key NLMG quotes 📕 Flashcards
Memories, loss and relationships
“The memories I value most, I don’t see them ever leaving. I lost Ruth, then I lost Tommy, but I won’t loose my memories of them.”- Kathy
Memory, age and unreliability
“This was a long time ago so I might have some of it wrong”- Kathy
Memory and unreliability
“Or maybe I’m remembering it wrong”- Kathy
Relationships, Hailsham and the exchanges
“The exchanges had a more subtle effect on us… being dependant on each other to produce the stuff that might become your private treasures”- Kathy
Ruth’s character
“It wasn’t simply the way we’d ganged up on Ruth; it was the way she’d just taken it”- Kathy
Ruth’s character and identity
“I’d had this notion that there were two quite separate Ruths”- Kathy
Ruth’s character, retionships and other
What you’ve got to remember about Ruth is… she was always different to us”- Tommy
Ruth, Kathy and Tommy, and segragation
“It’s like there’s a line with us on one side and Ruth on the other”- Kathy
Tommy, Ruth and Kathy relationships
“Everything between the three of us seemed really delicate”- Kathy
Tommy/ Kathy relationships, Ruth’s character
“The main thing is, I kept you and Tommy apart”- Ruth
Ruth and Kathy relationship (Hailsham)
“the sort of loyalty she inspired in me in those days”- Kathy
Ruth and Kathy relationship (Dover)
“she’d read my expression exactly as I’d read hers”- Kathy
Hailsham, relationships (children)
“we didn’t do things like hug at Hailsham”- Kathy
Hailsham relationships (adult)
“all separated but somehow linked by the place we’d come from”- Kathy
Growing up, realisation and other
“So you’re waiting… for then moment when you realise that you really are different to them.. who shudder at the very thought of you- of how you were brought into this world and why” - Kathy