Gender equality Flashcards
How were Arabs in Pre-Islamic Arabia?
In Pre-Islamic Arabia, most Arab’s lived a nomadic life, men were held in high esteem and women in low esteem. The fact that tribes were much more in need of boys to defend them had devalued women in this society and led to the preference for male children. Infidelity of female children was common.
Give an example of how girls were treated in pre-Islamic arabia
o If a girl was born within a family, they would either be deprived of love and mercy, or will be buried alive. Allah will question those who oppress women and punish them for their despicable acts that Allah strongly condemns in the Qur’an. “And when the female (infant) buried alive shall be asked: for what sin was she buried?” (81:8). On the day of resurrection, the killer will be confronted with his crime, his victim and her accusation. This is a powerful device with which to intimidate the killer, for there is nothing more horrifying for a killer than to be confronted by his victim. She will be given the chance to accuse him of his crime in front of Allah.
o The pagan Arabs buried their daughters whenever they feared poverty and humiliation. Allah instructs in the Qur’an “… Kill not your children because of poverty- we provide sustenance for you and for them; come no near to shameful sins whether committed openly or secretly and kill not anyone who Allah has forbidden except for a just cause”. (6:151)
Name a worst habit of pagan women
One of the worst habits of pagan women was to circumambulate the sacred House naked. The Prophet (PBUH) prohibited the practice and instructed that: “No naked person may circumambulate the House”.
How were women treated in the pre-Islamic Arabia and the four different types?
o Women were treated as sex objects whose purpose was to satisfy men’s sexual desires and to produce children. Nikaah (marriage) in pre-Islamic times took many forms:
One type was similar to that of the present day, i.e. a man would ask somebody else for the hand of a girl for marriage, and give her mahr and then marry her.
Second type was that a man would force his wife after she had become clean from her period to have sex with another man who was of noble lineage. Her husband would refuse to sleep with her until she became pregnant from the man with whom she was sleeping. When her pregnancy became evident, her husband would sleep with her if he so wished. Her husband would make her do this so their child would be of a noble lineage.
Another type of marriage was that a group of men would choose a woman and all, one by one, have sex with her. If she became pregnant and delivered a child, the father would be the one she liked the most, and her child would follow him.
The forth type was similar to the third, but involved master forcing their prostitutes to have sex for money and this time the father will be the man who looks closest to the child.
o (The Prophet (PBUH) banned all of these types of marriages except the type of marriage the people recognise today. )
What did many Arab men do to women?
Many Arabs forced women into prostitution, for the sake of money. Allah condemns this and says “And force not your maids to prostitution, if they desire chastity, in order that you make a gain in the (perishable) good of this worldly life.” (24:33)
Was polygamy popular in pre-Islamic Arabia?
Polygamy was popular in Pre-Islamic Arabia; the greater number of wives a man had, the prouder he was. Islam set rules and regulations regarding polygamy and made it clear that for a man to be able to marry more than one wife, he must treat them all equally. Islam allowed only 4 wives.
Could a man divorce his wife multiple times?
A man could divorce his wife multiple time. So the following verse was revealed: “Divorce is twice, after that either you retain her on reasonable terms or release her with kindness” (2:229). ‘Iddah’ (a waiting period which must elapse before she can remarry) was established amongst the pagan Arabs before Islam. However a man could still divorce his wife as many times as he wished. He would then return her just before the end of their prescribed period of Iddah. In the time of the Prophet (PBUH), a man once said to his wife that “I will not keep you, nor will I release you”. Meaning he will divorce him but remarry her once her period of Iddah ended. In response, the Prophet revealed the verse above.
Did women have right to ownership?
Women had no established right to ownership and often possessed nothing. In Pre-Islamic Arabia the next-of-kin to the deceased would inherit his wives along with other goods and slaves. In response Allah said “O you who believe! You are forbidden to inherit women against their will, and you should not treat them with harshness that you may take back part of the dower you have given them”. (4:19).
What does Awra mean?
Awra means covering one’s nakedness.
Explain awra inside prayer
A woman’s Awra whilst reading Salat consists the whole body except the face, hands and feet. Allah says “O children of Adam! Wear your beautiful apparel (zeenah) at every time and place of prayer”. (Surah al-A’raf, 31)
Therefore, a woman must cover herself properly when performing salat. Everything besides the face, hands and feet must be covered. The face must be covered properly so that no hair is exposed. Also, care should be taken that no part from above the wrists and ankles is exposed.
The Awra must be concealed from before entering into Salat and must remain concealed until the end. If quarter of a part/organ that requires concealment is exposed before initiating Salat, then Salat will not be valid from the outset.
Explain awra outside prayer according to privacy and seclusion
Its required (wajib) to cover one’s minimum nakedness (between the navel and knee for all Muslims) even when alone.
Muhammad PBUH) said “Modesty is part of faith (iman)”.
So a woman must cover even in privacy between her navels and (including) knees except when there’s a need, such as showering.
Explain awra outside prayer according awra in front of the husband
In principle, its permissible for the spouses to look at any part of each other’s body- as such, there’s no Awra in front of the spouse.
Scholars mention however, that although its permissible for the spouses it look at any part of the partner’s body.
Explain awra outside prayer according awra in front of a Muslim Mahram
The Awra of a women in front of her Mahram men (those with whom marriage is permanently unlawful), such as the father consists of the area between the navel and knees, and also the stomach and back.
It will also be permissible for a Mahram to touch those parts that are permissible to expose I front of them, provided there’s no fear of temptation or desire. But if there’s a fear of temptation (fitna), then it will be impermissible to expose these parts even in front of Mahram’s, neither will it be permissible to see or touch those area of a Mahram’s body.
Explain awra outside prayer according awra in front of a non- Muslim Mahram
Non-Muslims are similar to other Mahram’s in that a woman may expose herself besides from the navel to the knee and the stomach and back, provided there’s no fear of temptation (fitna).
There are two reasons for it. Firstly the Qur’an permits a woman to expose herself (to a degree) in front of her father, brother, son, etc. without specifying that he be a Muslim. Secondly, the Fuqaha explicitly mention that a Mahram with whom a woman may go on a journey of Hajj includes also a non-Muslim.
Its permissible for a woman to travel with all types of Mahram’s except a fire worshipper, for he believes marriage with her to be permissible.
So it would be permissible for a woman to uncover besides the area between the naval and knees, and the stomach and back in front of her non-Muslim Mahram’s, provided 2 conditions are met:
That there be no desire (shahwah) or fear of temptation (fitna), especially when we live in an age where evil such as incest among the non-Muslims is becoming common.
That the non-Muslim close relative not be among those who believe that it’s permissible to marry close relatives.
Firstly, it should be remembered that all the parts of the body that need to be covered (in the various situations discussed above) must be covered with clothing that’s loose. The clothing must not be close-fitting whereby the figure of the body is visible or transparent by which the colour of the body is able to be seen.
Secondly, if there’s a fear of desire (shahwah) on either side or there’s fear of temptation (fitna), then it will be necessary to cover.
Thirdly, it will be permissible to uncover and expose parts of the Awra in cases of extreme need and necessity, such as medication. But, care should be taken that this is limited to only the part that needs treatment. If treatments is needed on the actual private parts, then it would be better to receive treatment from someone of the same sex. But if is not possible then it would be allowed to receive treatment from a specialist of the opposite sex.
Explain modern feminism in Islam
o There’s currently an ongoing debate about the actual status of women in Islam, with both conservatives and Islamic feminism using Qur’an, Hadith and important women in Islamic history as evidence for the discussion on women’s rights, with feminism arguing that early Islam represented more free ideals, while conservatives argue that gender issues are ‘divinely ordained’ (holy orders).
o Critics argue that those who question the faith’s view in gender segregation, or who attempt to make changes, are transgressing their boundaries and are acting offensively. On the other hand, people have stated Islam doesn’t advocate gender segregation.