Microcalibration (IOI or IOD) Flashcards
what Mystery defines as “the most important IOIs”?”
- she laughs when talking to you
- she reinitiates conversation when you stop talking
- she touches you
- she tries to get rapport and build comfort with you
she reinitiates conversation when you stop talking
IOI
she giggles
IOI
she touches you
IOI
she looks back and glances repeatedly at you every minute or so
IOI
she tosses her hair (to see if you look)
IOI
if eye contact happens at a distance she holds it for a second (appr)
IOI
she smiles at you
IOI
She avoids eye contact
IOD
she avoids your calls
IOD
her friends go to the bathroom but she stays
IOI
If she can pretend she didn’t say whay you just say she does
IOD
she plays with her hair while talking to you
IOI
she says something to her friend and both giggle
IOI
when sitting next to you her legs touch yours
IOI
she mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you have one
IOI
She holds eye contact when speaking to you for “long” periods
IOI
you lean in
DLV
you lean back
DHV
you act unstifled
DHV
you act entitled
DHV
you act stifled
DLV
you act unconfortable
DLV
you show neediness
DLV
you go for KINO
CT
you ask her questions
CT
you NEG her (beautiful girl, “normal” circumstances)
DHV
you put up hoops
CT
you have relaxed body language
DHV
you show intellingence
DHV
you “light” on the “protector of loved ones” attraction switch
DHV
you show committed to what you’re saying
DHV
you seem to have a purpose, a path you’re following
DHV
you seem stagnating
DLV
you flip on the “preselection” attraction switch
DHV
you appear the tribal leader of your social group
DHV
you flip on the “emotionally calibrated” attraction switch
DHV
you appear judgmental
DLV
you let others AMOG you
DLV
you flip on the “well groomed” attraction switch
DHV
you flip on the “humour” attraction switch
DHV
you show high survival value
DHV
you create well calibrated Jealousy Plotlines
DHV
you seem congruent
DHV
you make a proposal of “any” kind
CT
you try to go for a new sexual game
CT
you invite her somewhere
CT
you ask her the phone number
CT
she gives you Compliance to your CT
IOI
she gives you Defiance to your CT
IOD