Final Exam 11/21 Flashcards

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Love

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a special kind of attitude, with strong emotional and behavioral components. It is also a phenomenon that eludes easy definition or explanation

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Passionate love

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aka romantic love or infatuation, is a state of extreme absorption with and desire for another. It is characterized by feelings of tenderness, elation, anxiety, sexual desire, and ecstasy. It is often short-lived

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Companionate Love

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a less intense emotion than passionate love, it is characterized by friendly affection and a deep attachment that is based on extensive familiarity with the loved one.

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3 dimensions of Sternberg’s Triangular Theory of Love

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  1. Passion
  2. Intimacy
  3. commitment
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Passion

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the motivational component of Sternbergs TTL. tends to develop rapidly and intensely in the early stages of a love relationship and then declines as the relationship progresses

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intimacy

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the emotional component of Sternbergs TTL. continues to build overtime at different rates

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commitment

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the thinking component of Sternbergs TTL. continues to build overtime at different rates

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Non-love

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the absence of all 3 components of Sternbergs TTL

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Lee’s 6 styles of loving

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  1. romantic
  2. game-playing
  3. possessive
  4. companionate
  5. altruistic
  6. pragmatic
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Romantic love style (eros)

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tend to place their emphasis on physical beauty as they search for ideal mates

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Game-playing love style (ludus)

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like to play the field and acquire many sexual “conquests” with little or no commitment

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possessive love style (mania)

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tend to seek obsessive love relationships, which are often characterized by turmoil and jealousy

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companionate love style (storge)

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are slow to develop affection and commitment but tend to experience relationships that endure

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altruistic love stype (agape)

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characterized by selflessness and caring, compassionate desire to give to another w/o expectation of reciprocity

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pragmatic love style (pragma)

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tend to select lovers based on rational, practical criteria that are likely to lead to mutual satisfation

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neurotransmitters

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chemicals that wllos brain cells to communicate with each other and are chemically similar to amphetamines and produce similar effects like euphoria, giddiness, and elation

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endorphins

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another set of neurotransmitters that are pain-blunting chemicals and are soothing substances that help produce a sense of euphoria, security, tranquility, and peace

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Oxytocin

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secreted by the hypothalamus during cuddling and physical intimacy plays an important role in facilitating social attachment and in fostering feelings of being loved

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proximity

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the geographic nearness of one person to another, which is an important factor in inter-personal attraction

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mere exposure effect

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a phenomenon in which repeated exposure to novel stimuli tends to increase an individual’s liking for such stimuli

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similiarity

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shared beliefs, interest, and values which is a factor in attracting people to one another

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homophily

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the tendacy to form relationships with people of similar or equal status in various social and personal attributes

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reciprocity

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the principle that when we are recipients of expressions of liking or loving, we tend to respond in kind

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physical attractiveness

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physical beauty, which is a powerful factor in attracting lovers with one another

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attachment

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intense emotional tie between 2 individuals, such as an infant and a parent or adult lovers

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securely attached

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best equipped to establish stable and satisfying relationships. These individuals find it easy to get close to others and feel comfortable with others ebing close to them, They feel secure in relationships and do not fear being abandoned. relationship duration avg 10 yrs

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anxious-ambivalent attached

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often have poor self-image and feel insecure in relationships. these indiv. might want to get close to a partner very much but fear that their partner does not want to get close to them. characterized by rollercoaster emotional shifts and obsessive sexual attraction and jealousy. relationship duration avg 5 yrs

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avoidant

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very uncomfortable being close to others. worry about being dependent on another and distrustful of someone depending on them. fear intimacy and experience emotional shifts from highs to lows.relationship duration avg 6 yrs

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hook-ups

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short-term, loveless sexual liasons that occur during a brief interval

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friends with benefits

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sexual interaction between friends who do not define their relationship as romantic

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jealousy

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an aversive emotional reaction evoked by a real or imagined relationship involving one’s partner and a third person

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Ingredients commonly present in a lasting love relationship

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  • self acceptance
  • acceptance of one’s partner
  • appreciation of one another
  • commitment
  • good communication
  • realistic expectations
  • shared interests
  • equality in decision making
  • the ability to face conflict effectively
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How to talk about sex (7 ways)

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  • talk about why it is hard to talk about it
  • reading and discussing
  • sharing sexual histories
  • be an active listener
  • maintain eye contact
  • provide feedback
  • support your partner’s communication efforts
  • express unconditional positive regard
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5 Strategies for Expressing Complaints

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  1. choose the right time and place
  2. temper complaints with praise
  3. avoid why questions
  4. express negative emotions appropriately
  5. limit complaints to one per discussion
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4 Ways to Receive Complaints

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  1. acknowledge a complaint and find something to agree with
  2. ask clarifying questions
  3. express your feelings
  4. focus on future changes you can make
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celibate

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a physically mature person who does not engage in sexual behavior

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Erotic Waking Fantasies

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commonly occure during daydreams, masturbation, or sexual encounters with a partner

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functions of fantasy

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  • source of pleasure and arousal
  • can help people overcome anxiety and facilitate sexual functioning or compensate for a somewhat negative sexual situation
  • allow tolerable expression of “forbidden fantasies”
  • provide relief from gender role expecations
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purposes of masturbation

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  • relieve sexual tensions
  • self-exploration
  • helpfl for women learning to experience orgasms and men experimenting with their response patterns to increase ejaculatory control
  • help sleep at night
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Characteristic of adults who are most-likely to masturbate

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  • liberal views
  • college educated
  • living with a sexual partner
  • white
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Lowest rate of masturbation

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Hispanic women

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Maltz hierarchy of sexual interactions

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\+3 Authentic Sexual Intimacy
\+2 Making Love
\+ 1 Positive Role Fulfillment
Sexual Energy (ground 0)
-1 impersonal interaction
-2 abusive interaction
-3 violent interaction
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authentic sexual intimacy

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emotional openness and closeness; feelings of ecstacy

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making love

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pleasure focused; mutuality; experimentation

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positive role fulfillment

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social-role behavior; religious or cultural duty; sex for reproduction

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impersonal interaction

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lack of responsibility for birth control; sexually transmitted infections, or well-being of self or other

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abusive interaction

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sexual dominance and coercion

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violent interaction

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sex used to express hostility; rape

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cunnilingus

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oral stimulation of the vulva

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fellatio

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oral simulation of the penis

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intromission

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insertion of the penis into the vagina

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tantric thought

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an erotic act of love between a god and a goddess created the world

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sexual fluidity

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variablilty in the same-sex and other-sex attraction and involvement at different times and in different situations throughout the life span

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Pyschosocial Homosexual Orientation Theories

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  1. the by default myth
  2. the seduction myth
  3. freuds theory
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By Default Myth

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unhappy heterosexual experiences causes a person to become homosexual

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the seduction myth

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young men and women become homosexual b/c they have been seduced by older homosexual people or they have “caught it” from someone

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Freud’s Theory

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childhood experiences and relationships with parents affect orientation

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gender nonconformity

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a lack of conformity to stereotypical masculine and feminine behaviors

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Surgical procedures to “cure” homosexuality

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  • castration
  • lobotomy
  • psychotherapy
  • drugs, hormones
  • hypnosis
  • shock treatment
  • aversion therapy
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gay affirmative therapy

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therapy to help homosexuals cope with negative societal attitudes

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conversion therapy/sexual reorientation therapy

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therapy to help homosexuals change their orientation

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serial monogomy

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moving through a succession of sexually exclusive relationships

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cohabitation

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living together and having a sexual relationship w.o being married

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domestic partnership

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an un married couple living in the same household in a committed relationship

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cohabitating women

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have partners who are less educated tha, or as educated as they are

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married women

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tend to have husbands who are better educated than they are

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collectivist cultures

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  • contemporary india, Pakistan, Thailand, the Philippines, the middle east, and other parts of asia and Africa
  • emphasize group goals
  • primary purpose of marriage is to unite families rather than just 2 people
  • often parents arrange marriages
  • more likely to practice polygamy
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individualist cultures

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  • present day Canada, Europe, USA, Australia, brazil
  • stress individual desires and goals over family interests
  • place more emphasis on feelings of love as a basis for marriage
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matriarchal society

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a society in which women carry the family name through the generations and govern the economy. and social affairs of the community

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Successful marriage interactions ratio

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5 positive to every 1 negative

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nonmonogomy

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sexual interaction outside of a couple relationship, whether the couple are married, living together, or identify themselves as a couple

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extramarital relationship

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a term used only for married couples

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consensual extramarital relationship

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a sexual relationship that occurs outside the marriage bond w/ the consent of one’s spouse

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swinging

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the exchange of marital partners for sexual interaction

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open marriage

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a marriage in which spouses, with each others’ permission, have intimate relationships with other people as well as with the marital partner

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polyamory

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multiple consensual sexual relationships of trios, groups of couples, and intentionally created families that emphasize emotional commitment

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nonconsensual extramarital sex

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sexual interaction in which a married person engages in an outside sexual relationship w/o the consent (or knowledge) of his or her spouse

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paraphilia

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uncommon types of sexual desires

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atypical sexual behaviors

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behaviors not typically expressed by most people in our society ranging from mild to full blown and often occur in clusters

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erotosexual differentiation

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the development of sexual arousal in presonse to various kinds of images or stimuli

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Noncoercive

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strictly solo activities or involve the participation of consensual adults who agree to engage in, onserve, or just put up with a particular variant behavior

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Coercive

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involve unwilling recipients of the behavior

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Types of Noncoercive paraphilias

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  • fetishism
  • transvestic fetisishm
  • sexual sadism
  • sexual masochism
  • autoerotic asphyxia
  • klismophilia
  • corprohilia
  • urophilia
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Types of coercive paraphilias

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  • exhibitionism
  • obscene phone calls
  • voyeurism
  • frotteurism
  • zoophilia
  • necrophilia
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Fetishism

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a sexual behavior in which a person obtains sexual excitement primarily or excluseively from an inanimate object or a particular part of the body

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transvestic fetishism

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a sexual behavior in which a person derives sexual arousal from wearing clothing of the other sex

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sadomasochistic behavior

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the association of sexual expression with pain

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sexual sadism

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the act of obtaining sexual arousal through giving physical or psychological pain

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sexual masochism

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the act of obtaining sexual arousal through receiving physical or psychological pain

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autoerotic asphyxia

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the enhancement of sexual excitement and orgasm by pressure-induced oxygen deprivation

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klismaphilia

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an unusual variant of sexual expression in which an individual obtains sexual pleasure from receiving enemas

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coprohilia

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a sexual paraphilia in which a person obtains sexual arousal from contact with feces

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urophilia

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a sexual paraphilia in which a person obtains sexual arousal from contact with urine