Final Flashcards
What is the main goal of negotiating?
Win-Win; seek beneficial results for own client in a Cooperative manner
Facial Expressions:
Smile:
Relaxed:
Frown:
Tightness:
Flinch:
- SMILE INDICATES PLEASURE
- RELAXED FACE INDICATES RELIEF
- FROWN INDICATES DISAPPOINTMENT
- TIGHTNESS INDICATES ANGER
- FLINCH INDICATES SURPRISE OR DISAPPOINTMENT
Scratching head/brush cheek
Puzzled; rephrase question
involuntary raising one brow
skepticism; reframe statements to seem more credible
twisting hands/ gripping armrest
frustration; just be aware; shows trouble with neg.
Drumming on table
impatience; person is displeased with process
biting low lip/ fingers through hair
frustration or stress; back off a little
eyes wandering/looking at watch
boredom/disinterested; ask questions that get them involved
shifting in chair/open mouth without speaking
indecision; unsure how to proceed; give them a minute to get things together
sitting on edge of chair
interested; shows getting close to agreeing
playing with glasses/looking at notes
used to cover silent meditation; they are unsure; give them time
leaning back with hands on head
confidence; actor is pleased; could be a sign of dominance
steepling elbows out hands together
confidence; actor is pleased
palms extended out with fingers facing up
usually person is being verbally assaulted; shows person is displeased with conduct; back off
rubbing hands together in anticipatory manner
anxiously waiting for other side; don’t be too generous
casual touching
sincerity; risk of neg. reaction
open/uplifted hands or arms
sincerity or honesty; this is all I got
crossed arms/legs- high up
combative- signs of impasse
crossed arms/legs- low down
defesive posture= sign of impasse
direct eye contact
could be friendly; if aggressive might end the neg there