Final SM Flashcards
10 Healthy Financial Habits
- Know where you stand finically
A. Net worth —> everything you own —> everything you owe - Live within your means
A. Don’t spend more you have you make - Save/pay yourself first
A. Build an emergency fund - Understanding debt & credit
A. Permissible debt: used to purchase an asset
B. Bad debt: hinders freedom - Credit
A. Builds credit history - Set up a financial safety Net
A. Protection in case of financial emergency - Delayed gratification and values-based Goal setting
A. SMART goals - Track your spending
- Create Financial accountability network
- Divided and conquer
A. Create a budget, adopt one habit at a time
Kolb’s Cycle
- Experience: you do something, or something happens which you experience
- Refelction: time is spent reviewing and evaluating what happened
- Theorizing: analysis of better ways; consideration of alternatives
- Experimenting: deciding what to do different, and putting it into action
Elements of Solidifying Transformation
Failing well:
• Change your mindset & be optimistic/resilient
o Failure is preparation and an opportunity to grow and learn.
• Take responsibility & initiative amid fear, etc.
• Remember that failure is a result, it’s not who you are.
Celebrating the Wins:
• Celebrating wins and/or progress, big or small, is critical for leaders to create motivation and movement.
• Celebration reminds people about their goals, and proves the process is working.
• Celebration builds confidence and creates motivation
• Celebration proves what you value
Definition of Authenticity
representing one’s true nature or beliefs; true to oneself to to the person identified
What authenticity does
• Helps people feel comfortable, safe and respected.
• Allows you to be real and not attacking
• Liberates us; gives us the freedom to be ourselves
• Inspires the people around us
• Grows love and intimacy
How to develop Authenticity
• Become self-aware; know who you are and what you value
• Seek genuine connection with others
• Don’t pretend to be perfect; its impossible
• Be present and listen
• Offer your true thoughts, feelings and views respectfully and unapologetically
• Don’t seek to please people, but seek to please God
• Be courageous
• Learn from others
Prioritizing Time
Focusing first on what matters the most.
Class assignments
Social vs. School life
• Track it before you change it
o We must have a “baseline” of how we currently use our resources before we can decide if we are being effective, efficient, good stewards; before we can decide if a change a necessary.
What does prioritizing reveal
o What you value
o How limited your time actually is
Planning fallacy – the expectation that tasks will take less time than they actually do.
o What can wait
o What is most important
At the end of the day “what will you be most glad or relieved to have done?”
o What the next step is
What is one small thing you can do now, to move things forward?
o What you might need to say “no” to
o What might be distracting you
How to move forward with the unexpected
• Step back and take a break; perhaps engage the mind-body loop
• Take times to pray and ask God for wisdom and patience; take time to listen to God
• Remember that you are a work in progress. When you maintain that perspective, you realize that you don’t have to be perfect
• Be deliberate in your response, not automatic.
• Ask yourself some good questions such as…
o What is my next step
• Control the controllable’s,
• Be proactive; think ahead
• Focus on the present and where you are going
o Don’t dwell on the past; learn from the past
• Focus on the positives and the process