Family And Marriage Flashcards
How old were elite women when they married?
Between 13 and 18
How old were elite men when they married?
Mid twenties
How old were not elite people when they married?
Early to mid twenties
How many people who married had married before?
As many as half
What did the later age of marriage between commoners mean?
They had extended adolescence which was spent in apprenticeship
who were elite marriages closely controlled by?
heads of families
what was the sacramental bond of marriage created by?
consent alone-marriage vows did not have to be exchanged in church nor was a priest’s presence required
what was needed to prove the marriage in a church court?
two witnesses
what were the two types of contract?
present and future
what registered future contracts binding?
consummation
an unconsummated future contract could be broken up by mutual consent or if one partner made a present contract with another person
what was a contract usually followed by?
solemnisation
once entered how could a marriage be dissolved?
only through death
how did divorce work?
it did not dissolve a marriage it only meant that the couple were no longer required to live together
people who were divorced could not re-marry so long as the other person lived
what did divorce end?
the obligation to have sex
why were not all couples free to render consent?
impediments
what did impediments include?
a previous marriage, force to enter contract, blood relationship, affinity (relationship created by sexual union but not limited to marriage), impotence (inability to have sex)
what was a contract made in private known as?
a marriage before God
what was the only way in which a present tense contract could be broken?
through the existence of an impediment
what were clandestine marriages?
those that were improperly solemnised
what were the couple to ask parish priests once they agreed to marry?
to announce before the congregation on a Sunday that the two in question intended to enter into marriage-this was to flush out any impediments
After banns had been proclaimed 3 times and if no one came forth to declare an impediment solemnization could proceed
what happened to priests who solemnised marriages where an impediment had been called?
he was liable to be summoned to explain himself before the Commissary court
who kept a close eye on the couple between the contract and solemnisation?
the public to make sure that they were not breaking any of the marriage sacraments
what was the approved liturgy during solemnisation known as?
the sarum rite
how did marriage patterns differ between rural and urban areas?
a greater proportion of those living in rural areas married earlier than those living in towns
what strata of society was clandestine marriage more common for?
the lower strata
what did clandestine marriage provide an escape from?
an unwelcome betrothal
in practice clandestine marriage made it possible for people to contract and dissolve their own marriages
who did the lower classes usually have their weddings witnessed by?
the clergy