Microcalibration (IOI or IOD)

Question 1

what Mystery defines as “the most important IOIs”?”

Answer 1

• she laughs when talking to you
• she reinitiates conversation when you stop talking
• she touches you
• she tries to get rapport and build comfort with you

Question 2

she reinitiates conversation when you stop talking

Answer 2

IOI

Question 3

she giggles

Answer 3

IOI

Question 4

she touches you

Answer 4

IOI

Question 5

she looks back and glances repeatedly at you every minute or so

Answer 5

IOI

Question 6

she tosses her hair (to see if you look)

Answer 6

IOI

Question 7

if eye contact happens at a distance she holds it for a second (appr)

Answer 7

IOI

Question 8

she smiles at you

Answer 8

IOI

Question 9

She avoids eye contact

Answer 9

IOD

Question 10

she avoids your calls

Answer 10

IOD

Question 11

her friends go to the bathroom but she stays

Answer 11

IOI

Question 12

If she can pretend she didn’t say whay you just say she does

Answer 12

IOD

Question 13

she plays with her hair while talking to you

Answer 13

IOI

Question 14

she says something to her friend and both giggle

Answer 14

IOI

Question 15

when sitting next to you her legs touch yours

Answer 15

IOI

Question 16

she mentions your girlfriend without knowing if you have one

Answer 16

IOI

Question 17

She holds eye contact when speaking to you for “long” periods

Answer 17

IOI

Question 18

you lean in

Answer 18

DLV

Question 19

you lean back

Answer 19

DHV

Question 20

you act unstifled

Answer 20

DHV

Question 21

you act entitled

Answer 21

DHV

Question 22

you act stifled

Answer 22

DLV

Question 23

you act unconfortable

Answer 23

DLV

Question 24

you show neediness

Answer 24

DLV

Question 25

you go for KINO

Answer 25

CT

Question 26

you ask her questions

Answer 26

CT

Question 27

you NEG her (beautiful girl, "normal" circumstances)

Answer 27

DHV

Question 28

you put up hoops

Answer 28

CT

Question 29

you have relaxed body language

Answer 29

DHV

Question 30

you show intellingence

Answer 30

DHV

Question 31

you "light" on the "protector of loved ones" attraction switch

Answer 31

DHV

Question 32

you show committed to what you're saying

Answer 32

DHV

Question 33

you seem to have a purpose, a path you're following

Answer 33

DHV

Question 34

you seem stagnating

Answer 34

DLV

Question 35

you flip on the "preselection" attraction switch

Answer 35

DHV

Question 36

you appear the tribal leader of your social group

Answer 36

DHV

Question 37

you flip on the "emotionally calibrated" attraction switch

Answer 37

DHV

Question 38

you appear judgmental

Answer 38

DLV

Question 39

you let others AMOG you

Answer 39

DLV

Question 40

you flip on the "well groomed" attraction switch

Answer 40

DHV

Question 41

you flip on the "humour" attraction switch

Answer 41

DHV

Question 42

you show high survival value

Answer 42

DHV

Question 43

you create well calibrated Jealousy Plotlines

Answer 43

DHV

Question 44

you seem congruent

Answer 44

DHV

Question 45

you make a proposal of "any" kind

Answer 45

CT

Question 46

you try to go for a new sexual game

Answer 46

CT

Question 47

you invite her somewhere

Answer 47

CT

Question 48

you ask her the phone number

Answer 48

CT

Question 49

she gives you Compliance to your CT

Answer 49

IOI

Question 50

she gives you Defiance to your CT

Answer 50

IOD