How To Win Friends and Influence People Flashcards
Faddish
Fashionable but not likely to stay fashionable for a long time.
Anew
Again or one more time, especially in a different way.
Tamper
To touch or make changes to something that you should not, usually without enough knowledge of how it works or when you are trying to damage it.
To touch or change something without permission or without enough knowledge of how it works.
To touch or make changes to something when you should not, especially when this is illegal
Brash
(Of people) showing too much confidence and too little respect.
(Of clothes) too bright and colourful.
Poise
Behavior or a way of moving that shows calm confidence.
Finesse
Great skill or style.
To deal with a situation or a person in a skilful and often slightly dishonest way.
To improve something so it is the best it can possibly be.
Under the auspices of sb/sth
With the protection or support of someone or something, especially an organization.
Financial success of an engineer
15% due to one’s technical knowledge
85% due to skill in human engineering (personality and ability to lead people)
¿What kind of person is headed for higher earning power?
Those who have the technical knowledge plus the ability to express ideas, to assume leadership and to arouse enthusiasm among people.
Stint
A fixed or limited period of time spent doing a particular job or activity.
To provide, take, or use only a small amount of something.
Belligerence
The wish to fight or argue.
Slate
To attack by criticizing; to write or say that something is very bad
Gush
To flow or send out quickly and in large amounts.
To express a positive feeling, especially praise, in such a strong way that it does not sound sincere.
A large amount of liquid or gas that flows quickly.
A sudden strong and positive feeling, or an expression of positive feeling, usually so strong it does not sound sincere.
In the offing
Likely to happen soon.
Siege
The surrounding of a place by an armed force in order to defeat those defending it.
Necking
To kiss and hold a person in a sexual way.
Kissing someone for a long time.
(UK informal) to drink something, especially alcohol, very quickly.
Prostrate
Lying with the face down and arms stretched out, especially as a sign of respect or worship.
(Very tired) Having lost all strength or all determination because of an illness or an extremely bad experience.
Crumple
To become, or cause something to become, full of folds that are not equal in size.
If someone’s face crumples, it becomes full of lines because of a strong emotion.
If someone crumples, they fall to the ground suddenly.
Warden
The person in charge of a prison.
A person who is in charge of (the people in) a particular building.
The head of a college.
A person whose job is to make certain that members of the public obey particular rules.
Stoutly
In a firm and determined way.
Scold
To speak to someone angrily because you disapprove of their behaviour.
To criticize angrily someone who has done something wrong.
Fretting
Being nervous or worried.
Blunder
A serious mistake, usually caused by not taking care or thinking.
To dawn
To become known or obvious.
Futile
(Of actions) having no effect or achieving nothing.
Achieving no result; not effective or successful.
How do humans learn more rapidly?
By getting rewarded for good instead of punished for bad, because by criticising we do not make lasting changes and often incur resentment.
Engender
To make people have a particular feeling or make a situation start to exist.
To cause something to come into existence.
Sullen
Angry and unwilling to smile or be pleasant to people.
Silent and unpleasant.
Compliance
The act of obeying an order, rule, or request.
The state of being too willing to do what other people want you to do.
Bristling
(Of hair) to stand up.
To react angrily.
Quarrel
An angry disagreement between two or more people or groups.
Stench
A strong, unpleasant smell.
A bad effect that follows an unpleasant event or situation and is noticeable for a long time.
Homing pigeon
a pigeon (= a type of bird) that is trained to return to its home from any place that it starts its journey.
Dismal
Dark and sad, without hope, or very bad.
Lampoon
To criticize a famous person or a public organization in a piece of writing, a drawing, etc., in a humorous way, allowing their or its bad qualities to be seen and making them or it seem stupid.
Sandbar
A long raised area of sand below the surface of the water, especially where a river enters the sea, usually formed by moving currents.
Lurid
(Especially of a description) shocking because involving violence, sex, or immoral activity.
What did Lincoln say in response to the criticisms to the Southern people?
“Don’t criticize them; they are just what we would be under similar circumstances.”
Tantamount to sth
Being almost the same or having the same effect as something, usually something bad
Rebuke
To speak angrily to someone because you disapprove of what they have said or done.
the act of speaking angrily to someone because you disapprove of what they have said or done, or the things that someone says to show disapproval like this.
Hasty
(Too much) speed.
Great speed.
What did Lincoln learn by bitter experience?
That sharp criticisms and rebukes almost invariably end in futility.
Proofreader
A person whose job is to check text before it is printed or put online.
What did Confucius say about judging?
“Don’t complain about the snow on your neighbour’s roof, when your own doorstep is unclean.”
Loom
To appear as a large, often frightening or unclear shape or object.
If an unwanted or unpleasant event looms, it seems likely to happen soon and causes worry.
A piece of equipment for weaving (= making thread into cloth)
Adroit
Very skilful and quick in the way you think or move.
What was the secret of the success of B. Franklin?
“I will speak ill of no man and speak all the good I know of everybody.”
What did Carlyle say about compassion?
“A great man shows his greatness, by the way he treats little men.”
Deft
Skilful, clever, or quick.
What did Dr Johnson say about judging?
“God himself, sir, does not propose to judge man until the end of his days.”
Crude
Simple and not skilfully done or made.
What is the deepest urge in human nature?
The desire to be important.
Gnawing
(Vb.) to bite or chew something repeatedly, usually making a hole in it or gradually destroying it or (adj.) to make you feel worried or uncomfortable
Unfaltering
Never stopping or losing strength; not faltering.
Muslin
A very thin cotton material.
Plunder
To steal goods violently from a place, especially during a war.
To steal or remove something precious from something, in a way that does not consider moral laws or is more severe than it need be.
Viceroy
Someone who represents a king or queen and rules for him or her in another country.
Lustre
The brightness that a shiny surface has.
A very special, attractive quality that people admire.
What do some authorities declare about this feeling of importance?
“That people may actually go insane in order to find the feeling of importance that has been denied them in the harsh world of reality.”
Barkentine
Bergantín
Billowing
To spread over a large area, or (especially of things made of cloth) to become filled with air and appear to be larger.
A large, moving mass of something, such as smoke or cloud, that spreads over a large area.
A large wave.
Mast
A tall pole on a boat or ship that supports its sails.
Mástil.
What words can transform your life is you live them?
“I consider my ability to arouse enthusiasm among my people. The greater asset I possess and the way to develop the best that is in a person is by appreciation and encouragement.”
Be loath to do sth
To be unwilling to do something.
Lavish
Large in quantity and expensive or impressive.
Bawl
To shout in a very loud voice.
To cry loudly.
Heaping
Large.
Dazzle
If light dazzles you, it makes you unable to see for a short time.
If you are dazzled by someone or something, you think they are extremely good and exciting.
Gallantry
Polite and kind behaviour towards women, especially when in public. Ser un galán.
Deluge
A very large volume of something, more than can be managed.
A very large amount of rain or water.
To send a very large volume of something to someone.
Deft
Skilful, clever, or quick.
Adroit
Very skilful and quick in the way you think or move.