Final Flashcards
Implicit self vs Self-Concept
Implicit self: knowing you have a body and can experience and act on the world, and that your body and the world are separate
Self-concept: organized set of beliefs about the self, “Who am I?”, Emerges around 18mo (Rouge test), start using me pronoun
Self-concept as a social construction
Internalize others’ perception
Direct: you incorporate the way your caregiver describes you
Indirect: how you are treated
First Self-concept in toddlers
Gender is first to emerge
2.5-3yo form a basic gender identity
Due to gender socialization (very early, not due to infants behaviour (Baby x Studies)
ie. parents misjudged ability of boy vs girl in slope (underestimate girls)
ie. play, language differences, toy purchases, division of chores, media exposure)
Self-Socialization of gender
3-5yo, rigid gendered stereotyped behaviours
Actively seek out gender related info
Dur to lack of gender constancy (understanding gender remains same despite changes in appearances or behaviour)
6yo: relaxes because gender constancy is achieved
Transgender children study
Trans children show strong identification and preferences aligned with current gender in a way that is very similar to cisgender kids
Means they follow a similar development pattern
Self-socialization is mostly what causes it (not parents), suggest it is internal not a result of socialization
Timeline self-concept
Early childhood:
- 3-4 yo
- gender is central
- focus on physical attributes and activities
- unrealistically positive and confident
Middle childhood:
- 7-12yo
- describe self with traits and qualities
- more balanced and accurate
- changed due to increased cognitive abilities, and greater engagement in social comparison
Adolescence:
- 13-18yo
- think of themselves in abstract ways
- more concern about social acceptance
- egocentrism (imaginary audience)
Forming an Identity
- Exploration: question parental and societal values and experiment
- Commitment: consolidation of choices made
Marcia’s 4 identity statuses
Trajectory: diffusion , moratorium/foreclosure, achievement
Diffusion: no exploration no commitment (lack of interest, common in kids)
Moratorium: exploration but no commitment (confusion and anxiety, necessary stage)
Foreclosure: commitment without exploration (obedient children w authoritarian parents)
Achievement: achieved in early adulthood
Critics: WEIRD samples, continuous process, can restart later on in life
Non-Social play
Unoccupied play: briefly watched things (0-3mo)
Solitary play: focused on own activity (3-24mo)
Onlooker play: watched other children play (starts @2)
Social play
Parallel play: next to each other without interacting (2-3yo)
Associative play: play together but different goals (3-4yo)
Cooperative play: play together for same goal (4+yo)
Importance of play
Social-emotional development (cooperate, ToM)
Cognitive development (problem-solving, trial and error, language skills)
Motor development (unoccupied play fosters skills)
Adults on play
Study: kids played longer and explored more when experimenter squeaked toy by accident. Teaching discourages children from discovery
They need to learn on their own, adults can follow their lead
Children’s choice of friends
Similarity: age, popularity, personality, academic motivation
Proximity: live close by, same school, same extracurricular
More likely to be friends with same gender (emerge @3yo, peaks @13
Start hanging out with other gender @13 (especially girls)
Timeline friendships
1-2yo: pref for some kids over others (smile and touch more)
2-3yo: develop more complex social behaviour (parallel play, imitating)
3-5yo: concept of friendship (playing together), emergence of preference for same gender
6-8yo: based on similar activities
9-12yo: expands to include care, trust, help
Ado: defined by self-disclosure and intimacy (start having other genders @13)
Sociometric status
degree of popularity (measured anonymously grouping in 5 status groups)
Popular: 11%, liked by many disliked by few, socially skilled, good emotion regulation, assertive but not aggressive
Rejected: 13%, disliked by many liked by few, fewer social skills, aggressive vs withdrawn, more aggressive ones
Controversial: 7%, liked and disliked by many, hold traits of popular + rejected-aggressive
Neglected: 9%, neither liked or disliked, less social and disruptive,
Average: 60%, moderate amounts
Short term: neglected and controversial might change
Long term: average and rejected are most stable