Final Review

Question 1

What is honor as defined in class?

Answer 1

a way of accurately seeing the value of someone made in God’s image

Question 2

What did God do as his final step on creation?

Answer 2

rested

Question 3

Complete the following quote: “Some adults remain childishly dependent, 
unnecessarily needy….

Answer 3

and forever at the mercy of anyone that will take care of them.”

Question 4

Compassion + Understanding=

Answer 4

Safety

Question 5

Define trustworthiness, as defined in class.

Answer 5

recognizing the value of someone & treating them accordingly

Question 6

Relationship + Choice=

Answer 6

Change

Question 7

What are the steps to the OLD dance?

Answer 7

I hurt
I want
I fear 
I react
You hurt
You want
You fear
You react

Question 8

What does God use as an information system to us?

Answer 8

Emotions

Question 9

Complete the following quote: “the words said are…”

Answer 9

rarely the words meant

Question 10

What are suggested methods for setting your boundaries?

Answer 10

Prayer
Reading
Experience

Question 11

What are the steps to executing the ‘W’ discussed in class?

Answer 11

Establish a no-loser policy
Listen
Ask God
Brainstorm a solution
Select
Execute
Evaluate

Question 12

What are the 6 myths regarding boundaries?

Answer 12

Myth #1: If I set boundaries, I’m being selfish
Myth #2: Boundaries are a sign of disobedience
Myth #3: If I begin setting boundaries, I will be hurt by others
Myth #4: If I set boundaries, I’m hurting others
Myth #5: boundaries mean that I am angry
Myth #6: boundaries cause feelings of guilt

Question 13

Define an adult as defined in class

Answer 13

one who is fully capable of being responsible for themselves and who fully accepts that responsibility

Question 14

What are our 3 presuppositions to relationships according to the text

Answer 14

We are made for relationship
We are made with the ability to choose
We are made to take responsibility for ourselves

Question 15

What are the new steps we use to correct the OLD dance (functionally dysfunctional system)

Answer 15

Take control
Take responsibility
Don’t allow manipulation
Don’t look to others for satisfaction
Become your own CEO
Recruit assistants

Question 16

Know the definition of each letter in the Myer’s Biggs Personality test.

Answer 16

E-extr
I-Int

S-Sensing
N-iNtuition

T-Thinking
F-Feeling

P-Perceiving
J-Judging

Question 17

Know the 10 Commandments of Human Relations.

Answer 17

Talk to people
Smile at people
Call people by name
Be friendly & helpful
Be cordial
Show genuine interest
Be generous with praise
Consider others feelings
Be eager to lend a helping hand
Be alert to give service

Question 18

Name Maslow’s Hierarchy of Human Needs

Answer 18

1-Physiological Needs
   food
   clothing
   shelter
2-Safety/comfort
3-Love
   physical intimacy
   emotion intimacy
   spiritual intimacy
4-Esteem
    outside
    inside
5-Self-actualization

Question 19

What equation do we use to determine someones behavior?

Answer 19

Nature+Nurture+Error

Be sure and know what each of these are.

Question 20

What equation do we use to determine learning?

Answer 20

L = ∆B x E

Know each part of the equation

Question 21

What equation do we use to determine commitment?

Answer 21

C=(SxTxExW)^D
or
C = (R)^D

Know each part of the equation