influence of early attachment on later relationships Flashcards
childhood relationships definition
affiliations with other people in childhood, including friends and classmates, and with adults such as teachers
adult relationships definition
those relationships the child goes on to have later in life as an adult. these include friendships and working relationships but most critically relationship with romantic partners and the person’s own children
internal working model definition
our mental representations of the world such as the representation we have to our primary attachment figure. this model affects out future relationships because it carries our perception of what relationships are like
who came up with the internal working model
Bowlby
what did Bowlby suggest - internal working model
a baby’s first relationship with their primary attachment figure leads to a mental representation of this relationship. this internal working model acts as a template for future childhood and adult relationships
how does first attachment influence later relationships -internal working model
baby’s first attachment is critical because this template will powerfully affect the nature of the future relationships. a baby whose first experience is if a loving relationship with a reliable attachment figure will tend to assume this is how all relationships are meant to be
effect of positive internal working model on later relationships
assume this is how all relationships are meant to be. will seek out functional relationships and behave functionally within them without being to uninvolved or emotionally close such as insecure-avoidant or being controlling or argumentative such as in insecure-resistant attachment
effect of negative internal working model on later relationships
child with bad experiences of their first attachment will bring these bad experiences to later relationships. this may mean they struggle to form relationships in the first place or they may not behave appropriately within relationships, displaying insecure-avoidant or insecure-resistant behvaiour towards friends and partners
what is attachment type associated with
quality of peer relationships in childhood
securely attached babies in childhood friendships
tend to go on and form the best quality childhood relationships
insecurely attached babies in childhood friendships
friendship difficulties (kerns 1994)
how did Myron-Wilson and smith 1998 asses attachment type and bullying involvement
standard questionnaires in 196 child aged 7-11 from London
what did Myron-Wilson and smith 1998 asses attachment type and bullying involvement findings
-securely attached were very unlikely to be involved in bullying
-insecure-avoidant were most likely to be victims
-insecure-resistant most likely to be bullies
what does the internal working model affect in adult relationships
-romantic relationships
-parental relationships with own children
secure attachments as adult friendships and romantic relationships
best adult friendships and romantic relationships