midterm Flashcards

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Family forms

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Two-parent biological family
Single-parent family (primary parent/ solo mother)
Blended family
Extended or intergenerational family (Intentional/fictive/voluntaristic)
Committed partners or small groups

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Working wives/mothers

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What are the four types of working mothers? These are the captives, the conflicted, the copers, and the committed.

dual income
single moms

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Family developmental theory

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Families grow and change over time.
Eight stages in the family life cycle.
Married couple: no children.
Child-bearing family.
Family with preschoolers.
Family with school children.
Family with adolescents. 
Family as launching center.
Middle-age family.
Aging family.
We accomplish certain developmental tasks over time. 
Problem: cannot really fit families into a box.
However, there is a general direction families move in.
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International Family Strengths Model

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Focuses on family strengths instead of deficiencies.
Strengths can be learned/developed.
Appreciation and affection.
Communication.
Commitment.
Spending time together.
Spiritual well-being.
Effective coping with stress and crises.
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Systems theory

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Family members are interdependent.
Many subsystems
Children
Husband and wife
Parents
A change in one system creates a ripple effect through the others.
MC  Parenting behaviors  Child behavior problems.

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Structural-functional theory

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Family is a structural piece of society.
Contributions to society (e.g., children, money) in order to maintain it.
Family functions:
Common residence
Economic cooperation
Reproduction
Sex
Socialization of children
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Symbolic interaction

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Family members are varied and interact differently with one another.
We assign roles to play in the family.
Example: father, mother, daughter, son.
Bidirectional influences.
My mother.
Self-image.
Perception matters!
How we view events that occur within the family.
We choose actions based on our interpretations of others’ actions.
John Gottman

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sex

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Determined by biology/ genetics: Male and Female

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gender

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Personality traits and behavior that characterize masculinity, femininity, or somewhere in between

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gender role

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Outward expression of male/femaleness

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gender identity

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Personal internal sense of male/femaleness; how you feel inside.

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12
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transgender

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Feeling that biological sex does not match gender identity

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transexual

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Someone that has changed their gender through medical intervention

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Parental identification and modeling

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When a child internalizes and adopts parental values

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Influence of media on gender

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Popular ideas in society are expressed through media. Children that are heavy watchers of TV generally have more stereotypical views of what is masculine and what is feminine.

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Social learning theory

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Emphasizes that exposure to social learning theory such as parents, TV, school, and peers is what communicates what it means to be masculine or feminine
Central to this theory is the emphasis on masculinity being something boys develop and femininity being something girls develop.

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Cognitive developmental theory

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gender cannot be learned until a certain age in their development is reached.
Between 3 and 5 gender constancy occurs where the child begins to conceive of themselves as a boy or a girl only and uses social cues

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Gender schema theory

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We hold Specific frameworks for how males and females should look and behave.
If Mario wore a pink dress, would he be as believable of a hero? If Princess Peach wore pants and carried a weapon, would you be as likely to see her as a victim?

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Social structure/cultural theories

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belief that appropriate gender behaviors are learned. differences are supported because of power, social structure, and status in question.

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Evolutionary theories

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States that men and women are best adapted to their biological functions.

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Biological theories

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States that differences in hormonal levels and brain activity influences differences between males and females which accounts for differences in behaviors and preferences.

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Gender stereotypes

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Personality traits
Women = passive.
Men = confident and aggressive.

Domestic behaviors
Women = childcare.
Men = household repairs.

Occupations
Women = secretaries.
Men = doctors and construction.

Physical appearance
Women = small and graceful.
Men = tall and muscular.

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23
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Egalitarian marriages

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A relationship based on equality rather than roles defined by gender. There is shared power and shared work.

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Gender-role congruence

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Agreement between partners’ gender-role expectations and their performance.

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Role ambiguity

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This is the uncertainty felt when choosing a gender role.

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Androgyny

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This is a blending of male and female characteristics and roles; especially, a lack of gender stereotyping with respect to roles.

27
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Categories of singles

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Voluntary temporary
Voluntary stable (permanent)
Involuntary temporary
Involuntary stable (permanent)

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Living with parents (trends)

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Due to college, unemployment, divorce, and birth.
In 1940 this reached a high near the end of the Great Depression. About 18 million adults age 18-34 lives with their parents.

29
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Challenges faced by single parents

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Multiple roles 
Decreases in leisure time   
Financial issues
Childcare expenses (sick care).
Problems in parenting
Quality time and quality relationships.
The relationship with one parent suffers even if both parents are around.
30
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Who is physically attractive?

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Proximity: We tend to like those who live and work near us.
Familiarity/Exposure, or repeated contact, with someone usually increases our liking for him or her.
we like characteristics that suggestfertility and health.

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Traits that are considered physically attractive

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Body type (.7 waist to hip ratio women (70%wider hips).9 men)
women: “baby-faced” features such as large eyes, a small nose, and full lips, prominent cheekbones, narrow cheeks, and a broad smile.
average and symmetrical dimensions

32
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Personality and social factors in mate selection

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reciprocity- Like those who like us
Desirability 
Balance theory  suggests that we prefer consistency and symmetry in our relationships
Similarity- Age, race, sex(ual preferences), religion, and social class
Attitudes and values
Personalities
Demographic
Attitudes and values
Personalities
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Barriers: liking those we can’t have

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Reactance- when people lose their freedom, they strive to regain it.

Romeo and Juliet effect-he more parents interfere with their romances, the more love teenagers feel for their partners.

Closing time effect

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Barriers: liking those we can’t have

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Reactance- when people lose their freedom, they strive to regain it.

Romeo and Juliet effect-he more parents interfere with their romances, the more love teenagers feel for their partners.

Closing time effect

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How we define love

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Large concept, many dimensions.

36
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Romantic love

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Strong emotions.
Affection and passion.
“Takes my breath away.”
Strong desire for physical contact .
Sexual attraction.
Altruism.
Limerence. excitement/obsession
37
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Conscious love

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Rational.
Based in reality.
No false sense of who the other is.
The romance doesn’t blind us.

38
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Romantic love

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Strong emotions.
Affection and passion.
“Takes my breath away.”
Strong desire for physical contact .
Sexual attraction.
Altruism.
Limerence.
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Erotic love

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Sexual attraction.

Biologically based.

40
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Dependent love

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Dependent on fulfilling your partner’s needs.

Ex: Why children love their parents.

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Friendship love

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Similar to companionate love.
Based on commonalities between two people.
Less intense and emotional = more supportive.
More enduring relationships.

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Altruistic love

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Unselfish.
Focused on another.
An activity rather than affection

43
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Consummate love

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Most complete.

All three elements present: intimacy, passion, commitment

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Limerence

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excitement/obsession

45
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Needs theories

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We want a partner who will satisfy our needs.
Complementary needs:
Nurturers seek those who need nurturing.
Dominant individuals seek those who are more submissive.
Achievers seek those who like to bask in their success.
There is not too much support for this theory.

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Developmental Process theories

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Many factors are used in mate selection.
1. field of eligables
2. Propinquity- Geographical nearness.
3. Attraction
Women look for men with intelligence and ambition.
Men look for women who are physically healthy and attractive.
4. Homogamy/Heterogamy
5. Compatibility
Temperament, values, attitudes, and habits.
6. Filtering
How we decide who to date.

47
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Homogamy vs. Heterogamy

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Choosing a similar mate vs. choosing your opposite. (We tend to like people who are like us.)

48
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Endogamy vs. exogamy

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same race,class vs. different race,class

49
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Patterns of cohabitation

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60% of married couples lived together first

-does not generally effect marriage plans

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Patterns of cohabitation

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60% of married couples lived together first
-does not generally effect marriage plans
Utilitarian
Save money, share household chores.

Involved and committed

Trial marriage
Test compatibility.

Marriage prelude
-Engaged; no reason to be apart.

Marriage alternative
Long-term without marriage.

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Common-law marriage requirements

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No marriage license.

Basic requirements (TX):

  • Agreement that you are married.
  • Cohabitation.
  • Representing to others that you are married.

Only accepted in a handful of states.

Divorce IS required.

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Rites of passage

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Engagement

  • More informal.
  • Continue to test the water.
  • Planning, adjusting, and figuring out life.
  • Prep for marriage.

Wedding

  • Religious and civil rite.
  • Although, it is becoming more of entertainment instead.
  • Marriage license.
53
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Truth about Gay and Lesbian parenting

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the sexual orientation of parents has no impact on the sexual orientation of their children
having same-sex parents doesn’t harm kids

54
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Family life cycle

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1 romantic love period.

Years 2-3; sex declines but they explore their compatibility.

Years 4-5; establish family traditions, regain their individuality, and learn to manage conflict.

Years 6-10; further establish their individuality yet become more dependent on one another.

Years 11-20; deep trust and officially combining possessions.

Years 20+; feel secure and have a shared history of experiences.

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Predictors of marital quality

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Marriage relationship closely mimics the premarital relationship.

Family of origin

  • Try to have a strong marriage (i.e., be a good example).
  • Happy home environment.
  • Involvement with children.
  • Recognizing strain in own relationship in order to repair.

Individual characteristics

  • dispositional optimism: greater problem-solving skills and less marital decline compared to…
  • relationship-specific optimism which may lead to marital declines.
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Adult attachment styles and relationships

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Secure
Comfortable in relationships
Able to seek support from partner

Dismissing (avoidant)
Greater sense of autonomy
Tend to cut themselves off emotionally from partner

Preoccupied (ambivalent)
Fears rejection from partner
Strong desire to maintain closeness