Mirror
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Labeling
Unknown unknowns that provide leverage multipliers. Require tactical digging to find.
Black swans
How many black swans does Voss suggest you seek?
Three
What kinds of numbers should you use for your offers?
Odd numbers - they seem precise and calculated
How prepared should you be for a nego?
Very!
What are the open ended questions that are intended to illicit (a certain reponse)?
Calibrated questions
Start a calibrated question with (___) or ___
What
Start a calibrated question with ___ or (___)
How
Don’t hold assumptions. Test ___
Hypotheses
___. It. Down.
Slow
To battle the voice in your own head, make the other person your
Sole focus
___ clears obstacles, builds rapport, and allows reasonable discussion to ensue
Tactical empathy
A negotiation isn’t a battle. It’s
A discovery process
Voice type 01
Positive and playful, with a smile. A good humor. Used most of the time.