Mid-Term Exam Flashcards
What is enmeshment?
Minuchin’s term for loss of autonomy due to a blurring of psychological boundaries (over-involvement and too much closeness between family members.
What is Fusion?
Bowen’s term for blurring of psychological boundaries between self and others, and a containment of emotional and intellectual functioning.
What is Disengagment?
Minuchin’s term for psychological isolation that results from overly rigid boundaries around individuals and subsystems in a family.
What is differentiation?
Bowen’s term for psychological separation of intellect and emotions, and independence of self from others.
What are DeShazier’s 4 questions and what method is he associated with?
- -How much do each of you want this marriage?
- -What keeps you together?
- -What is the greatest value that each things the other brings to the marriage?
- -The frequency and quality of the sexual relationship?
–Solutions-focused therapy
What is FOO?
Family of origin. Thoughts, beliefs, actions that come from the family you were born into/grew up in.
What is a genogram?
A schematic diagram of the generational family, listings family members and their relationships to one another; includes patterns of behavior, and critical events such as deaths, births, geographical locations and rites of passage. Bowen believes this needs to be at least 3 generations of depiction.
As a therapist, why do you need benchmarks for a couple?
So that you know where they fall on various scales of the relationship.
What is the R-DAS?
The Revised Dyadic Adjustment Scale. Used to to measure Consensus: how often do they agree or disagree; Satisfaction: how satisfied are they; Cohesion: how well do the mesh together, do things together.
What are the parts of the Marriage Complexity Pie Chart and name the factors that may affect it
- the Individual: what you bring to the relationship
- Emotional tone: the “want to” in the relationship, desire for it
- Interactional: the patterns and dynamics of the relationship
Affected by : External crises (unanticipated) and developmental crises, based in the stages of the marital life cycle
What is marriageability?
The ability to do relationships and marriage. Can include emotional health, the ability to relate healthily to people. having the personal charactersitics to allow him/her to successfully engage someone in an intimate relationship
What is “state versus trait”?
Is this just a state the individual is currently in, or is this a trait of their character or personality?
What are the 3 categories of “unsafe people”
- Reasonable: therapist is able to help them out of their traps
- Moderately safe/disordered: limit their influence
- Significantly safe/disordered: pursue necessary self-protection
What is compatibility?
Shared values, being able to share an experience rather than it be all about “me and my needs.”
What are the things that make up individuality?
- Overachiever or underachiever?
- Temperment
- Beliefs and values
- Family of origin (FOO)
- Family constellation (birth order, blended or not)
- The self or general well-being of emotional maturity
- Psychological factors - depression, schizophrenia, eating disorders, OCD
- Gender factors
- Life experiences (outside of FOO)
Define marital disaffection
the gradual loss of emotional attachment and an increasing sense of apathy and indifference towards one’s spouse. The replacement of positive affection with neutral.
Define marital dissatisfaction
a perceived low degree of adjustment or unhappiness with a relationship
Define marital breakdown
the decline in attractiveness of the relationship, turbulence in feelings about the relationship, disturbance in its conduct
Define marital dissolution
The ending or permanent dismemberment of a relationship and usually involves legal act of divorce or permanent separation
Define marital instability
the propensity to dissolve the marriage, even though dissolution may not be the final outcome.
Name 3 of the biggest contributors to marital disaffection (Karen Kayser)
Partner’s controlling behavior, lack of responsibility, lack of emotional support
Name the 3 phase of Marital Disaffection (Karen Kayser)
- Disappointment: involves anger and hurt disillusionment; attempts are made to solve problems unilaterally, try to please partner, avoidant and passive coping strategies used
- Between disappointment and disaffection: intense anger and hurt, continues to try to problem solve but more directly confronts partner about problems; begins physical and emotional withdrawal
- Reaching disaffection: anger, apathy, hopeless; actions to dissolve marriage; attempts at problem solving, seeks counseling, usually to help disengage