final Flashcards
Primary sex characterstics
biological differences that men and women are born with
secondary sex characterstics
biological difference that adapt over time ie. deep voice
gender=no biological dif
proximity
liking people who are near you
- may signal familiarity and/or similarity
- close to partner more rewarding
sociosexual orientation
biological difference that adapt over time ie. deep voice
6 characteristics of intimacy
knowledge, caring, interdependence, mutuality, trust, commitment
tertiary sex characterstics
behavioral dif
behavioral confirmination
behavior towards partner matches their specific relationship beliefs & values
- respond to partners lateness w/ a similar or accusing ?
- partner behavior w/ their partner will likely respond in accordance to partner’s behavior self-filling prophesy
perceptional confirmination
partner behaves in ambiguous ways, they use their specific relationship beliefs & values to interpret the behavior
-rejection sensitivity & relationship beliefs/expectations
demand/withdrawel
1 partner wants a change & pushes the other for discussion on the topic, the partner does not respond (women want change, 1 partner wants more than other)
-partner A disengages b/c parner b demand (polarized)
misattraction
people meet in a situation where their heart rates increase each person may feel the arousal was caused by the other person, finding the person more attractive
reciprocity
liking people who like us, judgement on how likely it is that someone will like us in return matters for overall appeal
balance theory
balance theory
people desire consistency among their thoughts, feelings, and social responsiblity
sexual attraction
potential intimate partner
attraction
positive feelings about someone
primary appraisals
noticing the conflict & determining whether there is any threat posed by it
secondary appraisals
understanding why the conflict is occurring
involves self blame
Public health model
help couples before distressed
- primary prevention
- secondary prevention
primary prevention
help couples before have difficulties
secondary prevention
help couples before their problems b/c worse
clinical health model
helping couples once they are distressed
stress spillover
stress from one area of someones life impacts the other