midterm Flashcards

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communication:

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a process by which information is exchanged between individuals

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forms of communication:

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  • face to face
  • verbal
  • nonverbal
  • written
  • electronic
  • music + art
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why we communicate:

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  • physical needs
  • identity needs
  • we interact for pleasure, affection, escape, companionship, relaxation, control
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linear communication:

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one way communication in which the message flows from sender to receiver
-one way track

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transactional communication:

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  • unique human process
  • communicate WITH someone
  • complex and reciprocal
  • communicator not sender
  • back and forth
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bad communication is:

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  • dismissive

- condescending

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5 principles of communication:

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  • can be intentional or unintentional
  • is irreversible
  • its impossible not to communicate
  • is unrepeatable
  • has content and relational dimensions
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misconceptions of communication:

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  • more communication is not always better
  • successful communication does NOT ALWAYS have shared understanding
  • a single person/event does not cause a certain outcome
  • communication does not solve all problems
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interpersonal:

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communication with yourself

internal dialogue

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interpersonal:

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sending and receiving of communication between two or more people

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impersonal:

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based on social roles
informal and superficial
on the surface convos

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characteristics of competent communication:

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  • wide range of behaviours
  • ability to choose appropriate behaviours
  • cognitive complexity (this about it from all sides)
  • empathy
  • self monitoring
  • commitment
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motivation:

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willingness to communicate with others

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tolerance for ambiguity:

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makes it possible to accept equivocal and sometimes incomprehensible messages

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metacommunication:

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refers to communication about the verb and nonverbal messages that communicators send to one another
-communication and communication

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the self:

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3 dimensions:

  • social self (comparison)
  • spiritual self
  • material self
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Self concept:

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  • subjective description of who you are
  • contains values and beliefs
  • influences; age, gender, education, media, culture, illness
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Values:

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what is important to you

-ideas/principles that guide you

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self esteem:

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part of the self that evaluates our worth

influences: biology, nature, and nurture, events (death, loss)

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low self esteem:

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need positive external experiences to counteract the negative internal feelings and thoughts

  • tend to view life negatively, resulting in belief they are worthless, hopeless, unmotivated
  • unrealistic expectations
  • poor coping skills (destructive)
  • tend to stay in unhealthy relationships
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high self esteem:

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positive thoughts

  • assertive
  • able to form secure and honest relationships
  • realistic in expectations
  • more resilient and better coping skills
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self-fulfilling prophecy:

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never ending cycle of; others beliefs about us, cause others actions towards us, which reinforce our beliefs about ourselves and influence our actions towards others

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identity management:

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public vs private self

  • deliberate vs unconscious decisions
  • online vs in person persona
  • physical appearance
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communication and the self:

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self-analysis relates to interpersonal communication

-what you think about yourself both reflect and affect your communication with others

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personality:

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characteristic ways that you think you behave across a variety of situations

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characteristics of self-concept:

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  • is subjective (its our own beliefs)
  • can be distorted (unrealistic)
  • there is no perfection in self concept
  • social expectations influence self concept
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how to change your self concept:

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  • have a realistic perception of yourself
  • have realistic expectations
  • have the will to change
  • have the skills to change
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diversity:

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all the potential things around us

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gender:

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refers to the social, psychological and behavioural expectations that are placed on us by society

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sex:

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biological dimensions on which we are defined as female or male

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self imposed prophecy:

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occurs when your own expectation influence your behaviour

32
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other imposed prophecy:

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where your actions are governed by the expectations that others have for you

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characteristics of identity management:

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we strive to construct multiple identities

  • identity management is collaborative
  • identity management can be deliberate or unconscious
34
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perception:

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process where we assign meaning to the world around us

35
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selection in perception processing:

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first stage, where data is chosen to attend to or ignored

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organization of perception processing:

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stage that involves arranging data in a meaningful way

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perceptual schemata:

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cognitive framework that allows individuals to organize data that they have selected from the environment (physical, interaction, psychological)

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interpretation

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= selection + organization

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factors that influence interpretation:

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degree of involvement, past experience, assumptions, attitude, knowledge, self-concept, relational satisfaction

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factors that influence perception:

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media, age, hunger, fatigue, halo effect, gender, culture, assumptions, first impressions

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selection:

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the data to which we attend to

-motives also influence what is selected from our environment

42
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interpretation :

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attaching meaning to sense data

-plays a role in virtually every interpersonal act

43
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negotiation:

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occurs between and among people as they influence one another’s perception and try to achieve a shared perspective

44
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common tendencies in perception:

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attribution

  • we judge ourselves more charitably than others
  • we cling to first impressions
  • we assume others are similar to us
  • we are influenced by the obvious
45
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empathy:

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ability to recreate another persons perspective

46
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perspective taking:

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an attempt to understand the viewpoint of another person

47
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empathy is emotional:

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helps you build a connection

48
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sympathy:

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means you feel compassion for another persons situation from your own perspective

49
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cognitive complexity:

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ability to construct a variety of frameworks for viewing an issue

  • offer several explanations
  • connection with empathy
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semantic rules:

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governs the meaning that is assigned to words

-dictionary meaning of words

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equivocal language:

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consists of words that have more than one commonly accepted definition
-refers to word orders/phrases

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relative words:

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gain their meaning through comparison

-slow, fast, pain, stupid, short/long

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static evaluation:

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statements that contain or imply the word “is” leas to the mistaken assumption that people are consistent and unchanging

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abstraction:

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vague and unclear language

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behavioural language:

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refers specifically to things that people do or say

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syntactic rules:

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governs the grammar of a language

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pragmatic rules:

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help us understand how a message is to be interpreted within a context

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denotative:

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dictionary meaning of a word

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connotative:

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refers to what a particular word or phrase means to you

60
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naming and identity:

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names shape the way others think of us, the way we view ourselves and the way we act

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language and sensitivity:

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person-first approach; you do not identify the individuals by the group to which they belong, or by anything like that; promotes inequality (use inclusive language)

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affiliation:

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how we speak can also build and demonstrate solidarity with others; alter speech, vocabulary, choice, politeness when speaking to people

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convergence:

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process of adapting one’s speech style to another

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divergence;

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speaking in a way that emphasized their differences

-using professional terms to demonstrate knowledge and how different they are

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power:

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can be overbearing or be seen as confident; dynamic

-need to be able to be polite and powerful

66
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fast-inference confusion:

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opinions or conclusions based on a speaker’s belief; assumptions are presented as if they are fact

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emotive language:

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appears to describe something but really announces the speakers attitude towards something

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nonverbal communication;

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body language, vocal cues, touch, appearance, physical space, environment

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body orientation:

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degree in which we face towards or away from someone with our body

70
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posture::

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the way we carry ourselves

71
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gestures:

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movement with our arms and hands

72
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types of listening:

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passive, active

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benefits to listening:

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builds trust, broadens approach, strengthens patience, increases knowledge, helps solve problems

74
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what makes a good listener:

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active in trying to understand what is going on, involved in nonverbal skills

75
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elements of active listening:

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hearing, attending, understanding, responding, remembering

76
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hearing:

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sound waves enter through the ear to the brain; passive ash