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relational transgressions
highly problematic situations where core rules of relationship are violated
core relational rules
can be anything; established by people in the relationship
emotional residue
left behind after core relational rule is violated
truth bias
assume people we care for tell the truth
helping orientations
assume people that care for us will help us rather than hurt us
forgiveness
cognitive process that consists of letting go of feelings of revenge and desires to retaliate
cognitive process
intentional thought
principle of irreversibility
once communicated it remains communicated forever
Five Levels of Forgiveness
- healthy for you
- altruistic
- sake of relationship
- you would want it in return
- believe you are equals
altruistic
giving without expecting in return
possible reconciliation
(self) offender must admit cop-ability
conditional reconciliation
(verbal) communicating regret and apologizing
processual reconciliation
process of proving the apology
Peggy McIntosh
White Privilege: Unpacking the Invisible Knapsack
inclusiveness
general acceptance and appreciation of differences
commitment
willingness to coexist
contemplation
critical thinking and self-awareness
conflict
culture grows and evolves through _______, not the avoidance of it
Triangle of Success
- home
- school
- community
Maslow’s Hierarchy of Needs
- physiological
- safety
- social
- esteem
- self-actualization
poverty of spirit
caused by any condition which decreases behavioral energy
poverty of affirmation
occurs when not provided with validation, support, or encouragement
poverty of opportunity
if doors to legitimate opportunity seem closed or nonexistent
poverty of hope
occurs when you doubt things will ever get better