Interpersonal Communication Flashcards
What is interpersonal communication?
Interpersonal communication skills are used to share and collect data, express ideas and opinions, give and receive emotional support, make decisions and solve problems, influence attitudes and behaviors, establish and maintain relationships, collaborate and achieve goals
What are modes of communication?
In person conversations, email, instant messages, letters or memos, phone calls, text messages, social media updates
What is the best mode of communication?
Depends on the goal of the communication and the substance of what is being communicated
Types of communication
One way or two way
What are the levels of communication?
Casual communication, critical communication, crucial communication
What is the communication cycle?
As the sender you have a message to express and encode. As the receiver you decode and interpret the message.
Why does communication matter?
Communication is an outward demonstration of professionalism and has the power to help or harm your reputation. Communication skills influence how people perceive and treat you. Communication is the foundation of relationships.
What are the components of communication?
Word choice, tone of voice, body language, context and listening.
What are the word choices to avoid using?
Indirect, unclear or vague words; exaggerations; buzzwords, jargon, obscure acronyms, overly technical or complicated language; too many words; foul language
What is tone of voice?
Tone refers to the variation in your voice. It’s a combination of pitch, pace, volume, inflection, and emphasis. Tone is one of the most powerful elements contributing to the meaning others derive from your communications.
What are the categories of body language?
Eye contact, facial expression, positioning, and gestures.
What is context?
Context is defined as the surrounding environmental influences and existing circumstances in which a communication takes place. Context is another word for setting: place, people, purpose.
What are the 2 types of listening?
Passive listening, and active listening.
What are the nonverbal active listening tools?
Don’t interrupt, remove distractions, nod, mirror the communicator, take notes.
What are the verbal active listening tools?
Probe, clarify, paraphrase, reflect, and encourage.
What are the 4 styles of communicators?
The director, the socializer, the thinker, and the relator.
Definition of Open.
Open people are expressive. They readily share their feelings and listen to others and they tend to be more relationship focused. Examples are Socializers and Relators.
Definition of Guarded.
Guarded people are more reserved and formal. They favor facts, data and tasks over relationships and feelings. Examples are Directors and Thinkers.
Definition of Direct.
Direct people are more forceful, extroverted, and fast fast paced. They can be spontaneous, competitive, and intense. Examples are Directors and Socializers.
Definition of Indirect.
Indirect people are more cautious, introverted and slower paced. They show more self control and diplomacy in their interactions. Examples are Thinkers and Relators.
Four types explained.
The Director: direct and guarded; the Socializer: direct and open; the Relator: indirect and open; the Thinker: indirect and guarded
What is emotional intelligence
The ability to recognize and understand emotions in yourself and others, and your ability to use this awareness to manage your behavior and relationships.
What are the competences of emotional intelligence?
Two categories: Personal Competence has Self- Awareness and Self- management. Social Competence has Social Awareness and Relationship Management.
Best practices for offering positive feedback
Identify the behavior; identify the results; identify the impact; offer gratitude and encouragement; do it often but not too often; spread it around.
When to give negative feedback.
When correcting a behavior, when it’s solicited, when permission is granted, when it’s a function of your role.
What are the best practices for offering negative feedback.
Check your motives, do it privately, be honest, tactful, and sensitive; provide both descriptive and prescriptive feedback
How to receive positive feedback?
Don’t deflect the attention, show gratitude and acceptance, take note for the future.
How to receive negative feedback?
Determine the value; listen, gain clarity, and manage emotions; make use of it.
What are the two types of conflict?
Constructive conflict and destructive conflict.
How to prevent destructive conflict?
Set expectations; let minor irritations go; address problems, before they become problems.