Midterm Flashcards

0
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Love for a friend

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Phileo

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God kind of Love

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Agape

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2
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Show of affection

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Storge

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3
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Sexual attraction

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Eros

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4
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The highest kind of love

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Agape

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5
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Love is

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An act of faith

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6
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Marriages without agape will

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Most assuredly end up in disaster

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7
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Who will never be as close to you as your husband or wife?

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Your children.

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8
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What is not a common basis for friendship

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Common experiences

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9
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The basic unit of all society

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The home or family

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10
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The basic unit of society

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Having as it’s nucleus 2 adults cooperating in the care and tearing of their own or adopted children

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11
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Produced family problems

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Sin

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12
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Disrespect and rebellion is produced by

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Sin

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13
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What are mans responsibility in Gods restoration of the home

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Repentance of sins
Receive Christ as lord
Search scriptures for God
Practice God

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14
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What originated with God?

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The concept of family

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15
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What are the 4 levels of friendships

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Acquaintance
Causal friendship
Close friendship and fellowship
Intimate friendship and fellowship

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Acquaintance

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Based on occasional contacts
Freedom to ask general questions

View each acquaintance as a Devine appointment
Design appropriate general ?s for new acquaintances

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17
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Casual friendship

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Based on common interests activities &concerns
Freedom to ask specific ?s: opinions goals ideas wishes

Learn to identify and praise positive qualities
Design appropriate specific ?s for youth children and adults

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18
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Close friendship and fellowship

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Based on mutual life goals
Freedom to suggest mutual projects towards reaching life goals

Visualize achievements in each other’s lives
Discern and develop appropriate projects to gain this achievement

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19
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Intimate friendship and fellowship

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Based on commitment to the development of each other’s character
Freedom to correct each other

Open honesty with discretion
Discern basic causes of character deficiencies and suggest solutions

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20
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The purpose of dating

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To find a person you are compatible with, with the goals of marriage

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21
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Characteristics of genuine Love

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1 Cor 13:4-8

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22
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Prerequisites for dating

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Dangers of dating
Gods dating standards
Purpose not to lower standards

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23
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Definition of family

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The basic unit of society having it’s nucleus 2 adults cooperating in the care and rearing of their own or adopted children

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24
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Gods answer to family problems

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Calvary

25
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Man’s responsibility in God’s restoration of the home

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Repentance of sin
Receive Christ as Lord
Search scriptures for God-ordained role
Practice God-ordained role daily

26
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Discerning the right life partner

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Eliminate the 7 most prevalent causes of mate selection
Develop a clear image of ur ideal spouse
Find a person to love who’s like u
Get healthy
Find love u feel deep in ur heart
Let passionate love mature b4 u marry
Master the art of intimacy
Learn 2 clear conflict from the love road
Refuse to proceed until u can commit
Celebrate marriage with full support of fam and friends

27
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The concept of fam originated with God

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Revealed in the triune nature:
The father
The son
The Holy Spirit

28
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Submission of wife

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As a wife submits she enters into her God ordained role in the relationship.
She releases the grace of God in her husbands life for him to become the best man, husband, & father he can possibly be.

29
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Christ-church

Husband-wife

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Christ=head of the church
Husband=head of wife
Christ=savior of body
Husband=protects, delivers, and preserves his wife
Christ=lord of believer
Husband=earthly lord, representative of JC!

30
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What is a covenant

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A formal, solemn, and binding agreement made between 2 people

Bond, bind together, everlasting, establishment of a covenant between 2 people

31
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Qualities God manifests Ina covenant relationship with man

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Love of God
Faithfulness of God
Forgiveness of God
Selflessness of God

32
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Qualities of a successful marriage

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The love of God must be in every marriage
Faithfulness to each other
Forgiveness
Selflessness must be in the heart of each partner

33
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Biblical attitudes to overcome marital irritations

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Peacemaker 
Submission
Forbearance
Love
Meekness
34
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Effective submission

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Liberates wife to find true fulfillment

35
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Spiritual provision

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Deut. 6:6-9

Verbalize Gods word continually

36
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Who are the mediators of Gods covenant with the family?

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Parents

37
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The act if transmitting a verbal or written message

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Communication

38
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Communication: (2 points)

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Must begin with Communication with God

Brings people to the goal of becoming one in judgement, decision, and action

39
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What is the steering mechanism to communication?

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Character

40
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Love without communication is

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Worthless

41
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Keys to harmonious communication

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Quantity of communication

Quality of communication

42
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Ways to communicate:

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Word
Gesture
Spirit

43
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Successful communication builds and maintains:

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Successful marriages

44
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Solutions are born out of

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Communication

45
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Honest disclosure will result I.

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Personal growth

46
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The best way to find out if a message has been received

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Have the receiver repeat it

47
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In perfect communication the hearer must

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Understand what was said

48
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Distortion occurs when

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The hearer misunderstands what was said

49
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Marriage is not a romantic balcony, but a:

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Spiritual battleground

50
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What keeps couples from properly fighting the spiritual battle for their marriage?

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Because the enemy satan is invisible

51
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Definition of submission

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To yield to the authority of another, surrender, defer to the judgement or discretion of another, comply with, to be subject to

To yield the opinion of leading in order to follow

52
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A husband and wife must understand and practice the concept of

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Submission in Gods order for the home

53
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Purpose of submission:

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To demonstrate God’s nature and being- he is a God of order

Ensure a successful home

Makes home available for Gods blessings

54
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The love of God must be the base of

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Every marriage

55
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Parents are the mediators of Gods covenant with:

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The family

56
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Parents are to bring forth Gods 
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He has placed in each child
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Deposit
Potential
Ministry

57
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-

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Character

Maturity

58
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What is moral

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Relating to the practice, manners or conduct of man in relation to each other and with reference to right and wrong

59
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Discipline should be motivated by

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Love and concern for the child