Kitaab Ul Hibaat ( Book Of Gifts)

Question 1

Chapter 1: It is disliked for a person to give a gift then ask for it back

Answer 1

باب كَرَاهَةِ شِرَاءِ الإِنْسَانِ مَا تَصَدَّقَ بِهِ مِمَّنْ تَصَدَّقَ عَلَيْهِ ‏‏

Question 2

عُمَرَ بْنَ الْخَطَّابِ، قَالَ حَمَلْتُ عَلَى فَرَسٍ عَتِيقٍ فِي سَبِيلِ اللَّهِ فَأَضَاعَهُ صَاحِبُهُ فَظَنَنْتُ أَنَّهُ بَائِعُهُ بِرُخْصٍ فَسَأَلْتُ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم عَنْ ذَلِكَ فَقَالَ ‏ “‏ لاَ تَبْتَعْهُ وَلاَ تَعُدْ فِي صَدَقَتِكَ فَإِنَّ الْعَائِدَ فِي صَدَقَتِهِ كَالْكَلْبِ يَعُودُ فِي قَيْئِهِ ‏”‏ ‏.‏

Answer 2

Umar bin Khattab ra said I gifted a horse I used to ride on in the path of Allah (SWT), so its owner made it weak, so I thought that I will ask for it back, so then I asked Nabi (SAW) about that. Nabi (SAW) said “do not take it back, and do not return your Sadqah, so indeed, the one who asks for his Sadqah back is like a dog who returns his own vomit.”

Question 3

Chapter 3: It is disliked to favour one child over another when giving gifts.

Answer 3

باب كَرَاهَةِ تَفْضِيلِ بَعْضِ الأَوْلاَدِ فِي الْهِبَةِ

Question 4

النُّعْمَانِ بْنِ بَشِيرٍ، يُحَدِّثَانِهِ عَنِ النُّعْمَانِ بْنِ بَشِيرٍ، أَنَّهُ قَالَ إِنَّ أَبَاهُ أَتَى بِهِ رَسُولَ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم فَقَالَ إِنِّي نَحَلْتُ ابْنِي هَذَا غُلاَمًا كَانَ لِي ‏.‏ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏”‏ أَكُلَّ وَلَدِكَ نَحَلْتَهُ مِثْلَ هَذَا ‏”‏ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ لاَ ‏.‏ فَقَالَ رَسُولُ اللَّهِ صلى الله عليه وسلم ‏”‏ فَارْجِعْهُ ‏”‏ ‏.‏

Answer 4

Nu’man b. Bashir reported that his father brought him to Allah’s Messenger (ﷺ) and said Indeed I gifted to my son this slave boy. So then Nabi (SAW) said “have you gifted equivalent to it to each one of your children”, so he replied “no”, so Nabi (SAW) said “so return it.”