Lesson 2 Flashcards
What is dating?
A relationship between a male & a female who participate in prearranged social activities
Dating another person means
setting aside time for social interaction with a member of the opposite sex
Dating provides opportunity to:
- learn how to communicate with the opposite sex
- help define what traits you desire in a future mate
- come into contact with potential marriage partners
- Grow socially, emotionally & spiritually
What is courting
when a man seeks to gain the attention & favor of a woman with the ultimate intention of engagement & marriage
Courting puts a
strong emphasis on taking the time to see whether there are multiple areas of common ground
Common Ground
same moral values
same system of ethics
same spiritual foundation
Infatuation
Sudden Highly Emotional Idealistic Based on a feeling Weakened by separation Seeking to find happiness Focusing on external Seeking to get Possessive In love with "emotion"
Love
Gradual Faithfully Consistent Realistic Based on a commitment Strengthened by separation Seeking to give happiness Focusing on internal character Seeking to give Freedom In love witih "devotion"
Godly Characteristics of admirable men (BOAZ)
Financially Responsible Strong in Leadership Protective Focused in character Generous Compassionate Decisive Trustworthy Industrious Commited
Godly Characteristics of admirable women (RUTH)
Diligent Submissive Wise Virtuous Unselfish Grateful Courageous Trusting Hardworking Commited
What do you establish before you start dating
standards
Develop friendships with those
who share your moral convictions rather than with those who pursue sexual relationships
Agape
unselfish love
Phileo
affectionate love
Eros
passionate romantic love