Module 8 Flashcards
As we’ve discussed throughout this course, children develop in context. One of the most important contexts in which they develop is the _________ context.
relational
Humans are a social species and we are dependent on each other for survival. As young children, we rely on our families to take care of our basic needs, teach us about the world, and let us explore and develop within it. As we develop, we branch out from the family environment and increasingly rely on our peers for social support.
Dr. Diana Baumrind research (1966) described what three distinct parenting styles?
authoritative, authoritarian, and permissive.
Maccoby and Martin (1983) expanded Baumrind’s work by adding what 4th parenting style?
Rejecting-Neglecting
Describe the Authoritative parenting style.
High in both responsiveness and high in behavioural control.
Parents typically set limits and enforce rules, but also explain their reasoning behind it. They both love and limit their children.
Parents respect children and listen receptively to their requests and questions.
Authoritative parents commonly balance behavioural control and responsiveness by allowing children to make choices within the parents’ standards. For example, do you want carrots or broccoli for the supper vegetable tonight?
Describe the Authoritarian parenting style.
High in behavioural control, low in responsiveness.
Parents have absolute control over their children and value unquestioned obedience.
Parents try to control children’s behaviour and attitudes.
“Bad” behaviour is punished, while affection and praise are rarely given.
This type of parenting is very militarian, where parental word is law. For example, rather than explain their decision-making, parents might respond with “because I said so!”
Describe the permissive parenting style.
High in responsiveness, low in behavioural control.
Parents have lax discipline – there might be rules but they are rarely enforced and parents rarely give punishments or consequences.
There are few demands placed on children, and children are generally considered to be “the boss”. The relationship is very indulgent.
Parents generally have a “kids will be kids” attitude, and may view their role as more of a friend than a parent.
Describe the rejecting-neglecting parenting style.
Low in behavioural control and low in responsiveness.
Parents are disengaged – they have very little involvement in the child’s life.
Parents are usually more concerned about their own problems.
For example, parents rarely know what the child is up to or where they are, and give them little guidance.
What are the Developmental Correlates of authoritative parenting style?
In children: Higher adaptive skills, More competent, popular with peers, Less antisocial behaviour
In adolescents: High social and academic competence, Self-reliant, Adaptive coping skills
Why?
Authoritative parents act as role models and exhibit the same behaviours they expect from their children. Because of this, their kids are more likely to internalize these behaviours and exhibit them as well. Consistent rules and discipline allow children to know what to expect from their behaviours.
These parents tend to exhibit good emotional understanding and control. Their children also learn to manage their emotions and learn to understand others.
Authoritative parents also allow children to act independently. This teaches kids that they are capable of accomplishing things on their own, helping to foster strong self-esteem and self-confidence.
What are the Developmental Correlates of authoritarian parenting style?
In children: Lower in social and academic competence, less happy, lower self-confidence, boys tend to be more impacted than girls.
In adolescence: More ineffective coping strategies, Higher rates of delinquency, depression, aggression, and alcohol use.
IMPORTANT:
The negative outcomes above are generally only found in WEIRD cultures. It is not appropriate to impose Western parenting norms on other cultures.
Ie: among Chinese parents and children, this parenting style is NOT linked with negative outcomes. This is because in this cultural context, high control is related to high warmth. In other words, parental strictness is often viewed as a sign of love and care in Chinese culture.
Authoritarian parenting also tends to be more common in low SES environments. This may be related to differences in beliefs about parenting or education levels, but is also likely a product of the environment. For example, if you live in an unsafe neighbourhood, it is very sensible for parents to exert more control over their children in order to help keep them safe.
What are the Developmental Correlates of permissive parenting style?
In children: Impulsive, low self-control, Higher externalizing problems (e.g., aggression, rule breaking).
In adolescents: More school misconduct, Higher rates of drug and alcohol use.
Notice how this parenting style is not related to issues with happiness or self-confidence. Why do you think this is the case?
What are the Developmental Correlates of rejecting-neglecting parenting style?
In children: Disturbed attachment in relationships, Difficulties with peer relationships.
In adolescents: More antisocial behaviour, internalizing problems, substance abuse, risky sexual behaviour, Lower academic achievement.
Rejecting-neglecting parenting is associated with the worst outcomes for children across cultures.
Children of which type of parents tend to be the most well-adjusted in terms of competence, antisocial behaviour, and self-confidence?
a) Authoritarian
b) Permissive
c) Rejecting-Neglecting
d) Authoritative
d) Authoritative
Imagine that you have a 5-year-old who has gotten into trouble for hitting their younger sibling. What type of parenting would this response be an example of:
“Hitting isn’t very nice. How can we apologize to your sister?”
authoritative
Imagine that you have a 5-year-old who has gotten into trouble for hitting their younger sibling. What type of parenting would this response be an example of:
“Go to your room now!”
authoritarian
Imagine that you have a 5-year-old who has gotten into trouble for hitting their younger sibling. What type of parenting would this response be an example of:
Laughs off the hitting incident.
permissive
Imagine that you have a 5-year-old who has gotten into trouble for hitting their younger sibling. What type of parenting would this response be an example of:
Does not notice the hitting incident.
rejecting-neglecting
In 1961, married families accounted for 91.6% of census families. By 2011, this proportion had declined to _______.
67%.
(mostly due to the increase in common-law families - note that we didn’t even measure these types of families in early versions of the census!).
The proportion of lone-parent families has approximately ________ since 1961.
doubled.
(8.4% to 16.3%).
4 out of 5 lone-parent families are ________.
male or female?
Female.
In the 1960s, the average age of first marriage was 22 years for women and 25 years for men. In 2008, these ages increased to _____ years for women and _____ years for men.
29, 31
Canadian divorce rates peaked in what year?
1987, during which time 50% of marriages ended in divorce.
(This increase was related to changes in the law, making it easier for couples to get divorced.)
What is the current divorce rate estimate in Canada?
35-42%
Additionally, more people remarry or cohabit post divorce, creating more complex family structures.
Should couples stay together for the kids?
It depends. Divorce is stressful for most children in the short-term. In the long-term, longitudinal research indicates that children of divorce are less well-adjusted across social, emotional, and behavioural domains.
Moderator affecting impacting the strength of the relationship between divorce and negative outcomes for children (at both the child and parental levels) include: when parents avoid making children feel caught in the middle, maintain high-quality relationships with both parents (especially the non-custodial parent), and use positive, cooperative, and respectful parenting strategies, the negative impacts of divorce are reduced.
The effects of divorce also has many confounds, particularly marital conflict. This leads to the question of whether it is better to stay in a conflictual, married relationship, or a non-conflictual divorced relationship. While this is challenging to study, the research suggests that the parental relationships with the least amount of conflict are best for children’s development.
Divorce also is associated with other factors that negatively contribute to child development. For example, divorce often means that children have reduced or no contact with the non-custodial parent. Divorce can also result in a change in socio-ecomonic status (especially for women), as parental resources are no longer combined.
Approximately ______% of all Canadian couples are same-sex, with one third of these couples in married relationships.
1%
Approximately _______% of Canadian same-sex couples have children, compared to approximately half of mixed-sex couples.
12%
True or False?
Children raised by LGBTQ+ parents have similar adjustment levels as children raised by opposite-sex parents.
True.
Unfortunately, there is mixed research on how children with LGBTQ+ parents are accepted by other children. Children with LGBTQ+ parents may face verbal discrimination or bullying at school related to the gender- or sexual-identity of their parents.
Today, the total fertility rate in Canada is ~______.
1.6.
This rate refers to the number of children that a woman is likely to have over the course of reproductive years, based on age-specific fertility rates.
the Canadian “baby boom” peaked in _______ when the total fertility rate in Canada reached 3.94 children per woman.
1959
1971 was the last year that Canada reached the replacement level of fertility – what does this mean?
That each couple had approximately two children and could essentially replace themselves in terms of population growth. This means that Canada is increasingly reliant on immigration for population growth.
Why has Canada seen such declines in fertility?
The factors are mainly related to social and economic changes in our society.
It used to be economically advantageous to have many children to help support family enterprises like farming – now, having more children usually means more costs (e.g., daycare), as most adults now work outside of the home.
Other contributing factors include societal changes related to women’s reproductive rights and access to divorce.
Research consistently indicates that it is relationship ______________ that is the biggest predictor of children’s outcomes.
quality (not quantity or structure)