Never Split The Difference Flashcards

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Labels are simple and effective

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Labels are simple and effective

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It seems like

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It seems like

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It sounds like

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It sounds like

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It looks like

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It looks like

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It feels like

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It feels like

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You seem like

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You seem like

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You sound like

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You sound like

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You look like

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You look like

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Leave I out

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Leave I out

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The word I can cause an interruption

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of the other sides thinking.

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Labels can be used to gather information

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at times better than questions.

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Label Vs Question Example

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Label Vs Question Example

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What are you thinking about this?

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What are you thinking about this?

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It seems like you’re giving this a lot thought.

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It seems like you’re giving this a lot thought.

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It seems like you’re thinking about something here.

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It seems like you’re thinking about something here.

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It seems like you saw some things you liked.

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It seems like you saw some things you liked.

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You can almost do an entire negotiation with labels

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You can almost do an entire negotiation with labels

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Labels increase your odds.

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Labels increase your odds.

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Negative labels

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Negative labels

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It seems like you hate X

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It seems like you hate X

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It seems like you dislike X.

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It seems like you dislike X.

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It seems like you despise X.

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It seems like you despise X.

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It seems like X is a problem for you.

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It seems like X is a problem for you.

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It seems like you have disdain for X.

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It seems like you have disdain for X.

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Labeling Negatives Is A Negotiation Superpower

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Labeling Negatives Is A Negotiation Superpower

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Negatives have 3 to 9 times the impact on decision making.

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Negatives have 3 to 9 times the impact on decision making.

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Labeling negatives

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diffuses negatives.

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Don’t deny the negative

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label it.

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The NO Question

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The NO Question

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Is now a bad time?

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Is now a bad time?

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Would it be out of the question?

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Would it be out of the question?

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Is it ridiculous?

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Is it ridiculous?

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Would it be impossible?

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Would it be impossible?

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Is it a bad idea?

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Is it a bad idea?

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Am I out of line?

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Am I out of line?

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Have you given up on?

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Have you given up on?

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The secret to gaining the upper hand in negotiation

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is giving the other side the illusion of control.

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The key to power negotiations

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is deference.

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Deference

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respect shown for another person esp. because of that person’s experience, knowledge, age, or power.

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Mirroring

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Mirroring

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Repeat the last (or critical) 3 words​ of what someone else has said

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Repeat the last (or critical) 3 words​ of what someone else has said

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I need the quarterly report on my desk by the end of the day.

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End of the day?

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I need it for my 1 o’clock meeting tomorrow.

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1 o’clock?

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I like to review it beforehand, so that I’m prepared for the meeting.

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Prepared for the meeting?

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NO Simulation

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NO Simulation

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Do you feel like your organization has reached peak productivity?

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Do you feel like your organization has reached peak productivity?

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Are you hoping that productivity will improve on its own?

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Are you hoping that productivity will improve on its own?

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Are you against having a hard look at our technology

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to see how we could improve your overall performance and actually save you money in the long run?

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