Lesson 1 Love Flashcards
is a complex and multifaceted emotion, encompassing a wide range of experiences and
expressions.
Love
is characterized by intense
physical attraction and deep emotional connection. It’s the fiery, exhilarating love we often associate with romance.
Eros
Romantic Love
Eros
The Bond of Friendship
Philia
is not romantic. It’s about being
there for someone without
expecting anything in
return
Philia
is grounded in
mutual respect, trust, and
shared values.
Philia
Familial Love
Storge
is the love that grows
from familiarity, often seen
between parents and children
or siblings
Storge
is typically unconditional, providing a safe foundation for emotional growth and a sense of belonging.
Storge
Playful Love
Ludus
captures the joy and
excitement of playful interactions. It’s lighthearted and fun, often seen in the early stages of relationships.
Ludus
involves laughing, teasing,
and feeling giddy around a person. It’s very childlike, though it can evolve.
Ludus
Practical love
pragma
is love built on practicality, commitment, and shared life goals. It grows over time, requiring effort and
understanding.
Pragma
involves working together to overcome challenges,
plan a future, and stay together through ups and downs.
Pragma
Love for the Self
Philautia
means having a strong sense of self-worth and boundaries, enabling you to give and receive love freely.
Philautia
Obsessive love
Mania
is an overwhelming, possessive love that can lead to dependency and unhealthy dynamics. It’s characterized by intense jealousy, insecurity, and a need for constant reassurance.
Mania
The highest form of love
Agape
a Greek term, signifies selfless, unconditional, and sacrificial love. It is often associated with the divine love of God for humanity
Agape
It is “the highest and
purest form of love of love, charity” and “the love of
God for [human beings] and of [human beings] for
God”
Agape
is not based on actions or
merit but given freely
Agape
transcends time and
circumstances, often described as unwavering and infinite.
Agape
feel special and valued when their partner takes an interest in their hobbies and
interests and makes an effort to enjoy activities together.
Activity love style
feel special and valued when their partner gives
them praise and compliments.
Appreciation love style
feel loved when their partner is able to connect with them and support them through tough emotions.
Emotional love style
This type feels loved when they receive caring support during emotionally challenging or vulnerable times
Emotional love style
feel loved and valued when
their partner shows generosity with finances in order to
bring them joy
Financial love style
like to connect through the
mind. They feel loved when their partner values their
intelligence, respects their
opinion, and takes part in
thoughtful discussion of
important issues.
Intellectual love style
e feel cared for and supported
when they are being touched and held by their partner; they love the sensate experience of
physical intimacy.
Physical love style
feel special and valued
when their partner takes care
of the chores, pitches in with
the household, and offers
practical, everyday help to
lighten the load.
Practical love style
What are 7 love styles
Activity
Appreciation
Emotional
Financial
Intellectual
Physical
Practical