Lecture 4 Flashcards
The sense of self
Awareness of the self as differentiated from other people is crucial for
children’s development
Individual Self
Aspects of the self that make a person unique and
separate from others
Relational Self
Aspects of the self that involve connections to other
people and develop out of interactions with others
Collective Self
A person’s concept of self within a group, such as a
group based on race or gender
Online Self
A person’s online self-representation on Internet profiles
and within multiplayer games
Self-esteem
The evaluative component of self that taps how
positively or negatively people view themselves in relation to others
high self-esteem=
competent, capable, and are pleased with who they are
* Valued in Western culture (individualism)
Outcomes of self-esteem
- Individuals with high self-esteem are happier than those with low self-esteem
- High self-esteem in childhood = positive adjustment outcomes including school
success, good relationships with parents and peers, and less anxiety and
depression - BUT direction of effects is unclear
Narcissism
is defined as an inflated
sense of one’s importance and
deservingness
psychologists have characterized this as “the dark side of high self-esteem”
what is the common belief that narcism
a common belief that narcissism is simply an extreme form of self-esteem
Narcissism and self-esteem are only
weakly positively correlated
True
As many narcissists have high self-
esteem as low self-esteem
True
Types of Narcissism
- agentic
- antagonistic
- neurotic
Agonistic
need for admiration, feelings of grandiosity and
superiority, assertiveness, leadership, and approach motivation
- positive correlation with self-esteem (moderate)
Antagonistic
arrogance, exploitativeness,
deceitfulness, entitlement, callousness, and low empathy
(disagreeable and antisocial facets).
* Negative correlation with self-esteem (small-moderate)
Neurotic
emotional dysregulation, hypersensitivity,
and shame proneness
* Negative correlation with self-esteem (large)
Mean-Level Change in Agentic, Antagonistic, and Neurotic
Narcissism From Age 8 to 77 Years for Nonclinical Samples
True
Self-perceptions are ____ specific
Domain
Five Domains of Self-Perceptions
Scholastic Ability
Athletic Competence
Physical Appearance
Behavioural Conduct
Social Acceptance
Learning-Self Appraisal
- Children also distinguish among different kinds of competence and view
themselves as better in some domains than others
___________ in each domain affects global self-esteem
Children age 8 or less
who they want to be (positive)
late childhood, adolescence
More
realistic and
domain-
specific (positive and negative)
Family Influences of high vs. low self esteem
Children’s higher self-esteem associated with parents who are - Accepting, affectionate, and involved with their children, set clear and
consistent rules, use noncoercive disciplinary tactics, and consider the child’s views in family decisions (support autonomy)
Low self-esteem = abusive, psychologically controlling, intrusive,
invalidating - Could lead to narcissistic tendencies
Process Praise
Praising students’ level of
effort and effective
strategies
“You worked so hard on this!”
- improves student’s motivation to learn after encountering failures
- works well for children but not adolescents
Ability Praise
Praising talent and ability “you’re so smart”
- Decreases students’ motivation to learn
after failures
Inflated Praise
exaggerated praise
“you did an incredible job”
- More often directed toward children with low self-esteem
- Inflated praise might convey to children that they should continue to meet very high
standards - As such, it decreases challenge-seeking in children with low self-esteem and has the opposite effect on children with high self-esteem - Over time: Inflated praise may prompt children with low self-esteem to avoid crucial
learning experiences
Identity
The definition of oneself as a discrete, separate entity
Identity Achievement vs. Role Confusion
Task is to achieve a
coherent sense of self.
Process: experiment with
different roles, activities,
and behaviors
If identity isn’t formed, the
adolescent will be confused
about their role (family, friend
group, society).
Process: not allowed to explore
and test identities
Identity Formation
- James Marcia (1966, 1993) - Adolescents experience a crisis of decision making when exploring
identities
E.g., trying out different career paths
____% of adolescents stay in the same stage across adolescence
60%
Identity Achievement
Gone through exploration and made a
commitment to an identity
High level of commitment
High level of exploration
Identity Moratorium
Involved in exploring but not made a
commitment.
Low level of commitment
High Lebel of exploration
Identity foreclosure
Made a commitment without attempting
identity exploration.
high level of commitment
Low level of exploration
Identity Diffusion
no identity crisis nor commitment
low level of commitment
low level of exploration
Identity Achievement
associated with high self-esteem, cognitive flexibility, more mature moral reasoning, clearer goal setting, and better goal achievement