midterm Flashcards
communication:
a process by which information is exchanged between individuals
forms of communication:
- face to face
- verbal
- nonverbal
- written
- electronic
- music + art
why we communicate:
- physical needs
- identity needs
- we interact for pleasure, affection, escape, companionship, relaxation, control
linear communication:
one way communication in which the message flows from sender to receiver
-one way track
transactional communication:
- unique human process
- communicate WITH someone
- complex and reciprocal
- communicator not sender
- back and forth
bad communication is:
- dismissive
- condescending
5 principles of communication:
- can be intentional or unintentional
- is irreversible
- its impossible not to communicate
- is unrepeatable
- has content and relational dimensions
misconceptions of communication:
- more communication is not always better
- successful communication does NOT ALWAYS have shared understanding
- a single person/event does not cause a certain outcome
- communication does not solve all problems
interpersonal:
communication with yourself
internal dialogue
interpersonal:
sending and receiving of communication between two or more people
impersonal:
based on social roles
informal and superficial
on the surface convos
characteristics of competent communication:
- wide range of behaviours
- ability to choose appropriate behaviours
- cognitive complexity (this about it from all sides)
- empathy
- self monitoring
- commitment
motivation:
willingness to communicate with others
tolerance for ambiguity:
makes it possible to accept equivocal and sometimes incomprehensible messages
metacommunication:
refers to communication about the verb and nonverbal messages that communicators send to one another
-communication and communication
the self:
3 dimensions:
- social self (comparison)
- spiritual self
- material self
Self concept:
- subjective description of who you are
- contains values and beliefs
- influences; age, gender, education, media, culture, illness
Values:
what is important to you
-ideas/principles that guide you
self esteem:
part of the self that evaluates our worth
influences: biology, nature, and nurture, events (death, loss)
low self esteem:
need positive external experiences to counteract the negative internal feelings and thoughts
- tend to view life negatively, resulting in belief they are worthless, hopeless, unmotivated
- unrealistic expectations
- poor coping skills (destructive)
- tend to stay in unhealthy relationships
high self esteem:
positive thoughts
- assertive
- able to form secure and honest relationships
- realistic in expectations
- more resilient and better coping skills
self-fulfilling prophecy:
never ending cycle of; others beliefs about us, cause others actions towards us, which reinforce our beliefs about ourselves and influence our actions towards others
identity management:
public vs private self
- deliberate vs unconscious decisions
- online vs in person persona
- physical appearance
communication and the self:
self-analysis relates to interpersonal communication
-what you think about yourself both reflect and affect your communication with others
personality:
characteristic ways that you think you behave across a variety of situations
characteristics of self-concept:
- is subjective (its our own beliefs)
- can be distorted (unrealistic)
- there is no perfection in self concept
- social expectations influence self concept
how to change your self concept:
- have a realistic perception of yourself
- have realistic expectations
- have the will to change
- have the skills to change
diversity:
all the potential things around us
gender:
refers to the social, psychological and behavioural expectations that are placed on us by society
sex:
biological dimensions on which we are defined as female or male