midterm Flashcards
characteristics of healthy families
- effective communication
- encouragement of individuals
- commitment to family
- religious/spiritual orientation
- social connectedness
- adapt to stress
- clear role definition
- spending time together
what is family health care nursing
- health and illness impact families not just client
- family members viewed as partners in care
- nurses need positive attitude to include families in care
- strengths based approach to empower families & build on existing strengths
- role of family is respected along with cultural/religion
- reciprocal relationship b/w nurses & families = recovery
in family system theory, the idea is that . . .
entier system shifts in response to a stressor not just the individual impacted
the person who takes on too much responsibility for distress is the . . .
person who is most vulnerable to both physical or mental illness
problems are not seen as the responsibility of . . .
one family member, rather due to relationship dynamics & reciprocal interactions b/w family members
impact of divorce on the family system
- role changes need to compensate for loss of parent + extended family
- parental conflict transfer anxiety onto children & create imbalance
- system boundaries become more permeable due to introduction of new people
- alliances shift leading to triangulation
stressors that arise due to impact of divorce on family system
less time, less money, less energy to manage the same life tasks
role of the rpn in family systems
- recognize illness/suffering in one family member impacts entire unit
- help families identify dysfunctional patterns of behaviour
- help families identify how stressors is impacting each member & system as a whole
- recognize family roles & rituals can change during times of illness
- recognize that family communication patterns will change during stressful times
- acknowledge our goal is to help family reach stability by building on their strengths as system
family systems theory - key concepts
- systems theory about relationships & interconnectedness b/w different systems
- each family viewed as emotional unit or system rather than collection of individuals
- family system is greater than sum of its individual members
- family system always trying to maintain stability as it attempts to adapt to changes/stressors
- significant event or change in one family member will impact entire family unit
- boundaries exist b/w family & environment
- family member’s relationships are best understood as circular and reciprocal as opposed to linear
bowen’s theory of self differentiation
process of freeing yourself from your family’s processes to define yourself. Being able to have different opinions & values than your family members but being able to stay emotionally connected to them, being able to calmly reflect on conflicted interaction afterward, realizing your own role in it & choosing a different response for the future
8 concepts in bowen’s theory
- differentiation of self
- triangulation
- nuclear family emotional process
- family projection process
- multigenerational transmission process
- sibling position
- emotional cut-off
- emotional process in society
differentiation looks at the balance b/w
- connection and individuality within a family
ppl with well differentiated “self” can
recognize their dependence on others, and remain connected, but don’t get caught up in other people’s emotions (emotionally autonomous)
to be well differentiated means you have the ability to
see yourself as distinct and separate in terms of thoughts/feelings of others
when you are too connected to someone’s emotions . . .
begin to experience feelings you don’t actually feel, becomes to objectified, not able to have own feelings (one who experiences the initial reaction)
healthy boundaries
- saying no without guilt
- asking for what you want/need
- taking care of yourself
- saying yes because you want to, not out of obligation
- behaving according to your own values
- feeling safe to express difficult emotions
- feeling supported to pursue own goals
- being treated equally
- taking responsibility for own happiness
- being in tune with own feelings
- knowing who are you, what you believe and what you like
outcomes of self-differentiation
- can make decisions rationally
- less influenced by others’ emotions but are still able to connect with others
- are more adaptable and flexible under stress
- maintain clear emotional boundaries with others
what is at the opposite end of the differentiation spectrum
fusion
poor self differentiation tend to
- rely on acceptance & approval of others
- more emotionally reactive
- cope poorly with stress
- higher risk for mental health concerns (depression & anxiety)
- become people pleasers (fixers)
triangulation
- occurs when 2 ppl attempt to divert conflict or tension by pulling in another person
- 3rd person absorbs tension = stabilizing system
- doesn’t resolve conflict directly, doesn’t solve root problem
what is most common in poorly differentiated people
triangulation
bowen belived most important triangle is
one b/w you & your parents
nuclear family emotional process refers to
how families cope w/ increasing tension & anxiety based on their level of differentiation
4 patterns in nuclear family emotional process
- emotional distance b/w couple (avoid each other to avoid tension)
- dysfunction in one spouse (one spouse tries to control the other while other spouse gives in an accommodates)
- projection of parental anxiety onto one child
- marital conflict (couple take out their anxiety onto each other)