Microcalibration (IOI or IOD) Flashcards

1
Q

what Mystery defines as “the most important IOIs”?”

A
  • she laughs when talking to you
  • she reinitiates conversation when you stop talking
  • she touches you
  • she tries to get rapport and build comfort with you
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2
Q

she reinitiates conversation when you stop talking

A

IOI

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3
Q

she giggles

A

IOI

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4
Q

she touches you

A

IOI

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5
Q

she looks back and glances repeatedly at you every minute or so

A

IOI

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6
Q

she tosses her hair (to see if you look)

A

IOI

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7
Q

if eye contact happens at a distance she holds it for a second (appr)

A

IOI

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8
Q

she smiles at you

A

IOI

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9
Q

She avoids eye contact

A

IOD

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10
Q

she avoids your calls

A

IOD

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11
Q

her friends go to the bathroom but she stays

A

IOI

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12
Q

If she can pretend she didn’t say whay you just say she does

A

IOD

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13
Q

she plays with her hair while talking to you

A

IOI

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14
Q

she says something to her friend and both giggle

A

IOI

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15
Q

when sitting next to you her legs touch yours

A

IOI

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16
Q

she mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you have one

A

IOI

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17
Q

She holds eye contact when speaking to you for “long” periods

A

IOI

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18
Q

you lean in

A

DLV

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19
Q

you lean back

A

DHV

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20
Q

you act unstifled

A

DHV

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21
Q

you act entitled

A

DHV

22
Q

you act stifled

A

DLV

23
Q

you act unconfortable

A

DLV

24
Q

you show neediness

A

DLV

25
Q

you go for KINO

A

CT

26
Q

you ask her questions

A

CT

27
Q

you NEG her (beautiful girl, “normal” circumstances)

A

DHV

28
Q

you put up hoops

A

CT

29
Q

you have relaxed body language

A

DHV

30
Q

you show intellingence

A

DHV

31
Q

you “light” on the “protector of loved ones” attraction switch

A

DHV

32
Q

you show committed to what you’re saying

A

DHV

33
Q

you seem to have a purpose, a path you’re following

A

DHV

34
Q

you seem stagnating

A

DLV

35
Q

you flip on the “preselection” attraction switch

A

DHV

36
Q

you appear the tribal leader of your social group

A

DHV

37
Q

you flip on the “emotionally calibrated” attraction switch

A

DHV

38
Q

you appear judgmental

A

DLV

39
Q

you let others AMOG you

A

DLV

40
Q

you flip on the “well groomed” attraction switch

A

DHV

41
Q

you flip on the “humour” attraction switch

A

DHV

42
Q

you show high survival value

A

DHV

43
Q

you create well calibrated Jealousy Plotlines

A

DHV

44
Q

you seem congruent

A

DHV

45
Q

you make a proposal of “any” kind

A

CT

46
Q

you try to go for a new sexual game

A

CT

47
Q

you invite her somewhere

A

CT

48
Q

you ask her the phone number

A

CT

49
Q

she gives you Compliance to your CT

A

IOI

50
Q

she gives you Defiance to your CT

A

IOD