hooking up Flashcards
a brief history of sex
• Major changes in the modern world:
– Increased rights and responsibilities for women
– Development of family planning techniques
– Increasing research on sex and related topics
• Uncoupling of direct link between sex and reproduction / pregnancy
• Increasingly liberal attitudes towards sexual behaviour
signs of commitment/relationships
• Previous focus on structured and committed relationships during late adolescence and early adulthood
• More recent UK relationships – Going out / Going steady / Dating – “Courting” – Relationship indicators (generation specific) What about ‘casual’ relationships?
Modern Casual Relationships
• Several different terms used: – Fling – Friends with benefits – No strings attached – One night stand
• These terms cover:
– Different expectations for sex and/or emotional involvement
– May be seen as a precursor to a longer-term relationship
• Supported by a range of apps
– Tinder, Grindr, Blendr, Pure etc.
‘hooking up’
– Linked to physically intimate behaviours (kissing through to oral sex and penetrative intercourse)
– Outside of relationship / commitment context
– Vague definition for type of contact expected
– Vague on expected repetition (compare to ‘friends with benefits’)
• Common practice in the US (Glenn and Marquardt, 2001):
– 50% to 75% of US undergraduates
‘hooking up’ is associated with
– Social drinking
– Risk of sexually transmitted infections
– Negative emotional reactions (depressive symptoms)
– Possible damage to social reputation (internet leaks)
‘hooking up’ sex differences and similarities
– Men report hooking up more… – Fairly similar reactions from males and females for levels of: • Regret (negative) • Awkwardness (negative) • Feeling desirable (positive)
‘hooking up’ inconsistencies with race
– Rarely studied
– Related factors (socio-economic status, religiosity etc.)
attachment
• Students with divorced parents statistically(!!!) more likely to report hooking up
• Generally, adolescents with divorced parents:
– View commitment more sceptically
– Approach relationships more cautiously
– Have sex a younger age
adult attachment theory
– Interactions at an early age important
– Level of closeness and experiences with caregivers effect later life
– Regulates need for closeness, security and intimacy with others
– Secure vs. Insecure Attachment
owen et al 2010
• Examined how demographic and psychosocial factors relate to:
– Whether university students had hooked up within last 12 months
– Emotional reactions to hooking up
• Variables: – Sex / gender – Parental income and marital status – Attachment – Religiosity – Alcohol use – General psychological well-being – Permissive attitudes about hooking up
owen 2010 ppts
• 832 Participants (average age 20)
– 578 Female
– 247 Male
– 7 didn’t identify
- Approximately 62.5% Caucasian (37.5% other ethnic groups)
- 93.4% heterosexual (6.6% non-heterosexual)
• Anyone in a relationship was excluded from analysis
– Lowered chances of hooking up
– Infidelity (motivations / reactions) is different to hooking up
owen 2010, why is the sample of interest
• Students volunteering for sex research may:
– Be more sexually experienced
– Hold less traditional / conservative values
– Engage in more sexual sensation seeking
– Be more likely to engage in casual sexual encounters
• Hooking up defined by Owen et al. (2010) as:
– ‘‘an event in which two people are physically intimate outside of a committed relationship without the expectation of future encounters.’’
frequency (owen)
– 48% sample had not hooked up in last 12 months
– 24.4% had hooked up once or twice
– 27.6% hooked up 3 or more times
• Data collected through an online survey including a number of questionnaires (one for each variable)
key findings - hooking up behaviour
• No sex difference (statistically) in frequency of hooking up
• For both sexes, hooking up was positively related to:
– Parents income, alcohol consumption and attitudes towards hooking up
- Hooking up was positively related to psychological well-being among men only
- Hooking up was negatively related to religiosity among women only
- No relationship between hooking up and attachment style, family relationship or divorce