Grief Flashcards
psychology
the scientific study of human behavior
psyche
mind
-logy
study of
funeral service psychology
the study of human behavior as related to funeral service
mourning
“the process” - an adjustment process which involves grief and/or sorrow over a period of time and helps in the reorganization of the life of an individual following a loss or death of someone loved.
grief
“the emotion” - an emotion or set of emotions due to a loss
bereavement
“the event” - the experience of the emotion of grief….a state of deprivation of something valuable.
thanatology
the study of death
thanos
death
phobia
fear
thanatophopbia
an irrational, exaggerated fear of death
Elizabeth Kubler-Ross
physician worked with hospice patients; identified “five stages” a terminally ill person and the family experiences; she wrote “On Death and Dying”
Five Stages of Death & Dying
- denial & isolation
- anger
- bargaining
- depression
- acceptance
Erich Lindemann
- chief of psychiatry at Massachusetts General Hospital in 1944
- worked with families who lost loved ones in the Coconut Grove fire
- first professional to describe “anticipatory grief”
- wrote “Symptomatology and Management of Acute Grief”
- introduced the “Grief Syndrome”
Grief Syndrome
- somatic or bodily distress of some type
- preoccupation with the image of the deceased
- guilt relating to the deceased or circumstances of the death
- hostile reactions
- inability to function as before the loss
- may develop traits of the behavior of the deceased
John Bowlby
a British psychiatrist who devoted much of his professional career to understanding attachment - what it is and how it develops; noted for the “Attachment Theory”
Attachment Theory
attachements come from a need for security and safety; situations that endanger the bond of attachment give rise to emotional reactions; the greater the potential for loss, the more intense the reaction
Sigmund Freud
- wrote the paper “Mourning and Melancholia” in 1917 in which he pointed out that depression, which he called “melancholia,” was a pathological form of normal grief
- he came up with the concept of “grief work” which implies that the mourner needs to take action
C.M. Parkes Phases of Mourning
- period of numbness
- phase of yearning
- phase of disorganization and despair
- phase of reorganized behavior
J. William Worden
- a psychiatrist who wrote “Grief Counseling & Grief Therapy
- participated in the “Harvard Bereavement Study” which indicated the mourning is necessary for all who have experienced loss through death.
- identified the “Four Tasks of Mourning”
Worden’s Four Tasks of Mourning
- to accept the reality of the loss
- to work through the pain of grief
- to adjust to an environment in which the deceased is missing
- to emotionally relocate the deceased and move on with life
normal grief
uncomplicated grief
manifestations of normal grief
behaviors, feelings, physical sensations, cognitions
abnormal (complicated, unresolved) grief
grief extending over a long period of time without resolution
acute grief
the intense physical and emotional expression of grief occurring as the awareness increases of a loss of someone or something significant.
adaption
the individual’s ability to adjust to the psychological and emotional changes brought on by a stressful even such as the death of a significant other
affect
feelings and their expression
aftercare (post-funeral counseling)
those appropriate and helpful acts of counseling that comes after the funeral
aggression
the intentional infliction of physical or psychological harm on another
A.I.D.S.
Acquired Immune Deficiency Syndrome
alienation
the state of estrangement an individual feels in social settings that are viewed as foreign, unpredictable or unacceptable
alternatives
providing a choice of services and merchandise available as families make a selection and complete funeral arrangements, formulating different actions in adjusting to a crisis
anger
blame directed towards another person
anomic grief
a term to describe the experience of grief, especially in you bereaved parents, where mourning customs are unclear due to an inappropriate death and the absence of prior bereavement experience, typical in a society that has attempted to minimize the impact of death through medical control of disease and social control of those who deal the the dying and the dead.
anticipatory grief
syndrome characterized by the presence of grief in anticipation of death or loss; the actual death comes as a confirmation of knowledge of a life-limiting condition.
anxiety
a state of tension, typically characterized by rapid heartbeat, shortness of breath and other similar ramifications of arousal of the automatic nervous system; an emotion characterized by a vague fear or premonition that something undesirable is going to happen
at need counseling
a death has occurred and the funeral director is advising the family from the time death occurs until the final disposition including selection of the services and merchandise during the arrangement conference
attachment (Bowlby)
the tendency in human beings to make strong affectionate bonds with others coming from the need for security and safety
attending (listening)
giving undivided attention by means of verbal and non-verbal behavior
attitude
a learned tendency to respond to people, objects, or institutions in a positive or negative way
bereavement
the act or event of separation or loss that results in the experience of grief
chronic grief
excessive in duration and never comes to a satisfactory conclusion
cognitive psychology
from the Latin, “to know”. The study of the origins and consequences of thoughts, memories, beliefs, perceptions, explanations, and other mental processes
committal service
the rite of finality in a funeral service preceding cremation, earth burial, entombment or burial at sea
communication
a general term for the exchange of information, feelings, thoughts and acts between two or more people, including both verbal and non-verbal aspects of the interchange
congruence
according to client-centered counseling, the necessary quality of a counselor being in touch with reality and other’s perception of oneself
coping
characteristic ways of responding to stress
counselee
the individual seeking assistance or guidance
counseling (Webster)
advice, especially that given as a result of consultation
counseling (Jackson)
any time someone helps someone else with a problem
counseling (Rogers)
good communication within and between men/women; or, good (free) communication within or between men/women is always therapeutic
counseling (Ohlsen)
a therapeutic experience for reasonably healthy persons. Do not confuse this with psychotherapy which is treatment for emotionally disturbed persons who seek or are referred for assistance with pathological problems. A counselor’s clients are encouraged to seek assistance before they develop serious neurotic, psychotic, or characterological disorders.
counselor
the individual providing assistance and guidance
crisis
a highly emotional temporary state in which an individual’s feeling of anxiety, grief, confusion or pain impair his/her ability to act
crisis counseling
interventions for a highly emotional temporary state in which individuals, overcome by feelings of anxiety, grief, confusion or pain are unable to act in a realistic, normal manner. Intentional responses which help individuals in a crisis situation
death anxiety
a learned emotional response to death-related phenomenon which is characterized by extreme apprehension