Narnia/Gender Unit Flashcards
How girls communicate
Through their feelings
How guys communicate
Through their actions
What do girls value
Security
What do boys value
Freedom
Who is more competitive
Boys
Girls wants
To find the one
Boys wants
To make their own choices in the relationship and to feel special
Girls fears
Being alone
Boys fears
Rejection
Why promiscuity will get you no where
If some one changes who they are they attract the wrong people who don’t want them/they attract the wrong people
What love is not
A feeling
Definition of love
Choosing the greater good for the other person
Tepst of love in a relationship
How they treat each other
Difference between a stereotype and a generalization
A seriotype is saying all people are this way
A generalization is generally all people are this way
3 types of boundaries
Physical
Emotional
Behavioral
How do the boundaries get broken
Push comfort level, over involved, bribes, controlling, tyres to get you to break rules
Most effective way to stop abuse
Tell trusted adult
Other ways to stop abuse
Tell police
What to do if a friend tells you that they are being abused
Tell trusted adult, encourage them to tell trusted adult, go with them
Abuser tricks
Mixed messages, tells is no one will believe them, look trust worthy infont of parents and other adults, threaten to hurt family members, pry on lack of knowledge, black mail victims
For types of abuse
Physical
Sexual
Emotional
Neglect
Definition of violence
Using force or aggression (to achieve goal)
Cycle of abuse
Normal behavior, fantasy, set up, abuse, guilt, excuses
Factors that contribute to an abusive relationship
Power differential, isolation, dependence, vulnerability, lowered style esteem for both parties
LEARNING DIFFERENCE IN HOW AND GIRLS
BOYS : Shorter verbal segments Agenda Hydration GIRLS : Clarity in grading Praise and positive feed back Self reflection
Who is more personal?
Girls
