Mark Klimek: Alcohol

Question 1

Number 1 problem in all abusive situations

Answer 1

DENIAL

Question 2

How do you treat denial?

Answer 2

SUPPORT denial of loss and grief

Question 3

What are the 5 stages of grief?

Answer 3

D - denial 
A - anger
B - bargain 
D - depression 
A - acceptance

Question 4

How do you treat abuse?

Answer 4

CONFRONT

- there is a difference b/w what you say vs. what you do

Question 5

What is dependency?

Answer 5

The ABUSER gets to KEEP using

Question 6

What is codependency?

Answer 6

The SIGNIFICANT OTHER feels POSITIVE SELF-ESTEEM from supporting the HABIT

Question 7

How to treat with dependency?

Answer 7

1) Set limits and enforce them

2) work on positive self-esteem for the co-dependent person

Question 8

What is manipulation?

Answer 8

ABUSER gets SIGNIFICANT OTHER to do things for them that is not in the best interest of the SIGNIFICANT OTHER
- the nature is DANGEROUS or HARMFUL

Question 9

How do you deal with manipulation?

Answer 9

Set limits/enforce

- teach them to say NO

Question 10

Is manipulation or dependency easier to treat?

Answer 10

MANIPULATION

- no one wants to be manipulated

Question 11

How many pts are involved in codependency/dependency?

Answer 11

2 pts (neutral)

Question 12

How many pts are involved in manipulation?

Answer 12

1 pt (negative)