Filter Theory Flashcards
Kerckhoff and Davis (1962) devised the filter theory by…
Comparing attitudes and personalities of student couples in short-term and long-term relationships.
The filter theory explains…
How such romantic relationships form and develop.
The filter theory states that…
A series of different factors progressively reduces the range of available romantic partners to a much smaller pool of possibilities.
First level of filter.
Social demography.
2nd level of filter.
Similarity in attitudes.
3rd level of filter.
Complementarity.
Social demography refers to…
A wide range of factors all of which influence the chances of potential partners meeting each other in the first place; includes geographical location, social class, etc.
More likely to meet people who are physically close to you and who share several demographic characteristics.
Key benefit of proximity.
Accessibility.
It doesn’t require much effort to meet people who live in the same area.
Although we might frequently encounter people who live further away, our most meaningful and memorable interactions are with people who live nearby.
Outcome of first filter.
Homogamy.
You are more likely to form a relationship with someone who is socially or culturally similar.
Similarity in attitudes.
We find partners who share our basic values attractive in the earlier stages of a relationship, so we tend to discount available individuals who differ markedly from us in their attitudes.
Kerchoff and Davis found that similarity in attitudes was important to the development of romantic relationships, but only for…
Short-term relationships.
There is a need for partners in the earlier stages to agree over basic values, the things that really matter to them; this encourages greater and deeper communication and promotes self-disclosure.
Byrne (1997) described the consistent findings that…
Similarity causes attraction as the law of attraction.
If such similarity doesn’t exist, then the relationship will fizzle out.
Complementarity.
Concerns the ability of romantic partners to meet each other’s needs.
Two partners complement each other when they have traits that the other lacks.
Kerckhoff and Davis found that the need for complementarity was important for the…
Long-term couples.
At a later stage of a relationship, opposites attract.
Complementarity is attractive because it gives two romantic partners the feeling that together they form a whole, which adds depth to a relationship and makes it more likely to flourish.
Limitation: Complementarity may not be central to all longer-term relationships.
A prediction of filter theory is that in the most satisfying relationships partners are complementary, for example one partner may have a need to be dominant and the other need to be submissive.
However, Markey and Markey (2013) found that lesbian couples of equal dominance were the most satisfied; their sample of couples had been romantically involved for a mean time of more than 4.5 years.
This suggests that similarity of needs rather than complementarity may be associated with long-term satisfaction, at least in some couples.