Module 9 Flashcards
What is domestic violence?
Any violence between family members
What is intimate partner violence/dating violence?
Any violence or mistreatment that a partner experiences a the hands of a marital, common-law, or dating partner; including ex-partners
What is most research on IPV and DV on?
Most DV is predominantly adolescence and most research is heteronormative
What did Whitfield et al show?
Was a surgery with 88,975 college students in US that showed that there are higher rates of all types of IPV among LGBT students, the highest rates among bisexual and transgender students.
This is because
* don’t want to out a partner
* More complex issues
* Inherently different
○ Look different
○ What does abuse look like?
○ Don’t have good models
* Conflict can rise when someone’s gender identity doesn’t fit into the others view
* Lots of risk values
○ High levels of childhood trauma
Substance use
What did Beaupre, Burczcka & Conroy show?
25% of all violent crimes reported to police involve IPV
80% of IPV victims are women
Between 2005-2015 the highest risk ages were 25-29
IVP is more common in dating relationships, although this may be a reporting issue
What are the 4 types of IPV?
Physical - Beating someone, Chocking, Pushing shoving, Grabbing your wrist
Emotional
Sexual
Financial - Taking money, never giving it back, Controlling what they can or cannot spend, Using money to manipulate the situation, Not letting them work
What is the definition of emotional/psychological IPV?
When a person uses words or actions to control, frighten, or isolate someone or take away their self-respect. Often starts with more subtle types of emotional/psychological abuse and manipulation
What are examples of emotional/psychological IPV?
Has at it’s goal manipulation and control. These behaviors are not done by accident, in order to be violence, it is done with intention to exhort control
Humiliation/criticism - making jokes about you in front of their friends; being mean under the blanket of constructive criticism; belittling you so you feel smaller then, doubt yourself
Gaslighting - lying, creating a story that makes someone question the truth; making someone question their own perception/reality; manipulating your memory, knowingly; a continued behavior
Isolation - not letting you see friends or family; I had a bad day, I’m the only one who loves you; silent treatment
Coercion - making you responsible for how they feel, saying they will break up with you
Control/monitoring - telling who you can or cannot go; having your passwords and location at all times; cannot go out at certain times
Chaotic behavior - one moment being loving and care then the next being angry and mean; looking to escalate certain situations so they will do whatever they can to stop it from happening again
Love bombing - creating a strong dependence on a person; obsession; purpose is to blind you from seeing the other red flags; can happen before or after a negative incident; family and friends love them
Is emotional/psychological IPV illegal in Canada? If not, where is it illegal?
No, the Canadian criminal code only has uttering threats; harassment
In the UK, they added s. 39 of Domestic Abused Act in 2015. This make “coercive and controlling” behavior illegal. In order to find someone guilty it must:
Behavior must be related or continuous
Most occur between people who are personally connection
Have a serious effect on victim (i.e. must fear violence on at least 2 occasions; or substantial adverse effect on their day to day)
Perpetrator must know (or ought to have known) that their behavior would have serious effect on victim
Prior to 1983, what was the sexual assault law in Canada?
Rape was the only level and was defined as non-consensual penetrative sex between a man and a woman, when the woman is not the man’s wife. This was invasive and not inclusive and meant that the woman had to disclose the rape very soon after it happened to proved that the penis entered her
What is affirmative consent?
An enthusiastic yes, without other variables, between both parties; should be no question, no intoxication (unless it is the same levels), responsibility is on the party initiating; continuing to check in; there’s no guessing game
What types of behaviors are necessary to ensure consent?
Asking if things are alright, continuing to be aware of body language, not pressuring them
Does consent change within long-term relationships?
Yes and no; it should always be given however it may no longer be necessary to continue to verbally ask every time; you have more conversations on what it will look like and their boundaries
What did Newsroom et al show?
Gave a list of nonverbal (Implied) consent vs verbal (affirmative consent)
Nonverbal:
Direct eye contact
reciprocal acts
pulling someone closer
Verbal
Direct question
Indicating what you like
Checking in
Also showed that women prefer verbal; men prefer nonverbal
What does the Criminal code of Canada say about consent, what does it rely on, and when does it say there is no consent?
Consent must be given freely and voluntarily.
Relies on the idea that one is comfortable saying no and know that it will be respected, which is not true.
There is NO consent when:
It is given by someone other than the complainant
Complainant is unconscious
Complainant is incapable of consenting
Complainant is pressured or coerced by a person in a position of trust of authority
Complainant, having consented, no longer want to continue to engage in sexual activity