How to win friends and influence people Flashcards
1
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Habit ( 1 )
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- People don’t like criticism , use pleasant tone and don’t call them out on what they are doing just ask them if their ok with “it”
- Humans will never take the blame for their actions and never criticize people cause it will lead to negativity
2
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Habit ( 2 )
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- People don’t like criticism , use pleasant tone and don’t call them out on what they are doing just ask them if their ok with “it”
- Humans will never take the blame for their actions and never criticize people cause it will lead to negativity
- A greater man shows his greatness buy the way he treats little man
3
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Habit ( 3 )
A
- People don’t like criticism , use pleasant tone and don’t call them out on what they are doing just ask them if their ok with “it”
- Humans will never take the blame for their actions and never criticize people cause it will lead to negativity
- A greater man shows his greatness buy the way he treats little man
- See the good in people and be understanding
- People crave the desire to be important
4
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Habit ( 4 )
A
- People don’t like criticism , use pleasant tone and don’t call them out on what they are doing just ask them if their ok with “it”
- Humans will never take the blame for their actions and never criticize people cause it will lead to negativity
- A greater man shows his greatness buy the way he treats little man
- See the good in people and be understanding
- People crave the desire to be important
- Some of the things most people want include:
1 health and the preservation of life
2 food
3 sleep
4 Money and the things money will buy
5 life in the thereafter
6 sexual gratification
7 the well-being of our children
8 A feeling of importance
5
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Habit ( 5 )
A
- People don’t like criticism , use pleasant tone and don’t call them out on what they are doing just ask them if their ok with “it”
- Humans will never take the blame for their actions and never criticize people cause it will lead to negativity
- A greater man shows his greatness buy the way he treats little man
- See the good in people and be understanding
- People crave the desire to be important
- Some of the things most people want include:
1 health and the preservation of life
2 food
3 sleep
4 Money and the things money will buy
5 life in the thereafter
6 sexual gratification
7 the well-being of our children
8 A feeling of importance - Everyone likes compliments
- The feeling of importance makes people improve on anything
6
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Habit ( 6 )
A
- People don’t like criticism , use pleasant tone and don’t call them out on what they are doing just ask them if their ok with “it”
- Humans will never take the blame for their actions and never criticize people cause it will lead to negativity
- A greater man shows his greatness buy the way he treats little man
- See the good in people and be understanding
- People crave the desire to be important
- Some of the things most people want include:
1 health and the preservation of life
2 food
3 sleep
4 Money and the things money will buy
5 life in the thereafter
6 sexual gratification
7 the well-being of our children
8 A feeling of importance - Everyone likes compliments
- The feeling of importance makes people improve on anything
- Humans like to be called names that makes them feel important
- People usually say nothing when people do good but when someone do wrong we always tend to criticize them
7
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Habit ( 7 )
A
- People don’t like criticism , use pleasant tone and don’t call them out on what they are doing just ask them if their ok with “it”
- Humans will never take the blame for their actions and never criticize people cause it will lead to negativity
- A greater man shows his greatness buy the way he treats little man
- See the good in people and be understanding
- People crave the desire to be important
- Some of the things most people want include:
1 health and the preservation of life
2 food
3 sleep
4 Money and the things money will buy
5 life in the thereafter
6 sexual gratification
7 the well-being of our children
8 A feeling of importance - Everyone likes compliments
- The feeling of importance makes people improve on anything
- Humans like to be called names that makes them feel important
- People usually say nothing when people do good but when someone do wrong we always tend to criticize them
- People perform better with appreciation
- Make people feel appreciated when they do well and ignore the mistakes
8
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Habit ( 8 )
A
- People don’t like criticism , use pleasant tone and don’t call them out on what they are doing just ask them if their ok with “it”
- Humans will never take the blame for their actions and never criticize people cause it will lead to negativity
- A greater man shows his greatness buy the way he treats little man
- See the good in people and be understanding
- People crave the desire to be important
- Some of the things most people want include:
1 health and the preservation of life
2 food
3 sleep
4 Money and the things money will buy
5 life in the thereafter
6 sexual gratification
7 the well-being of our children
8 A feeling of importance - Everyone likes compliments
- The feeling of importance makes people improve on anything
- Humans like to be called names that makes them feel important
- People usually say nothing when people do good but when someone do wrong we always tend to criticize them
- People perform better with appreciation
- Make people feel appreciated when they do well and ignore the mistakes
- Use appreciation not flattery
- To influence people other people is to talk about what they want and show them how to get it
9
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Habit ( 9 )
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- Remember that tomorrow when you are trying to get somebody to do something. If, for example, you don’t want your children to smoke, don’t preach at them, and don’t talk about what you want; but show them that cigarettes may keep them from making the basketball team or winning the hundred-yard dash.
10
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Habit Ten ( 10 )
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- Remember that tomorrow when you are trying to get somebody to do something. If, for example, you don’t want your children to smoke, don’t preach at them, and don’t talk about what you want; but show them that cigarettes may keep them from making the basketball team or winning the hundred-yard dash.
- How can I make this person want to do it?
11
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Habit Eleven ( 11 )
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- Remember that tomorrow when you are trying to get somebody to do something. If, for example, you don’t want your children to smoke, don’t preach at them, and don’t talk about what you want; but show them that cigarettes may keep them from making the basketball team or winning the hundred-yard dash.
- How can I make this person want to do it?
- Don’t make sense you get irritated and argue about a change. Make people see your point of view and you should see their own
12
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Habit twelve ( 12 )
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- Remember that tomorrow when you are trying to get somebody to do something. If, for example, you don’t want your children to smoke, don’t preach at them, and don’t talk about what you want; but show them that cigarettes may keep them from making the basketball team or winning the hundred-yard dash.
- How can I make this person want to do it?
- Don’t make sense you get irritated and argue about a change. Make people see your point of view and you should see their own
- Nobody wants to hear about your desires, they only want to hear about them(group or crowd)
13
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Habit thirteen ( 13 )
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- Remember that tomorrow when you are trying to get somebody to do something. If, for example, you don’t want your children to smoke, don’t preach at them, and don’t talk about what you want; but show them that cigarettes may keep them from making the basketball team or winning the hundred-yard dash.
- How can I make this person want to do it?
- Don’t make sense you get irritated and argue about a change. Make people see your point of view and you should see their own
- Nobody wants to hear about your desires, they only want to hear about them(group or crowd)
- Don’t state what you want , state how you can help someone. Focus on their wants and not your own
14
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Habit fourteen ( 14 )
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- Remember that tomorrow when you are trying to get somebody to do something. If, for example, you don’t want your children to smoke, don’t preach at them, and don’t talk about what you want; but show them that cigarettes may keep them from making the basketball team or winning the hundred-yard dash.
- How can I make this person want to do it?
- Don’t make sense you get irritated and argue about a change. Make people see your point of view and you should see their own
- Nobody wants to hear about your desires, they only want to hear about them(group or crowd)
- Don’t state what you want , state how you can help someone. Focus on their wants and not your own
- Sometimes its better to not try to convince people to do something. Show them a example and Make people eager to see the same results from you
15
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Habit fifth teen (15 )
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- Remember that tomorrow when you are trying to get somebody to do something. If, for example, you don’t want your children to smoke, don’t preach at them, and don’t talk about what you want; but show them that cigarettes may keep them from making the basketball team or winning the hundred-yard dash.
- How can I make this person want to do it?
- Don’t make sense you get irritated and argue about a change. Make people see your point of view and you should see their own
- Nobody wants to hear about your desires, they only want to hear about them(group or crowd)
- Don’t state what you want , state how you can help someone. Focus on their wants and not your own
- Sometimes its better to not try to convince people to do something. Show them a example and Make people eager to see the same results from you
- Ask yourself : What does he/she want?
- Make them feel importance
16
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Habit sixteen ( 16 )
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Fundamental Techniques
-Don’t criticize, condemn or complain
-Give honest and sincere appreciatio
-Arouse in the other person an eager want