L9 - Self-disclosure In Virtual Relationships Flashcards
What is the prominent difference between face to face and virtual relationships?
- Self disclosure occurs faster in virtual
Why does Self disclosure occur faster in virtual relationships?
- Anonymity: people hold off disclosing personal info in real life because they are scared of rejection/ridicule/leaks unless they really trust the person.
- There is much less risk of all that in virtual relationships.
What is the hyper personal model?
- Self disclosure in virtual relationships happen faster than face to face ones
- They quickly become more intense and feel more intimate and meaningful
- They also end more quickly as it’s hard to sustain the level of self disclosure
Why do virtual relationships feel more intimate? What is selective self-presentation
- Easier to manipulate self disclosure online
- It is when participants have more time to edit their response to present themselves in a better light.
- Projecting a positive image makes the partner want to disclose more info, increasing the intensity of the relationship.
Evaluation of the hyper personal model (+/-)
(+) Research conducted demonstrating the effect of being online in self-disclosure. In online discussion forums, questions and answers are more direct, probing and intimate.
(-) Research found that relationships that begin online are more durable, rather than ending more quickly. This is because of more open self-disclosure early in the relationship.
(-) Self disclosure varies depending on context. People disclose more on gaming sites than on dating sites because the latter leads to face to face encounters
What is the Reduced Cue Theory?
- Self disclosure in virtual relationships might be less open and honest than face to face ones.
- We rely on subtle cues which are absent in virtual relationships e.g tone of voice.
- Reduction in non-verbal communication leads to deindividualisation as it diminishes individual identity and brings behaviours that people usually restrain themselves from displaying.
- online communications can seem more aggressive and people might self disclose less as they fear verbal aggression
Evaluation of Reduced Cue Theory
(-) Developed when social media lacked face to face tech. Much less interaction, but now tech has advanced.
(-) Non-verbal communication is not absent, cues are just different e.g emoticons and timing of responses