Friendship and love Flashcards

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What is the social penetration theory?

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Altman and Taylor
The role of self-disclosure in developing and maintaining friendships. Breadth and depth of disclosure

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What are the stages of social penetration?

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Orientation, exploratory affective exchange, affective exchange, stable exchange

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What is orientation?

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Superficial info, cautious, socially desirable behaviours. First dates/ acquaintances

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What is exploratory affective exchange?

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Less cautious, limited to the public self, Casual acquaintances or friends

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Affective exchange?

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Some private or intimate information, commitment and comfort, initiation of conflict. Close friends or romantic partners

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What is stable exchange?

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Openness, most intimate info, close friends and romantic partners

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Collins and Miller - meta analysis

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  • People who take part in intimate disclosure are liked more than those who disclose less
  • People disclose more to people they like more
    People like others more following self-disclosure
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What are limitations of the social penetration theory?

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  • Limited in scope - does not apply to co-workers, neighbours or acquaintances
  • Does not describe or explain established relationships
  • Disclosure may be non-linear
  • Individual differences in disclosure preferences are not considered
  • Cultural differences in self-disclosure are not considered
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What has social media enabled?

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Self-disclosure to be more accessible

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What is social exchange framework?

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The role of costs and rewards in the development of personal relationships

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Explain men’s same gender friendships as found by Hall 2015

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  • Greater value placed on instrumental or agentic characteristics
  • Higher risk of low-quality friendships
  • Increased homophobia
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Explain women’s same gender friendships

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  • Communion and self-disclosure - Greater effort and expectation
  • Increased risk of co-rumination - when you talk about problems with peers but constantly dwell on that problem. Constantly talking about a certain problem. - rumination is associated with things like depression and anxiety
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Explain gender differences in friendship

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  • Meta-analysis of expectations in men and women’s same gender friendships
  • Symmetrical reciprocity and communion expectations higher among women
  • Agency expectations higher among men (money, physical power, status
  • Solidarity expectations similar across genders
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Hall 2015 critical evaluation

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  • Evidence supported by meta-analysis
  • Research limited to North America and Europe/mostly Western countries
  • Homophobia and co-rumination may be related to culturally determined gender roles
  • Same gender friendships among non-heterosexual groups not considered
  • Does not take into account individuals with other gender identities
    Does not consider other types of friendships beyond same gender friendships
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What is romantic love?

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The most developed and intense type of interpersonal relationship

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What is love?

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  • Fondness and passion for certain activities (meraki) places (choros) and objects (eros)
  • Affection and loyalty towards family (storge), friends (philia) and ourself (philautia)
    Passionate desire of ‘epithymia’ and the star crossed destiny of ananke
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Sternberg’s triangular theory of love

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  • Passion - sexual desire, and physical attraction
  • Intimacy - connection and feelings of closeness
  • Commitment - to love in the short term; to maintain that love in the long term
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Define passionate love?

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The state of intense longing and desire for another person, involving very intense emotions

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What is the three factor theory of passionate love? Hatfield and Walster

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1) Meeting a suitable potential partner
2) Attributing physiological arousal to the presence of the potential partner
Understanding and accepting the concept of love

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What is companionate love?

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  • Based on friendly affection and deep attachment due to extensive familiarity
  • Replaces and is more enduring than passionate love
  • It is suggested that evolutionary processes explain the
    transition from passionate to companionate love
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What are predictors of relationship satisfcation

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Social exchange and equity
Interpretation
Social comparison
Social networks
Attachment

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What is social exchange?

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  • Social exchange theory; balance between what one gives and receives
  • People take part in relationships that are personally rewarding and where the rewards outweigh the costs of the relationships
  • Cost benefit analysis
    Compare existing relationship with possible rewards and costs of alternative relationships
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What is the equity theory?

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  • Based on social exchange theory; expectations of exchange in close relationships
  • Inequity in relationships can have negative consequences
  • Buunk and Vanyperen 1991
    Perceiving equality leads to highest relationship satisfaction
    Followed by perception of advantage
    Those who felt deprived feel least satisfied in a relationship
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What did Sprecher find out about equity?

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Under benefiting inequity primed group reported significantly more distress than overbenefiting inequity primed group

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Describe a happy relationship
Problems are blamed on the self The partner is given credit for solving the problems - Thompson and Kelley 1981)
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Describe an unhappy relationship
People blame their problems on their partner See their partner's problematic behaviour as affecting other aspects of the relationship (Fincham and Bradbury 1991)
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Does interpretation of partner's behaviour contribute to relationship satisfaction? Fincham and Bradbury 1992
Marital satisfaction correlated negatively with causal attributions, responsibility attribution, blame attribution
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Does comparing your relationship to other relationships affect relationship satisfaction?
Buunk and Van Der Ejinden Individuals with high relationship satisfacton perceive their relationship as better than most other's relationships
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Relationship satisfaction - social networks
Cotton, Cunningham, and Antill 1993 166 families in sydney, cross sectional survey Measured network structure, six people they felt closest too Marital satisfaction increased as a function of overlap between the couples social networks
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Attachment theory
Attachment style to primary caregiver predicts attachment style in close relationships in later life Those with secure attachment style - Tend to have lasting relationships - Experience compassionate love - Are preferred as partners (Brennan and Shaver, 1995, Doherty et al 1994, chappel and davis 1998)
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What determines if a relationship will last?
Rusbult - the investment model Commitment to relationship is predicted by - High staisfaction in current relationship - Investment size - Quality of alternatives Individuals in happy and committed relationships engage in relationship protecting behaviours - Devaluing attractive individuals Less goal directed mimicry
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How would an avoidant deal with a breakup?
Increased anger and sadness following breakup
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How would the person who inititated the breakup feel?
Increased depression, anxiety, distress, takes longer to get over break up