marriage Flashcards
Marriage: regarded as a social, moral and religious ideal, a necessary condition of spiritual perfection
it is not good for man to be alone” Genesis
• A religious and legal ceremony which involves the giving of a ketubah (marriage contract) by the husband to a wife
• Marriage is a social union or legal contract between a man and a woman. Marriage is a divinely ordained state symbolising the sacred union of those created in God’s image. Marriage is seen as a personal, contractual relationship
• The Talmud suggests that a man without a wife is not a complete person. Genesis 2:18 – “It’s not good for a man to be alone. I will make a helper suitable for him. Bashert – destiny.
Marriage is for: Companionship and Love, Procreation and establish the family unit
• A KETUBA(H) is a marriage contract - used in some Jewish marriages today usually within Orthodox marriages.
obligates a husband to provide food, clothing, and sexual satisfaction to his wife. It states what maintenance will be due in the case of a divorce.
THE WEDDING CEREMONY:
- Signing the ketubah
- The Bedekin (veiling ceremony)
- The Chuppah (canopy)
- Bride encircles the bridegroom
- Betrothal and the first cup of wine
- The ring ceremony
- The reading of the ketubah
- The Sheva Brachot and the second cup of wine
- The breaking of the glass (mazel tov)
- Yichud (breaking the fast)