Family and households - Couples Flashcards

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What is a household?

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A household is a person living alone or a group of people living together, not necessarily related.

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What is a family?

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A family is a group of people related by marriage, blood or adoption.

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How was the Victorian family in the 19th century?

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In the 19th century, the Victorian family was very patriarchal:
- women themselves were seen as property
- upon marrying a woman’s property became her husband’s
- access to divorce was unequal

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What is meant by the domestic division of labour?

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The domestic division of labour refers to the roles men and women play in relation to paid work, childcare and housework.

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What is meant by the instrumental role and expressive role?

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Men undertake the instrumental role meaning being the breadwinner going out to work and bringing money and providing for the family’s needs.
Women undertake the expressive role meaning staying at home, looking after the children, doing the housework. e.g. cooking and cleaning

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What is parson’s view on the domestic division of labour?

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The division of labour between spouses is due to biology. This is as men are physically stronger so more like to take on more manual tasks which is why the should be the breadwinner.
Whereas wives are suited to having children, they are biologically more nurturing and caring so should do most of the housework and child work and looking after the husband after a stressful day.

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How has parson’s idea on the division of labour between spouse ben criticised?

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Parson’s idea is criticised as in postmodern society, women are doing more paid work; arguably the old system benefits men much more than women, as they do most of the unpaid domestic work, which may b repetitive and boring. This meant women were financially dependant on husbands.

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What two types of conjugal roles did Bott identify?

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Bott identified segregated and joint conjugal roles.

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Describe segregated conjugal roles.

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Traditional nuclear family of men having their role of breadwinner, women have their role as homemaker.

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Describe joint conjugal roles.

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Couples share tasks such as housework and childcare, whilst spending their leisure time together.

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How is leisure time spent in couples with segregated conjugal roles?

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Men usually spent leisure time with fellow male colleagues and go to the pub together and have drinks. Whereas women often spent leisure time with female kins.

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How is leisure time spent in couples with joint conjugal roles?

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They may take their kids out for the weekend, have a nice meal, go to the cinema together.

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What did Willmott and Young find about the symmetrical family?

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Willmott and Young researched WC families in Bethnal Green in the late 1950s.
They found it was very traditional, but things were changing.
They take a march of progress view of history and the family’s place within it.
They found women were working more, men doing more around the house,
Couples had become more privatised- spending leisure time together.

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What did Yillmott and Young argue was the cause of the family becoming more symmetrical?

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Change in women’s positions- going out to work spending less time in the home.
Geographical mobility- families were smaller so more likely to move around and find jobs.
New technology- labour saving devices made housework faster e.g. hoover, fridge-freezer. men more interested in doing housework as its quicker shorter and simple.
Higher standard of living- there was more money coming in and people had more disposable income and can use it to buy labour saving devices.
These make the family more symmetrical as men and women doing similar things.

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How does Ann Oakely criticise Willmott and Young’s march of progress view with the husbands she studied?

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Oakley argued husbands interviewed only helped 1x a week- hardly symmetrical.
She argued there’s some evidence of increased involvement of husbands in housework.
Many of the fathers thought they were ‘good fathers’ because they played with children in evening and at weekends, but this tend to free up time for wives to do more housework.

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What is the feminist view of housework?

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Oakley argued domestic labour was sex typed. Men tended to do the DIY and gardening. While women did the cooking and cleaning.
Women continue to do more housework than men. And of the domestic labour men do it tends to involve the pleasant aspects of childcare e.g. taking them to the park getting ice cream.
Men tend to get an extra half hour more free time than women.

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What has the impact of paid work made couples become more equal?

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Since the 1970s its become the norm for women to work and bring in a second income.
The vast majority of married cohabitating women work now vs 1970s.

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What did Yee-Kan (2001) find?

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Better paid younger, more educated women do less housework per week.

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What did Gershuny (1994) find?

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Women in full time jobs did less housework. The longer they had a full time job, the more domestic work their husbands did.
Couples whose partners have a more equal relationship were more likely to have a more equal relationships themselves.

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How does Gershuny explain in 2 ways how the family is becoming more symmetrical?

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  • A gradual change in society’s values (e.g. equal opportunities for women)
  • change in parental models (e.g. children’s voices are heard more and they are at the heart of the family)
    However he agreed with Oakely that domestic labour was sex-typed.
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What is Crompton’s 1997 view on the domestic division of labour?

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Crompton argued that changes in the domestic division of labour were connected to economic factors.
Women earn more so men do more at home.
But pay is unequal women’s pay is 3/4 of men’s pay.
As long as pay is unequal the domestic division of labour will be unequal.

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What did the British Social Attitude Survey (2013) find about the roles of men and women in the family?

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There was a fall in the number of people who think its a man’s job to be a breadwinner and women’s job to be a homemaker.

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What is the dual burden?

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Ferri and Smith (1996) found today women carry a dual burden of paid and unpaid domestic work.
This is because many feminist argue there’s little evidence for a new man.

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What did Morris (1990) find about unemployed men?

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Unemployed men avoid housework due to a crisis of masculinity they are unsure what their role is in the family is anymore and fear helping out with housework will seem effeminate.

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How does Ramos (2003) criticise Morris’ findings?

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Ramos found there was total equality in this situation men would do the housework more if women spent more time working and vise versa.

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What is meant by emotional work?

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Emotional work is work related to handling other and own emotions. e.g. children go to mother when there are being bullied or upset.

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What is the triple shift?

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Duncome and Marsden (1995) found that women undertake paid work unpaid domestic work and emotional work, resulting in a triple shift.

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Summary of March of progress V Feminist view

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  • Evidence suggest movement towards equality, but not very much.
  • evidence is highly conflicted, findings from different studies show paradoxical trends.
  • When it comes to housework and childcare equality appears some way off.
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What are gender scripts?

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These are the expectations of men and women in a relationship.

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What is Dunne (1999) view on gender scripts on the domestic division of labour?

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Dunne argued that the domestic division of labour continues in straight couples because of deeply ingrained gender scripts.
These seem to not exist in same-sex couples.

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What does Weeks (1999) say about the roles in same-sex couples?

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Weeks argues that same-sex relationships offer more opportunities to negotiate roles.

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How is there inequality in decision making?

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There is inequality in who controls the family’s income and who has the power to make those decisions.

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What are the ways that there is inequality in decision making?

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Men get more from women’s labour that they give more back in financial support.
The financial support men give to women comes with strings attached e.g. sexual favours.
Men make the big decisions about money e.g. buying a house, going on holiday.

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What things did sociologists find about women and their decision about money?

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Kempson (1994) found WC families deny their own needs to meet the further needs of other members of the family.
Graham (1984) interviewed separated women who stated that children were better off on benefits.
There was often no money set aside specifically for women, who will see spending on themselves as denying money for their family/ children.

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What did Pahl and Vogler (1993) find?

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They looked at how each partner’s contributions to family income affects decision making.

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What are the two types of control over decision making?

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  • Pooling (joint responsibility for expenditure)
  • Allowance ( husband earns, pas women an allowance which covers all expenditures, man keeps surplus for himself e.g. on leisure activities)
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what trend did Vogler (1994) find?

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There was a sharp increase in pooling (19% to 50%).
There was a drop in the allowance system (36% to 12%).

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Which two of the types of control over income is more common?

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Pooling is more common in dual earner families, but men still making more financial decisions.

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What are the reasons Hardill (1997) and Finch (1983) found for why men had the most control over income?

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Hardill (1997): men’s career still take priority.
Finch (1983): women’s lives are shaped around their husband’s career.

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How did Edgell (1980) rank decisions taken by husband and wife?

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Edgell ranked decisions into very important (financial taken by husbands)
important ( children and holidays, taken jointly)
less important ( food, clothes, decor, taken by women)

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What are the reasons for the decisions men and women take?

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Often the case was because men still earning more than women in the workplace.
Feminists dispute this and argue that socialisation, culture and gender scripts play a part.

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How do feminist go against the reasons for the decisions men and women take?

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Feminists dispute this and argue that socialisation, culture and gender scripts play a part.

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What is the personal life perspective on money?

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Nyman (2003) suggests that money has no automatic fixed or natural meaning to it & every couple defines this and controls it in a different way.

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What is the same sex perspective on money?

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Same sex couples give different meanings to control of money of money in relationships. some research suggests that same-sex couples attach no importance on who has control over the money- links to no gender scripts.

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What did Weeks (2001) find about co-independance in couples?

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Weeks (2001) found co-independence in couples, where there’s some sharing, but both partners retain control over some money and retain a sense of independence.

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Define domestic violence.

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Domestic violence is physical, psychological, sexual, financial violence that takes place within an intimate or family-type relationship and forms a pattern of coercive and controlling behaviour. It may involve ex/partners other relatives.

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What are the statistics on domestic violence found by the Home Office (2013)?

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1.2 million women suffered from domestic abuse.
over 400,000 sexually assaulted.
70,000 raped.
thousands were stalked.

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Further statistics on domestic violence.

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British Crime Survey (2007) Domestic violence accounts for almost a 6th of all violent crimes.
Mirrlees Black (1999) Most victims are women and 99% of incidents against women is committed by men.
Nearly 1 in 4 women has been assaulted by a partner at some time in life and 1 in 8 repeatedly so.

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What did Dobash and Dobash find about domestic violence?

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Their research was based in Scotland, based on police and court record as well as interviews with women in women’s refuges.
There were examples of wives being slapped, beaten pushed about, raped or killed by their husbands.
Violent incidents could be set off by what a husband saw as a challenge to authority (e.g. wife asking why the husband came home late).
They argued that marriage legitimates violence by conferring power and authority to husbands and dependency over wives.

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What are the problems of studying domestic violence?

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-Difficulty in obtaining valid information on the subject.
-Official statistics rely on reports received by individuals and the recording off these incidents by the police but not all are recorded correctly or reported.
-Self-report methods people may not understand question, may not answer, might lie, exaggerate or forget.
-Male researchers may receive different answers from female researchers.
-Difficulty in defining domestic violence.

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What problems did Yearnshire find in identifying domestic violence?

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On average a women will suffer about 35 times before making a report.
its the violent crimes that are less likely to be reported.
Police may be unlikely to want to record, investigate or prosecute these cases as they do not want to get involved with the family.

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How do radical feminist explain the reason for domestic violence?

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They argue that all societies are patriarchal.
Men are the enemy- they are the oppressors and exploiters of women.
They argues that domestic violence keeps women under male control.

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How do marxist feminist explain the reason for domestic violence?

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Domestic violence is the product of capitalism, male workers are exploited at work and take this out on their wives.

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How would you criticise Marxist feminists explanation for domestic violence?

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It doesn’t explain why women are abusive to their male partners and why noy all men are abusive.

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Who are more likely to experience domestic violence according to the materialist explanation on DV?

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Families with fewer resources and those living on low incomes or in overcrowded accommodation (WC) are more likely to experience high levels of stress than others (MC). This reduces the chance of maintaining stable, caring relationships which increase the risk of conflict and violence. Those with less power, status, wealth or income are often at greater risk.