Law 1: Polarity Strategy Flashcards
What does the “polarity strategy” mean?
It means you declare war on your enemies
What determines your fate in life?
How you face
- bad situations
- destructive relationships
- dangerous engagements
What are your possible obstacles in life?
- Other people
- Fate
- Circumstances
- Yourself
What is the ONLY obstacle in your life?
Yourself
What is the most obvious way that you can be a massive obstacle in your own path?
If you haven’t clearly defined your identity
How do you clearly define your identity?
You recognise who you do NOT want to be
In the process of clearly defining your identity, what do you also help define?
Your inner enemy
What are the two overall types of enemies you can have?
- The inner enemy
- The outer enemy
What is the key difference between inner and outer enemies?
Inner enemies are for your own reference. You know they’re against your interests. Whether it’s parts of your own personality or others who are actively working against you.
Outer enemies are publicly visible as against you.
What are the two core aspects of the inner enemy?
- Your clearly defined identity (the negative space left by it)
- External enemies actively working against you in the shadows
What are the reference points for enemies who can serve as ingredients of your inner enemy?
- Someone who -
- Blocks your path
- Sabotages you subtly / obviously
- Has hurt you
- Has fought you unfairly - A value or idea that you loathe
What is the point of having an “inner” enemy?
Your enemy is the polar star that guides you.
Given that direction, you can enter battle.
If you’re confused about whether someone is a friend or an enemy, what is the simplest mantra to chant for instant clarity?
He that is not with me is against me.
I am by nature ______. To _____ is among my instincts. To be able to be _______, to be ______ – that presupposes a ______ nature, it is in any event a condition of every ______ nature. It needs _______, consequently it seeks _______… The strength of one who _______ has in the opposition he needs a kind of gauge; every growth reveals itself in the seeking out of a __________ – or _______: for a philosopher who is ________ also challenges _______ to a duel. The undertaking is to master, not _________, but those against which one has to bring all one’s ______, _______ and mastery of _______ – to master_________.
I am by nature warlike. To attack is among my instincts. To be able to be an enemy, to be an enemy – that presupposes a strong nature, it is in any event a condition of every strong nature. It needs resistances, consequently it seeks resistances… The strength of one who attacks has in the opposition he needs a kind of gauge; every growth reveals itself in the seeking out of a powerful opponent – or problem: for a philosopher who is warlike also challenges problems to a duel. The undertaking is to master, not any resistances that happen to present themselves, but those against which one has to bring all one’s strength, suppleness and mastery of weapons – to master equal opponents.
Nietzsche
In the world of strategy, what shows you exactly where you stand?
The power level of my equal opponent
Which resistances should I focus my energies on as a strategic warrior?
Ones against which I have to bring ALL my
- strength
- suppleness
- mastery of weapons
Which resistances should I NOT focus my energies on as a strategic warrior?
Any and all resistances that happen to present themselves
Which two broad categories do you use to divide the realm of people in the external world?
- Insiders
- Outsiders
Of the people in the external world, who inhabits the centre of the bell curve?
The insiders
What is the realm of the insiders of the external world called?
The realm of compromise
What does the realm of compromise refer to?
When people take the path of least resistance, reconcile with others, always look to get along, forgetting who they really are, we say that they are inhabiting the realm of compromise
What are the core driving factors for the “insiders” of the external world?
- Popularity
- Likability
- Trying to please everyone
What is the key goal for every “insider” in the external world?
To be liked
What is the key goal for every “outsider” in the external world?
To be feared / respected
How are “outsiders” different from “insiders”?
Outsiders -
- Are surrounded by enemies
- Antagonise people
- Are in constant battle
What is the key misconception you have about being in constant battle?
That it makes you fatigued
What is the real advantage of constantly being in battle?
It keeps you strong and alert
What gives you lasting popularity?
Victory over enemies